A couple of days before Thanksgiving last week a faculty member asked me to provide some information for a grant application that is due at the end of December. I told him that I would get to it after Thanksgiving. The next day he sent another request about getting an answer to him immediately. If the info was something he needed before doing anything else I would have made time, but the requested data is essentially “I support this project because of A, B, and C” that can be inserted the day before the deadline. I sent the faculty member a polite note to remind him that I had a number of tasks due before Thanksgiving and I would provide the information the next week, as promised. Yesterday one of the directors of a university program told me about a favorite saying: “Your urgency is not my emergency.” I may have to start using that!
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Njeri — December 3, 2013
Wow! What a sense of entitlement! This faculty member needs to be in a place where you ask someone for a signature (nothing but a signature) and have to wait for it for three weeks!!!!! Which has really found me missing the days when you signed documents within 24 hours or less! I never took it for granted that I never once had to remind you to sign a document or act on a request once I'd informed you about it. I'm glad I didn't!!