We’ve posted many times on the way that cleaning is gendered feminine in a way that makes women ultimately responsible for housework. The Today segment embedded below, however, does not suggest that cleaning is a feminine task. Instead, it turns the tables by arguing that men are better at cleaning and that women need to learn how to “Clean Like a Man.” Ah-mazing. The second cleaning is framed as masculine, it becomes a story about men’s superiority over women.
And, of course, for men cleaning is a war (“Gather the troops,” “Establish a plan of attack,” “Plan the victory party”) and women reward themselves by drinking white wine, playing music, and watching a chick flick.
For examples of how women are responsible for the home, see help cleaning, Olympic laundry, this KFC advertisement offering moms a night off, this a commercial montage, Italian dye ad with a twist, women love to clean, homes of the future, what’s for dinner, honey?, who buys for the family, liberation through quick meals, “give it to your wife,” so easy a mom can do it, men are useless, and my husband’s an ass.
See also our historical examples of the social construction of housework: husbands “help” wives by buying machines, gadgets replace slaves, feminism by whirlpool.
Hat tip to Jezebel.
Lisa Wade, PhD is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of American Hookup, a book about college sexual culture; a textbook about gender; and a forthcoming introductory text: Terrible Magnificent Sociology. You can follow her on Twitter and Instagram.
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Courtney — May 24, 2010
Wow, this is incredible. Can we imagine ungendering both cleaning and ways of accomplishing tasks, please? (If guys are better at prioritizing, what are we better at?)
The best part is that many of these are tips that I've taught to guys in the past! Also, I love how the editor is teaching a man how to clean like... himself.
Samantha C — May 24, 2010
what? Huh? Holy cow.
I'm a woman and on some level I do sort of enjoy cleaning, in the same way that I enjoy sewing and painting - I like tasks that give me very clear visual signs that I have done work. Start at one side of the room, and there's a nice clear line where the cleaning has been done and where it still needs to be. So wtf is this about women dabbling all over the place and being unable to focus? Only men approach tasks one at a time and organized?
Truly Scrumptious — May 24, 2010
Reminds me of something from Women's Studies 101. Sorry I can't give proper credit, and clearly my memory is too muddled to even describe it properly, but basically the idea was that if men had periods, the topic wouldn't be considered secretive, shameful, or dirty. It'd become a contest, i.e., "Dude, I had a 3-pad day!" or treated as something to brag about....
Joel Bass — May 24, 2010
Bleh. Awful. I guess, though, as the editor of a women's magazine, it's her job to preserve the idea that women and men are really, really different from each other. Otherwise she'd just be the editor of a magazine.
Anonymous — May 24, 2010
I clean that way. I guess this is more evidence that I'm not a "real woman" - must be my masculine aspie brain. Whatever.
Diamond — May 24, 2010
Reminds me of an xkcd (webcomic) response to "Porn for Women". Hold on...
http://xkcd.com/714/
There. NSFW... because it says porn. And the F word.
Nate Stokes — May 25, 2010
Well. As a member of a highly 'modern' (I guess) household, male, who does all of the so called womens work (meaning domestic chores and cleaning, mostly because I am not as lazy as my partner haha) I find this offensive on so many levels. This insinuation that men don't clean, or know how to. The idea that women are stupid and only good for cleaning. That girls are scared of loud noises and machinery bit. That turtle wax is a mens only product. And so on. That this kind of thing is still acceptable is frightening.
All of this relates really closely to the post above this one about creating the belief that this were much worst than they were 40 years ago to make now seem better in the supposed progress we have made, but after watching this I am just shocked at how little we really have progressed. It's like Tim Allen is running the world.
I feel ill over this.
Duff — May 25, 2010
This is similar to how men are "chefs," but women just cook.
Acediance — May 25, 2010
As a very methodical, analytical woman, I am SO sick of the notion that "women are scatterbrained and disorganized while men are methodical and logical." Ick.
odorunara — May 29, 2010
My reward for cleaning my apartment? No tatami bugs. Living in Japan without central heating/air and with tatami mats, which are the bane of my existence, means that cleaning is war. I don't need to have a penis to think like that, thanks.
Luna — May 29, 2010
The impression this left on me was, even at "women's work", men are better.
Emily — October 11, 2010
How do you cite this video?
Kspratt11 — July 11, 2011
NOtice his gender performativity :well it was plugged up so i had to use it" HARDY HAR HAR