What do we really mean when we ask someone if they’re a dog person or a cat person? Wait… think hard… what are you really asking?
I think we’re asking if a person is more masculine or feminine. After all, don’t we stereotype women as cat people and men as dog people? And don’t we think men with cats are a little femmy or, at minimum, sweeter than most… even, maybe, gay? And don’t we imagine that chicks with dogs are a little less girly than most, a little more rough and tumble? The cat person/dog person dichotomy is gendered.
This might explain why we continue to insist that dogs and cats are natural enemies. We tend to insist that dogs and cats don’t get along in the face of millions of households in which they get along just fine. These are Gwen’s pets (clockwise Shadow Cat, Rocky, and Corky):
They are clearly at each other’s throats constantly.
And, have you ever noticed that being a dog person is sort of cooler? Like, it’s cool to be a dog person, but less cool to be a cat person? I mean, no one ever fears ending up a “crazy dog lady,” and it’s not just because of the lack of alliteration. You see because gender is hierarchical, so is the dog person/cat person dichotomy. I hate being asked if I’m a dog or cat person. I have two cats, but I love dogs equally, and that doesn’t make me less cool than Gwen. (We’re obviously equally cool.)
Also!
Cats aren’t all alike. Neither are dogs. So you can’t be a dog person or a cat person. It’s nonsensical.
And another thing!
If you want to get all stereotypical about it, I’ll just say that (1) if dogs are dependent, passive, and happily subordinated to their owners, while cats are independent but offer nice companionship, and (2) women are “cat people” and men are “dog people,” then (3) men are really oppressive bastards who can’t stand a relationship with an equal and women are inherently democratic and don’t desire power (none of which I believe). So let’s not go there, okay?
Lisa Wade, PhD is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of American Hookup, a book about college sexual culture; a textbook about gender; and a forthcoming introductory text: Terrible Magnificent Sociology. You can follow her on Twitter and Instagram.
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Megan — February 16, 2009
Hmmm... I know plenty of manly men who are "cat people" and womanly women* who are "dog people". I agree that there is such an association with gender and pets, but I don't think it is an especially strong one and I think it is also very culturally limited. In Russian culture, for instance, cats are often seen as masculine and dogs as feminine. The word for dog is grammatically feminine in Russian, while there exists both masculine and feminine versions of "cat" (though the feminine is the default) so this may have something to do with it.
*Topic for another post: why it sounds normal to say "manly men" but weird to say "womanly women" instead of "girly girls"...
AL — February 16, 2009
I completely agree. I never want to admit that I prefer cats, even to some of my friends. I think you hit it right on the head: dogs=masculine and cool, cats=feminine and weird. it's always like, "ugh, you like cats? dogs are SO much better..."
a. brown — February 16, 2009
ACK! I was seething about a similar subject all weekend. Please do a post on the new alpo.com website that casts pets with "feminine" or stereotypically homosexual attributes as needing to be fixed. Seriously. It's a little maddening.
Shoshannah — February 16, 2009
I have two cats and a dog- am I a cat's person or a dog's person? :)
However, I do remember a funny line- some time after I brought home my current dog (large, muscular black mixed breed), a women in the neighborhood who know my previous dog, a muscular boxer, asked me why do I keep bringing home "dogs for guys" ("של בנים" was the original Hebrew phrase she used. better translation anyone?).
Tinose — February 16, 2009
That's always bugged me. I'm a cat person and a dog person (and a horse person and a ferret person and a bird person and a - let's just say that if I ever manage to get a house of my own, I will have a menagerie) and it's kind of amazing to watch how people's opinions of you do drop somewhat when you mention that you're a cat person as well as being a dog person. Maybe it's just that I tend to run into dog people more often, but it's weird.
chuk — February 16, 2009
Really? I love declaring that I'm a cat person, and then going on to explain basically what you outline in your closing paragraph. It makes dog people (a.k.a "oppressive bastards who can’t stand a relationship with an equal") squirm ;)
abc — February 16, 2009
"For the record, I cannot *stand* small yappy dogs and generally try to avoid any dog that weighs less than 20 pounds."
