Annie C. and another reader sent us a link to a post by Ryan North at what are the haps about a set of gendered “survival guides” for kids published by Scholastic (and which the publisher now says it won’t continue printing). Boys and girls apparently need very different survival skills, which the other sex shouldn’t know anything about:
In his post, Ryan provides the table of contents for each. What do boys and girls need to be able to survive? For boys, no big surprises — forest fire, earthquake, quicksand, your average zombie or vampire attack, that type of thing, many including, according to teen librarian Jackie Parker, practical and useful tips:
How to Survive a shark attack
How to Survive in a Forest
How to Survive Frostbite
How to Survive a Plane Crash
How to Survive in the Desert
How to Survive a Polar Bear Attack
How to Survive a Flash Flood
How to Survive a Broken Leg
How to Survive an Earthquake
How to Survive a Forest Fire
How to Survive in a Whiteout
How to Survive a Zombie Invasion
How to Survive a Snakebite
How to Survive if Your Parachute Fails
How to Survive a Croc Attack
How to Survive a Lightning Strike
How to Survive a T-Rex
How to Survive Whitewater Rapids
How to Survive a Sinking Ship
How to Survive a Vampire Attack
How to Survive an Avalanche
How to Survive a Tornado
How to Survive Quicksand
How to Survive a Fall
How to Survive a Swarm of Bees
How to Survive in Space
Girls seem to require a very different set of survival skills. Like how to survive a breakout — a skill boys don’t apparently need, though they also get acne. Other handy tips are how to deal with becoming rich or a superstar, how to ensure you get the “perfect school photo,” surviving a crush, whatever turning “a no into a yes” is (persuasiveness, I suppose), picking good sunglasses, dealing with a bad fashion day, and of course “how to spot a frenemy”:
How to survive a BFF Fight
How to Survive Soccer Tryouts
How to Survive a Breakout
How to Show You’re Sorry
How to Have the Best Sleepover Ever
How to Take the Perfect School Photo
How to Survive Brothers
Scary Survival Dos and Don’ts
How to Handle Becoming Rich
How to Keep Stuff Secret
How to Survive Tests
How to Survive Shyness
How to Handle Sudden Stardom
More Stardom Survival Tips
How to Survive a Camping Trip
How to Survive a Fashion Disaster
How to Teach Your Cat to Sit
How to Turn a No Into a Yes
Top Tips for Speechmaking
How to Survive Embarrassment
How to Be a Mind Reader
How to Survive a Crush
Seaside Survival
How to Soothe Sunburn
How to Pick Perfect Sunglasses
Surviving a Zombie Attack
How to Spot a Frenemy
Brilliant Boredom Busters
How to Survive Truth or Dare
How to Beat Bullies
How to be an Amazing Babysitter
Aside from the multiple items clearly focused on appearances, Ryan points out that several others emphasize looks. Camping is “excellent for the skin,” while the seaside survival chapter provides a lot of fashion tips.
Many of the girls’ tips are about surviving social situations or dealing with emotions — embarrassment, keeping a secret, dealing with bullies. These are all probably more useful to kids than knowing how to survive quicksand, and tips for handling stardom are statistically more likely to be useful at some point than dealing with a T-Rex. So the issue here isn’t that the boys’ guide is inherently more useful or smarter or better; probably all kids should be issued a guide to surviving Truth or Dare (also, dodgeball). But the clear gendering of the guides, with only girls getting tips about dealing with social interactions, emotions, and looks, while outdoorsy injury/natural disaster survival tips are sufficient for boys, illustrates broader assumptions about gender and how we construct femininity and masculinity.
Comments 42
peebs1701 — June 15, 2012
Other people have pointed out that having separate guides would be much less of an issue if they had just been labeled "Outdoor" or "Adventures" and "Social Situations" instead
Umlud — June 15, 2012
While I was a boy, I can honestly say that I have never had to deal with any of the topics listed in the boy's column, except for a forest, a desert, and a fall.
