To self-objectify is to think of yourself as an object first and a subject second. People who self-objectify often consider their appearance to be for others and work on their bodies and attractiveness in order to please/not offend an imagined other. Self-objectification is usually discussed in the context of women. It is suggested that these women take on the “male gaze,” looking at themselves through an imaginary male judge.
I found this ad in Maxim magazine. It encourages men to self-objectify by suggesting that they should think about how an imaginary female judge might evaluate their appearance (“She’s totally checking me out MILK Nutritional Shake”).
It’s fascinating that a magazine well-known for objectifying women also participates (at least in running this ad) in encouraging men to self-objectify. Without suggesting that women and men are equally objectified in American culture, I think it might be interesting to talk about the extent to which we live in an objectifying culture, period, and learn to self-objectify whether we are men or women.








And here’s the calendar tracking several girls at once. Importantly, the application is password protected, and if one girl checks out the program she’ll only see herself list (and not various other girls that this guy must be hiding from her):