Why the effort to publicly decry any association with little dogs? I find the social stigma surrounding these animals interesting. I find it more interesting that it has caused an author of a sociology weblog to react in this way.
Ranah — February 16, 2009
Hm. Cats and dogs are usually compared as
egoistic - pragmatic (cats) VS autoritarian, obedient (dogs)
Tim M — February 16, 2009
Of men with cats, they're usually more often depicted as nerdy than effeminate or gay in my experience/prejudice.
As for the insanity plate, I think cats put up with more of the things an overly doting owner does than dogs. A dog will bark and bite, but cats tend to be quiet, slower to bite, and are often declawed, again in my experience. Plus, homes that horde dozens of cats are more well known than homes with many dogs, since cats are not as territorial or aggressive AFAICT. Hording is seen as insane, so you can see the logic, despite how tenuous, connecting the ideas.
Tim M — February 16, 2009
Click the link in my name (goes to petswhowanttokillthemselves dot com in case there's a URL filter) to see a website that shows some extremes of pet ownership in a darkly humorous light. I leave it up to you to call it appropriate or not.
SarahMC — February 16, 2009
Abc, I think it's a similar dynamic at work! Large dogs = masculine whilst tiny dogs = feminine ("not really dogs!"). People, even women, don't want to be associated with anything cast as feminine or "girly."
Sabriel — February 16, 2009
@abc: If dogs are male and cats are female, then small dogs are basically effeminate males. By that logic, the social stigma surrounding small dogs is like homophobia. Homosexuality doesn't make men any less masculine, but I believe that homophobia stems from the societal perception that one of the men has to be the "woman" in the relationship.
*takes academic hat off*
Having said that, small dogs generally annoy the crap out of me. Some small dogs are cool, but in general, they just bark and yip at you constantly. It's like, Oh my god. I am not a threat to you or your owner. Please shut up.
Don't forget that there are differences between breeds and species beyond what we humans would like to project upon them.
Gwen Sharp, PhD — February 16, 2009
abc--
Good point. My comment was in the context of me thinking about how it is assumed that all women like small dogs (whereas when we see a man with a Yorkie, we laugh). I think in my case, there's also a rural/urban thing at play here: I grew up on a ranch, and we had large dogs. Small dogs were what snobby city people had--dogs that didn't need to be able to work or take care of themselves.
But to be totally honest, part of it is also that I'm terrified that I will step on them and crush them, since I am a bit of a klutz.
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T B — February 16, 2009
I know someone who once called all male cats "gay."
Phil — February 16, 2009
I don't understand the sentiment "that being a dog person is sort of cooler." Never heard the expression "He's a cool cat?" I find when visiting others, cats are more laid back, relaxed and, what's the word, oh yeah- cooler. On the other hand, friends' dogs usually try to jump on me, lick me among other things that would be unacceptable human behavior. Sure it's in their nature, but that doesn't mean I want to be licked...
I believe the reason why some ladies accumulate large numbers of cats is because dogs are far too high-maintenance. Imagine constantly having to take out each of a dozen dogs to do nature's business, and all the walking/bathing! Cats will all use the same litter box(es). Cats are more convenient too if you wish to travel. At work, there always seems to be someone asking another to take care of their dog while they're away. A cat would require a visit only every other day for food/litter changing.
I really grow tired, too, of dogs charging the fence to bark at me, especially if I'm listening to music. Not friendly at all. Cats have tact.
And this big dog/little dog notion throws the whole masculine/feminine theory right out the window. Why not just ask people "Are you a big dog person or a little dog person?"
Titanis walleri — February 16, 2009
"I mean, no one ever fears ending up a “crazy dog lady,” and it’s not just because of the lack of alliteration."
On the other hand, dog hoarding is much rarer than cat hoarding, which is a form of mental illness (and probably how the "crazy cat lady" stereotype originated).
"Why the effort to publicly decry any association with little dogs?"
They're more likely than regular-sized dogs to be spoiled and poorly trained, for one.
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thewhatifgirl — February 17, 2009
I'd like to add my voice as someone who doesn't agree that being a dog person is supposedly "cooler". Especially amongst the people I call friends, cats seem to be the favored pet but no one really cares either way. (I love my friends.)