Conversely, I've had to survive (and occasionally continue to have to survive) all of the topics listed in the girl's column, except soccer tryouts, becoming rich (*sigh*), sudden stardom (*sigh*), fashion disaster, teaching my cat to sit, pick perfect sunglasses (since I wear prescriptions), and a zombie attack.
In short, the book for boys could well be re-labeled, "How to survive things that most people won't have to deal with," and the other (with the removal of "a zombie attack" and possibly the being rich and having stardom) could be re-labeled, "How to survive things that most people will have to do at some time in their lives."
True, the 10-13 year-old me would have bought the boys' survival guide - provided I didn't immediately recognize that most of the info was likely covered in my brother's Boy Scout handbook.
Tusconian — June 15, 2012
I find the covers so interesting too. The "boy's" cover mostly focuses on the danger, and you can't even see his face. The "girl's" cover is just as dynamic, and would imply that even if the girl's book is gendered, there is some crossover in the context of "dangerous situations" (though it seems that fictional zombie attacks are the only crossover). The girl's appearance is the focus of the cover, though, including a trendy survival outfit (probably more useful than the boy's blue polo shirt, honestly) and long shiny hair, and she's inexplicably on the phone while ziplining. The covers give the implication they're basically the same book, but one of them is more pink. The chapter titles imply that they're actually "Worst Case Scenario: Pre-teen Edition" and "How To Survive Everyday Tween Situations, plus a few fashion tips." As a kid, I would have probably bought both of these books after scanning the index, because "Boys only" seems like an entertaining read, but "girls only" would seem useful (still don't know how to pick out sunglasses).
lilyboosh — June 15, 2012
Nowhere I see how to survive riding a zip line in the girls' book. Likely the-girl-who-takes-a-call-while-on-a-zipline is dead. Maybe that was the missing piece of advice.
Guest — June 15, 2012
The stupid. It burns.
Celina — June 15, 2012
The only thing I see tht they have in common is "How to Survive a Zombie Invasion" and "Surviving a Zombie Attack " which could be counted as the same, strictly speaking,...
wait...zombies? What am I reading?
Eva Sta 7 — June 15, 2012
Apparently boys never have to say their sorry.
Katymacg — June 15, 2012
Is it me, or is "How to turn a no into a yes" for girls especially disturbing?
diamonddame — June 16, 2012
I think the boys only/girls only thing has a lot to do with the age thing though. Until I was like 8 or 9, i really kind of didn't like boys and all the little clubs we made as girls never included them. we didn't even invite them to birthday parties until like.. jr high..and it was just a wonderful time where female relationships had nothing at all to do with men and their dicks.
it's sad because i would have wanted the 'girl' book, can't lie but someone made a comment about how the skills in that one are more useful and everyday and so, more interesting to read.
missbossy — June 16, 2012
I'm glad they have how to survive a Zombie attack in both versions. At least this bit of essential information is not gendered.
R.J. Sadler — June 19, 2012
....The girl's guide sounds exactly like the sort of thing my little sister would want, at age ten.
As in choose for herself, based on personal interest in content. If others want to live in an androgynous culture, cool. Great. Ostracizing kids like my little sister for wanting to be a pink and frilly archetypical girls, though, by cutting off and limiting her interests is offensive.
...More to the point, if I handed her the 'boys' guide, stripped of gender, she would be alternatively uninterested (pretty much any natural disaster article) or grossed out (she hates polar bears and blood, and she doesn't like how everyone talks about zombies all the time).
I'm all for gender-equity in society. I am flat-out firmly against any action which tells a child, any child, that they can't self-identify with whatever identity they'd care to choose for themselves. This is f'cking ridiculous.
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R.J. Sadler — July 22, 2012
Hey mod - isn't filtering out dissenting opinion the prime tactic of conservative thinkers?
That being said, you did post an article promoting censorship in lieu of education. I suppose I shouldn't be surprised.
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