Cross-posted at The Atlantic and Family Inequality.
The Census Bureau has a new report on nonmarital births. Based on the American Community Survey — the largest survey of its kind, and the only one big enough to track all states — the report shows that 35.7 percent of births in 2011 were to unmarried mothers.
Beneath the headline number, two patterns in the data will receive a lot of attention: education and race/ethnicity. I have a brief comment on both patterns.
Education
The education patterns show a very steep dropoff in nonmarital births as women’s education increases. From 57 percent unmarried among those who didn’t finish high school to just nine percent among those who have graduated college.
Given the hardships faced by single mothers (especially in the United States), it looks like women with more education are making the more rational decision to avoid childbearing when they’re not married. And I don’t doubt that’s partly the explanation. But we need to think about marriage, education and childbearing as linked events that unfold over time. The average high-school dropout mother was 26, while the average college-graduate mother was 33. Delaying childbearing and continuing education are decisions that are made together, based on the opportunities people have. And completing more education increases both the likelihood of marriage and the earning potential of one’s spouse.
So I think you could tell the story like this: Women with better educational opportunities delay childbearing, which increases their marriage prospects, and makes it more likely they will be married and financially better off when they have children in their 30s.
Race/Ethnicity
The differences in nonmarital birth rates between race/ethnic groups in the U.S. are shocking, from about two-thirds for black and American Indian women to 29 percent for whites and 11 percent for Asians.
This pattern is related to the education trend, naturally, but that’s not the whole story. One aspect of the story is race/ethnic geography of opportunity in this country. I’ve written before about the shortage of employed men available for women to marry, a particular expression of racial disparity first popularized by sociologist William Julius Wilson a quarter century ago.
Using the new numbers on nonmarital birth rates for each state from the Census report, I compared them to the male non-employment rate — specifically, the percentage of unmarried men ages 22-50 that are not currently employed. Here’s the relationship:
The states with more single men out of work have higher rates of nonmarital births. Single mother, meet jobless man.
My conclusion from these patterns is that unmarried parenthood is primarily a symptom of lack of opportunity, especially for education and employment. Surely that’s not the whole story. Maybe we should be persuading people to marry younger or shaming them into avoiding parenthood. But I think those approaches increase stigma more than they change behavior or improve wellbeing — Pew surveys show that 77 percent of people already say raising a family is easier if you’re married and only 12 percent of single people say they don’t want to marry. So who needs convincing? Meanwhile, if we addressed the problems of education and employment, is there any doubt family security and stability would improve, and with it the wellbeing of children and their parents?
Philip N. Cohen is a professor of sociology at the University of Maryland, College Park, and writes the blog Family Inequality. You can follow him on Twitter or Facebook.
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Gman E. Willikers — May 15, 2013
How about exploring the social millieu of the formative years in which these groups grew up and formed their opinions on the pros/cons regarding single parenthood. To simply dismiss social shaming as inadequate because everyone already knows raising a child alone is more difficult than doing so with a partner is buying into a complete non-sequitur. If you truly want to know if social shaming with respect to the specific issue on point is effective, then analyze the use of shaming in the respective social environments in which these different groups spent their formative years. That, by itself, would not be definitive, but it would actually be relevant and valuable research. But only if, in fact, one is searching for truth as opposed to mere confirmation.
Yrro Simyarin — May 15, 2013
It's a really nasty spiral. Black men are more likely to be unemployed, so they are not socially stable, so they do not form stable pair bonds with their women. So they have children out of wedlock, which makes them less likely to have a stable income. Which means their children will likely go to worse schools, and and be more likely to have behavioral issues at those schools. Roughly half of black males drop out of high school, making them unemployable. Which feeds the cycle again.
*Something* is destroying the traditional black family, whatever the original cause. And as our whole society is set up to use the family as its basic building block, this is a big problem.
I'd expect that it's a problem among poor white areas, too, but I don't see the graphs separating that out so well.
WG — May 15, 2013
"...the more rational decision..." I hope you meant to say, "the more economically rational decision". Not waiting or not wanting marriage is by no means irrational from many standpoints, particularly in certain areas where the only status that may realistically be achieved is that of being a parent. Plus, there are several assumptions that you make that are left without support; that single parent households are not positive, that having more money is positive, that stability and security are good things, etc. I would expect such pop-science statements from a layman, but from a sociology professor would expect otherwise, or at least a token display of a lack of bias. oh well.
somebody42 — May 15, 2013
This analysis is valuable, but I think you've not addressed the "Which came first..." problem. You address potential causation in only one direction.