When I ask if someone is a dog person or a cat person, I'm actually asking about how giving to others they are. Having a beloved pet in general requires some selflessness (you're going to eventually have to clean up some sort of nasty excretion no matter what kind of pet you have - that's love!) but dogs require really frequent walks and a lot of attention whereas cats don't even like to be walked and will decide for themselves when they need attention and when they don't. I find that dog people do actually like having someone so dependent on them, but I wouldn't necessarily assign a hierarchical value to that since I adore my dog-people friends as much as I adore my cat-people friends.
thewhatifgirl — February 17, 2009
Oh, also, I'm a cat person myself, and fully willing to acknowledge that I'm a little more selfish than dog people. That shouldn't be held against me either.
Ryan — February 19, 2009
well that's what I get for being out of town for a week. I already commented that I was a "cat guy" on the "get that dog some alpo post". Little did I know I was playing right into the gendered hegemony of the establishment.
What, I'm a straight man, who like cats...doesn't that mean I'm shuffling off societies pressures?
My favorite dog is a collie, is that buch or femme? Crap...now I'm so confused.
Sandra — March 1, 2009
I'm so glad you wrote this post! I'm been recently pondering this cat person / dog person stigma as well. I hadn't pinned it down to gender though, but I had noticed how other females--even female cat owners with no dogs--will hurry to insist they are dog people. Even I do this! (I am a female with a cat but no dogs) And I was trying to puzzle out why it is "cooler" for girls to say they are dog people.
As for males, my personal experience has them evenly split between declaring themselves cat or dog people....
I'm not sure if you've hit the nail on the head with the masculine or feminine thing or not, but it's something to ponder.
Justine — March 2, 2009
People who stereotype due to someone's pet are ignorant in the first place.
So I guess it really doesn't matter.
dreikin — March 3, 2009
Interesting - I don't really associate cats and dogs as masculine/feminine. Usually, I view it in reference to some other stereotypes:
Cats: Independent, can take care of themselves, curious, low-maintenance, less social
Dogs: Not 'dependent' but tending towards grouping, require more maintenance, less curious more aggressive, highly social
Or, to use stereotypes for stereotypes:
Cats : Nerds/Geeks :: Dogs : Jocks/Socialites
Ann — March 8, 2009
Absolutely. Notice how cats are conniving villains in Disney movies. Also, animal cruelty in movies is generally perpetrated on cats.
Tuesday — June 22, 2009
I don't think it's a masculine/feminine dichotomy. I think it's more of an extroversion/ introversion dichotomy. Dogs are social pack animals and people who like dogs usu. like getting out and doing things with them like going for walks, going to the park, dog training classes, dog shows, dog competitions, etc. And these are activities that involve groups.
Cats are more difficult to "do" things with, and are pretty low maintenance and so are more suitable for people who like to stay indoors, curl up on the sofa and read a book or watch a movie with kitty on their lap. Of course any kind of person can own a cat or dog, but these are just the stereotypes.
Cynthia Etcheverry — September 3, 2009
I have had both cats and dogs and have a cat and 2 dogs now. I am definately a cat person. Dogs are good in their own way, but there's something about cats that just makes me love them like crazy.
Dogs kind of get on my nerves. They get dirty, stinky, bark a lot, and just kind of bug me. They have little habits that rub me the wrong way. I still like them and can't put them down too much, but they just don't turn me on.
