Crossposted at Jezebel.
Sully R. drew our attention to a set of images of wedding-related dresses at brides.com. She searched through the thumbnails of brides in the entire gallery; out of 684, there were about 43 African American women, a few identified as Hispanic, and none, as far as she could tell, of Asian women. She also points out, “Of all the models that could be considered full-figured or curvy, most…were black.”
There’s something else going on here, the type of thing that just makes you wonder, given how much businesses spend on marketing and design and such, how it still made it through. Here is an image of the front page of the gallery, showing the only two thumbnails with Black women in them:
Did you catch it? The only two pictures that have Black women in them…are in the category “Maids in Heaven.” I’m sure this was referring to being a “maiden” or something of that sort (I first thought of “bridesmaid,” but then it’s a bride in one picture, so that doesn’t really make sense).
I can’t really fathom how no one noticed and thought, “maybe we should change that title, just to be safe.” It shows, at the very least, a remarkable insensitivity to part of the presumed audience — not thinking about how the language of the categories might have different meanings depending on who it referred to and that for some groups, the use of “maid,” however innocuously meant, would have unpleasant connotations.
Interestingly, the one area where Sully noticed interracial groups, including Asians, was in pictures of flower girls:
She said there were actually quite a few Asian girls in these photos. Presumably this is a safe place to show interracial mixing; it implies a childhood innocence where everybody gets along and is less likely to alienate adults who might be more uncomfortable with images of an interracial couple getting married.
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Comments 38
Ian — July 31, 2010
I think this is a case of your own biases clouding your interpretation of an unrelated title.
What if the picture with black women in it had been the one labeled "Urban chic", or "After dark"? You could have drawn very similar conclusions.
Mayday — July 31, 2010
I think the intended pun was probably "[a match] made in Heaven" + "bridesmaids" = "Maids in Heaven", even though it does show a bride in the second picture. Maybe the heavenly "match" is between the bride's and bridesmaids' dresses? Sort of convoluted I guess.
Lori — July 31, 2010
Maybe I spend too much time thinking about adoption, but the children of color could also be assumed to be the transracial adoptees of white parents.
Charlotte — July 31, 2010
What is meant by the title of this post "Including Race..."? I'm confused.
Mike — July 31, 2010
By reading the links behind "Maids in Heaven," the meaning of the title is better clarified. Under the single bride (which is just a close up of the bride in the other "Maids in Heaven" photo), the paragraph reads the following:
"Fabulous the attendants may be, but the bride is the star of the show."
The other picture talked about the "Maids" in their pretty dresses. The second photo was just a continuation of the article/subject.
cooper — July 31, 2010
"Maids in Heaven" was the title of the shoot, and as the previous commenter noted it is explained on further reading. Intent actually matters, and your further assumption that there is something wrong with being a maid is in itself problematic.
Simone Lovelace — July 31, 2010
I think some of the comments here would be different if the original post had included a shot of the entire from page.
There are a total of 16 images, not just the 6 shown here. The "maids in heaven" is the ONLY category which features a woman who is obviously non-white.
There are no less than four images for "Urban Chic," two for "After Dark," and two for "Queen for a Day."
Would it have been so hard to include a woman who was clearly non-white in ANY ONE of those shoots, each of which used multiple models?
(It's possible, of course, that some of the models in the other shoots do have some non-Caucasian heritage, but all are extremely light-skinned.)
Danny — August 1, 2010
I decided to click through and examine some of the images beyond the home page shown above.
In the "Maids in Heaven" photo shoot, nearly every single person depicted appears non-Caucasian. There was one woman in a later photo who may have been white, but I could barely make out her features in the photo.
I then decided to look at some of the other pictures for the photo shoots. (I didn't get far--there's over 600 pictures.) In the sixty or so I looked at there is exactly one black person, and no other apparent non-white people. The black woman appears in a conga line, so she isn't exactly the star of the show. The "Urban Chic", "Bridal Party", "After Dark", "Walking on Air", and "Earth Angels" had no women who weren't white. "A Wild, Wild Wedding" contained the conga line image.
However, I did notice that the pictures all depict women in very empowering light. When a woman appears with a man--groom or otherwise--she is generally the one in control of the situation. For example, in one picture she is driving a moped with the groom holding on behind her. In another, a different bride has her arm slung jauntily over her grooms shoulder. There is even a picture labeled "Breadwinner" which shows only the bride (holding some bread... which was a little strange, but I'll take what I can get). So, despite the apparent lack when it comes to racial minorities in the U.S., they do seem to care about feminism to a degree.
Although, now that I've typed that I have to wonder if they were only depicting brides in empowering positions because they were brides... I think on any other site, even with the same photographers, the women depicted wouldn't have been so in-charge.
Syd — August 1, 2010
IDK about the rest, but noticing a lot more diversity in children than in adults? Spot on. It's true throughout the media (and possibly real life, but that's another kettle of fish). Watch Nick Jr and Playhouse Disney and PBS Kids. Most of the casts are diverse, with relatively even (though still slightly white-skewed) ratios, and different cultures are either a learning experience, or simply a detail. It's even possible for a minority to be a main character, and still no one considers Dora The Explorer a show for Puerto Rican children.
Watching Nickelodeon and Disney aimed at grade and high school aged kids, the diversity is still there, but it's toned down. They will still have a major minority character as a friend of the (inevitably white) main character, with probably at least one non-white antagonist, and a few bit characters of other races who seem to be classmates, neighbors, or less-close friends. But the black best friend is ALWAYS of the same gender as the white main character, and usually finds a crush of their same race, to make sure that very little interracial romance goes on. The nonwhite characters are also only nonwhite incidentally. It's very rarely mentioned, they act and react to everything the same way that white characters do (which may not be totally unbelievable, considering the economic demographics as well). In the few instances that a nonwhite character gets their own show (That's So Raven, The Famous Jett Jackson) the same formula is followed: (for example) black boy has a white male friend and black female friend. White friend has crush on white cheerleader. Black boy is allowed to have one-episode long involvements with white girls (as long as no kissing is shown) and ultimately over the arc, he ends up with black female friend.
Media aimed at adults is a lot less inclusive. Yes, there is always at least one or two token characters, but they are never love interests, and typically, secondary characters at best. There are a few exceptions, which are typically a female Hispanic (usually quite fair skinned) love interest, or a big badass black male sidekick.
It's not surprising that this leaks into advertising, and especially bridal advertising. I remember seeing a David's Bridal television commercial. Beautiful blonde woman is getting married. That's nice.....she has three flower girls, two white, and one black. How cute. But.....her groom is white.....so that's certainly not his niece or sister. All the bridesmaids and groomsmen are white, so she's not the child of one of them. While it's certainly possible that the black child was adopted or the child of an unpictured friend, it still looks like they randomly picked up a random black child just to even out the flower girl party. But heaven forbid that the bride has black friends, or worse, might be marrying a black man! It seems like the implication in over-arcing media is 'be diverse and open-minded and understanding when you're a kid.....but remember that interracial relationships are wrong, and when you grow up, it's better just to fit into the status quo. But, aww, aren't multiracial rainbows of children cute?'
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Sully R. — August 11, 2010
i don't want to embarrass the fine folks at socimages, but i thought it was sort of interesting that they assumed i'm a girl. although it's probably fairly safe to assume that someone who's willing to comb through 600+ wedding dress pictures has a vested interest, in this case that would be wrong :P
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