"Women with better educational opportunities delay childbearing..."
Having children can also make it harder for women to finish school, especially if they don't have a co-parent. Of course, marriage is only a crude estimate of whether or not there's a co-parent and how involved the co-parent is.
MLE — May 15, 2013
I expect my media to be flavored with the assumption that single parents are, by their nature, defective people. This article does not exceed my expectations, and it has some lovely graphs.
Allie — May 15, 2013
The findings of this study aren't too suprising; groups who are more economically disadvantaged, institutionally and socially discriminated against, and more likely to have a criminal record (making unemployment more likely) tend to have higher incidences of single motherhood. Uh huh. But the framing of research is really narrow and limiting. What's glaring at me is the presumption that equates marriage with coupledom.
I wonder how this study defined 'single mother', because it may be that this dataset does not count unmarried couples, which potentially paints a very different picture. Marriage as an institution facilitates legal parameters for people sharing things in their lives; particularly economically. And certain kinds of people do it; out of social expectation, or practical necessity. But an unmarried couple, one of which was unemployed, might not feel it economically necessary to get married.
Basically, WHO KNEW institutions (marriage) (education) (capitalism) set up by the people in charge works best for the people in charge?! So yes, improving education nationally and better informing poor naieve promiscuous ethinc minority girls about birth control are might make some dint in the right direction. But looking at how our institutions operate and rethinking what provisions would be actually economically beneficial for the kinds of lifestyles people live, instead of expecting them to strive towards someone elses' idea of 'the good life', would be better. How bout single mums contributing to each others' childcare and income, do they get tax breaks? How bout families that consist of mums and grandparents?
I really think this article needs to more critically examine the insitution of marriage. The analysis of the data just skims the surface and Philip Cohen you must really love marriage cause I think you can do better.
Kimberly Cochran — May 15, 2013
What needs to happen here is educational opportunities need to be better expanded in both feasibility and affordability for single mothers.
I had my daughter my junior year of high school at a school that was so inaccessible to me as a teen parent that I chose to get my adult high school diploma at community college over the summer before my daughter was born to ensure I would have at least a high school education before she came. I was fortunate (privileged?) enough to still have college on my radar and stumbled into a university environment where I was able to live on-campus for very cheap with my daughter and was living in a state at the time that counted school as a work activity in order to receive welfare benefits, allowing me to be a full-time student and only do work-study 10 hours a week. Had that situation not fallen into my lap, I don't think college would've been possible for me as a single mom for a long time and given me the motivation to put off child-bearing to pursue schooling and make a more economically sound life for my little family. That fortuitous educational scenario has led me to a career that pays well, a Master's degree, and a chance to marry when I was ready to, not because I was desperately poor. I don't even know of another situation where this would be possible and promoted to single mothers (outside of the fact that many are already coming from failing school districts... another issue in and of itself!), but breaking down barriers to the traditional school structure is important and necessary to helping minimize the poor outcomes associated with unwed childbearing -- it's not the single-ness of the mother that we should be focusing on, it's the lack of educational and, consequently work, opportunities.
Sujay Kentlyn — May 15, 2013
Any idea what proportion of 'nonmarital' births occur in the context of stable cohabiting relationships?
Kali — May 16, 2013
This article and most comments seem to make a lot of assumptions about causality. Maybe single parenthood is the best option under the circumstances. Instead of pushing marriage on people, we should ask what policies will support families, even non-traditional families.
Ryann Soutar — May 16, 2013
I suspect "single parenthood" has become too broad a term because it covers so many different arrangements along a wide-spectrum of functionality. I get really frustrated when a study or article does not clearly define what they mean by "single parent". I see such a variety of family structures around me in day to day life, many of which do not involve a married couple, and I don't see that variety reflected in lay articles or research papers. It's just "married household" or "married couples" and "single parent household" or "single parents". Most "single parent households" I've encountered in real life have more than one adult in them whether it's a cohabiting couple (who may or may not both be the biological parents of any children, there's a whole number of combinations), close friends, room mates, extended family, etc. This could totally be a fluke of where I'm living and/or my social circle but I have no idea because it doesn't seem like anybody is exploring this much.
B — May 17, 2013
"rational" decision? According to what you want, maybe.
But children bring with them status (therefore self-definition), a way to structure your life and (possibly) a "family" (therefore condoning marraige, moving in together, etc. for many people).
haeyeonJ — May 20, 2013
Asians win again :P
And it's more like lack of ambition, btw.
If someone's first reaction is to tell you how bad they have it, they're not cut out for success.
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