My cat (and cats in the past) even if they're naughty, I just have to forgive them. They usually smell clean, their furr is so nice and their purr is so awsome. They are just so darn cute to me. My cat puts his head up to mine and we touch spiritual eyes. Since he's not always around, in my face, barking, making noise etc. it makes me appreciate him and want him around me when he does come around. It's like his disdain makes me love and appreciate him more. I definately think my cat loves me as much as my dogs. He just isn't so overwhelming. If I'm sad, he makes me happy, and if I'm happy, he makes me happier. He does funny cute little quirky things sometimes. Dogs are more predictable. As a matter of fact they're kind of boring compared to cats. Cats are so predictable. My cat looks like a little king or prince sitting on the car roof. He comes in and out of a doggy door but often meows and insists we let him in, like his doorman. If he's off in the woods he'll usually but not always come when we call. It always makes me proud to see him come running up if we call him. Not all cats would do that. My husband loves our cat too and our cat rubs his head on his goatee. He always brings me my cat to hold for a minute, (he only lets you hold him for a minute or two) to make me happy. He goes and gets him for me when I wake up from a nap or in the morning on weekends. It kind of creeps me out when people say they hate cats. It makes me hate them. I take it personally. There's nothing more glorious then putting my face in my cat's furr and listening to him purr. I don't like to have more than one cat at a time. I like to put one cat on a pedestal. I do like how my cat can go outside the doggy door and go potty outside and we don't need a cat box. We used to take him camping and on walks and he'd go potty on the walk on the leash. We put a bell on his neck to subdue his hunting. It has helped quite a bit. I do recommend that for those out door cats. He stays outside mostly, but comes in for food, treats and for a quick visit. He'll sleep on the foot of the bed sometimes when it gets cold. I hope I didn't bore you with this long post. Cats may seem dumb to some people, but to me, I can see why the Egyptians saw and felt about their divinity. Our cat reads our mind. He knows when we're waking up, when we done with holding him, etc.. Next to my husband, my cat is my best friend. To some that might seem sad or dumb, but if you knew how much love I get from and to him and how good he makes me feel you might think again.
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Paul Harrison — January 8, 2010
On the other hand, this metaphor could be used to de-gender traditionally gendered concepts of personality. I find it useful to classify people into cat-like and dog-like, where a cat-like person tends to get on well with dogs (metaphorical or not), and similarly a dog-like person tends to get on well with cats. Cat-cat and dog-dog interactions have characteristic failure modes.
If you are familiar with Joss Whedon's work, his characters can be classified in this way, and the relationship dynamics become very predictable... though he may personally think of this in terms of werewolves and vampires.
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Graham — February 6, 2010
Cat owners tend to be more intelligent:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/8501042.stm
Victoria — March 1, 2010
Check out this cartoon: Cats are Democrats, Dogs are Republicans
http://www.strangecosmos.com/content/item/103262.html
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Alexicute — March 1, 2010
i used to only like big dogs, mainly because of a bad experience with a friends particularly nasty chihuahua, but now I live in apartment land and everyone has small dogs because big ones just aren't practical in a small apartment. I have learned to love those lil things! Especially the miniature dachshunds.
b — March 1, 2010
I hate this distinction, too. Although, I'm not sure it's masculine/feminine entirely - almost all the hardcore "dog people" I know, who are really into training and even competing with their dogs, are women. The dog-centric behaviorists I admire most - Patricia McConnel, Pat Miller, Karen Pryor - all women. Hm. There DOES seem to be a bit of a divide in terms of "famous dog trainers" between women who espouse positive reinforcement techniques and men like Cesar Milan and the Monks of New Skeet (who, admittedly, have retracted a lot of what they said in the 70s) who favor dominance-based training techniques.
Anyhow. My husband considers himself a cat person and me a dog person, but I always have to insist that I'm a mammal person. I love almost anything with fur, have owned over a dozen species in my life, and want to own many of them again. I just happen to have dogs right now and not cats. And like you said, dogs and cats are individuals - I'm much less a dog person than I am a basset hound person. I like laid back, goofy dogs that don't look or behave like a labrador. There are tons of breeds that I wouldn't particularly want to own and would choose cats (or rats or rabbits or ferrets) over them any day.
amy — March 1, 2010
Ooh, one of my pet peeve subjects! I get so mad when people stereotype dogs and cats, mostly because the stereotypes of cats are horribly unfair and historically have been used to justify all sorts of cruelty. And then the stereotypes of dog and cat people just add to the problem.
I don't mind generalizations based on biological fact: dogs are pack animals and cats aren't, and certainly that makes a difference in their psychology. Also, dogs have a large number of chromosomes and have been heavily bred, so there's huge variety in psychological and physical traits of different breeds. Domestic cats are much more uniform.
