In a recent article discussing the arrest of a local official in a prostitution sting, The San Gabriel Valley Tribune called upon sociologists to explain why men visit prostitutes:
Some men are excited by the illicit risky behavior of prostitution; others like the consumer-oriented and simple transaction of meeting sexual needs through purchase; others say they have difficulties getting involved in traditional relationships; and still others are looking for a different kind of sex than they can normally find, according to a study conducted by sociologist Martin Monto for the U.S. Department of Justice.
Janet Lever, a sociologist at California State-LA, weighed in an alternative opinion:
“It’s not about the sex act. It’s really about creating variety. They usually do the same acts as they do with their wife or partner. Secondarily it’s about getting more sex,” Lever said. Two-thirds of men wish they were getting more sex with their partner, while one-third of women do, Lever said. And prostitution provides an outlet for more sex that many men perceive as safer and less complicated than having an affair.
Commenting on high profile busts such as those of former New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, Lever added:
“It certainly seems like these guys show a great deal of arrogance… and they have a lot more at stake than the average joe schmoe, which shows they are either delusional that they won’t get caught or they are truly driven for this act. Joe schmoe does it too, and he may be sacrificing his marriage, but not his career.”
The author adds some demographics to the story: The 1992 National Health and Social Life Survey (led by sociologists Edward Laumann and John Gagnon) found that 16 % of men report ever visiting a prostitute, with .6 % of men visiting a prostitute each year.
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Maria — November 1, 2009
Why men visit prostitutes? Victor Malarek has studied this topic extensively and wrote a book about it entitled: "The Johns - Sex For Sale And The Men Who Buy It".
According to Malarek there are basically two types of johns. Those that are ruled by their loins believe that what they are doing is natural. They mistake socialization for biology. The other type visit prostitutes for ideological reasons. These men speak of class wars and hatred and 'monster' women - women who have been brainwashed that they're actually equals of men. They are profoundly uncomfortable with empowered women.
If men want more sex with their wives than get rid of the Madonna/Whore complex and accept women as equal, sexual human beings. Sex education that views sex as healthy and fun for both sexes should be part of the school curriculum. Sexual experimentation is part of a child's natural development.