No way!
“Over 40 and Over Men?†reads a headline gracing the cover of this month’s MORE magazine. I’m intrigued. I look inside and read: “More and more women are living the ultimate do-over: falling for another female. Meet the gay and grey generation.â€
That’s me.
While not feeling particularly grey, my family and I have been living “the ultimate do-over.†I buy the magazine and bring it home, compelled to devour every word of this narrative – a narrative that my family and I are living out, that is just now beginning to make its way into the cultural conversation.
“A normal part of coming out as an adult is the feeling of being an adolescent on fire, caught in the body of a 40 to 50 year old,†says my friend and colleague Joanne Fleisher, author of Living Two Lives: Married to a Man and In Love with a Woman. Ah, the memories…I was that adolescent on fire (my friends will attest!) in my mid-40’s.
AND married. Just like the women profiled in MORE.