But the idea that cats are necessarily stand-offish, contemptuous, independent, etc. is ridiculous. In my experience with cats (personally and as an animal shelter manager), a cat's personality depends a great deal on its interactions with people. Early socialization is very important, spaying/neutering has a large effect, and daily interactions also play a large role. My motto with cats is: you get out what you put in. If you ignore a cat and/or let it roam outside most of the time, the cat will adapt and not ask for much attention. If you raise a cat in a loving, interactive way, look in its eyes a lot, talk to it a lot, and keep it mostly indoors, it will almost always become a very close companion, demanding of attention, very affectionate, and very communicative. (Lack of early socialization and lack of neutering interferes with this).
When I'm doing the online dating thing I look carefully at a guy's attitude towards animals. I won't date anyone who doesn't like animals in general, and I'm wary about guys who merely tolerate cats. I guess I'm guilty of stereotyping here, but someone who doesn't like animals of all sorts strikes me as someone who has a hard time accepting and being fascinated by other living beings as they are; some people can only accept others if they act "correctly" or look pretty. I find nearly all animals incredibly fascinating; one exception is cockroaches, but I'm trying to be more open-minded!
Kunoichi — March 1, 2010
I've never quite "got" the gender associations of dog/cat people. To me, it's a matter of personal preference and circumstances. As a woman, I consider myself a dog person, with a preference with big, substantial dogs. Growing up, we always had both. Dogs were contributing members to the farm. They helped control our cattle as we brought them in for milking or rotated their pastures. They helped protect our other animals from predators. They warned us when people came onto our property. I spent many happy hours wandering the bush as a child in the company of our dogs. Cats, on the other hand, were stand-offish. They were good for keeping the rodent population down, but were as likely to kill our new chicks as the mice. We didn't get cats until we had kids. I felt having pets was really important for the kids, but our living circumstances prevented us getting a dog. Since then, cats have grown on me. Well... some of them. ;-) I'd still prefer to have a dog.
One of my favorite people is The Crochet Dude. Not only is he crochet designer and knitter, but a cat person who likes to cook. Doesn't make him any less "manly," as far as I'm concerned! *L*
June — March 1, 2010
What really throws this discussion out the window is when you own a cat that acts like a dog.
Grafton — March 1, 2010
Amusing.
I think the little dog stigma is much more pronounced than the cat thing. The idea that little dogs represent male homosexuality is interesting.
The yappy little dog stereotype is, well, because people who don't train and socialize their dogs can get away with it with an animal that is too small to be dangerous, but either have to get to work or get rid of a big dog when they discover that their neglect of their pet's social skills has resulted in a problem that can't just be tucked under their arm. Little dogs can and will, if required, learn to be quiet and polite, and I've met plenty of completely intolerable large dogs whose owners have chosen to lock them in the back yard rather than teach them to behave.
The 'yappy' and 'effeminate' stigmas about small dogs are, I think, pretty destructive. Working for a vet I never had a man express embarrassment to me that he owned a cat, but frequently found that I seemed to be getting asked to provide a sort of social approval of the small dog and acknowledgement of the masculinity of the guy who owned it. Grimacing guys saying, "I know it's girly, but he's really a cool dog," or guys joking around about how other guys would be so shocked to learn that he owned such a 'girly little dog.' Also plenty of people expressing to me that they would not want to own one of my personal favorite breeds, the papillon, because it is too girly.
Very much a pity, because those small dogs that were not bred to run madly about killing rats were bred to be pleasant and amusing companions for human beings, and they are good at it. Most dog breeds do not have several hundred years of breed history for just hanging about being nice, and want to do some sort of job, often one that's not compatible with life as a pet. Little dogs are also able to exercise in a smaller space, are easy to clean up after, are often welcome in hotels and can travel in the cabin on airplanes. They're superior pets for most Westerners in practically every way except the social message/response they get.
nahui — March 1, 2010
This false dichotomy does another nasty thing: It completely erases people who have other animals as pets.
I have owned two sets of pet rats over the course of the last five years. They are small, clean, convenient and affectionate pets, and -because they are intelligent, gregarious, curious, and eager to explore- they're very easy animals for people to identify with. Yet every single time I've begun to say as much to someone who considers themselves a dog- or cat-person, they've interrupted me to say, "There's no such thing as rat-people."
Kookaburra — March 1, 2010
If you like both cats and dogs equally, you could get an animal that combines the best of both - a goat. :D
But trust me, you get waaaaayy more funny looks when you say you're a goat person.
Grafton — March 1, 2010
Rats are great. They should be more popular. They're cuddly and nice and can be trained to do doggy-type tricks and come when called. I wish people would stop with the creepy thing about how they're not worth giving vet care to.
The funny social thing about rats is that they, like hamsters and gerbils are thought to be children's pets. For keeping a lot of cage-pets I am told, "You're like a little kid!"
Aquariums seem to defy gender rules. As far as I can tell, it's a predominantly male hobby, but not by very much, and it seems to be perfectly acceptable for a man to be obsessed with the appearance of the aquarium, arranging its decor and expending a great deal of effort in growing live plants inside it. My houseplants make me 'effeminate' but my aquariums are manly in spite of my somewhat obsessive efforts to make them pretty. I'd have to decorate them with disney princesses and pink plastic gravel for them to threaten my straight-acting cred. Riddle me that.
Fantine — March 2, 2010
I was initially attracted to my husband through a personal ad in which he mentioned his cat. I have noticed that introverts (which my husband and I both are) seem more likely to prefer cats to dogs as their personal pets, and extroverts are more likely to enjoy the company of dogs. I hadn't really thought of it as masculine or feminine, although I know that stereotype is out there.
Mother Huldah — March 4, 2010
my two biggest issues with cats are: the toll they take on Australian native birds, lizards, and small marsupial mice in suburbia and the bush, and irresponsible owners that let their cats roam, free to use my potted plants as the neighbourhood toilet and ill my carefully cultivated outdoor fish and bluetongue lizards, when as a dog owner i'm heavily fined if my dog roams. have a cat, or a dog, or a weasel or whatever, but be a responsible owner and contain your animal. and if you need a ratter, try an Australian Terrier, they're much more efficient.
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Patrick — May 9, 2010
I think this is absolutely incorrect. "Dog person" and "cat person" usually revolve more around people who are active, outgoing and social versus people who are more passive and keep to themselves (dogs and cats, respectively). Of course there are degrees within the groups of animals, but anyone who has owned a number of these different pets understands that they are generally true stereotypes of the animals, if not necessarily the people who own them.
Maybe your stereotype about the gender difference is a bit dated? I did feel when I was about eight that I out to get a puppy because somehow it seemed like the thing for a young boy to do, a view formed I think more from shows like Lassy than any more contemporary (late-80s) cultural influence. I quickly discovered, however, that dogs were not a good fit for me. I've been quite happy with cats ever since, and have never encountered any stigma related to being a male-heterosexual-cat person.
sue — May 9, 2010
Your basic premise that people who ask the question "dog person or cat person?" are really asking a question about masculinity/femininity seems fairly sound. Although the point about extroverted/introverted in the comments is also valid as well (since those also carry masculinity/feminity implications). While real human beings have personal/idiosyncratic pet experiences and preferences, this is one of those things that my husband the sociologist calls a "stereotype with some statistical validity." A far more interesting question than whether or not the stereotype is at all valid, would be an exploration of where the stereotype comes from. One person in commenting on the outdoor/indoor differences between dogs and cats, was probably on to something. Taking a historical perspective, dogs (other than "lap dogs") are integrated into human societies as working animals engaged in the type of work most frequently (but not exclusively) done by men -- hunting, herding animals, killing vermin, guarding. Cats were also integrated (much later) into human societies as working animals doing indoor clean up work. Dogs were viewed as companions, working companions from the beginnings of their domestication. Cats working activities however, were not companionable, and making cats into companions general removes them from working activities (i.e., barn cats are not pets, and cats as pets are not mouse/rat hunting workers). Cats as the familiars of (female) witches, goes back to the Middle Ages, suggesting some connections between darker views of femininity and of the character of cats (especially black cats). I would speculate that the femininization of cats as pets and lap dogs where both types of animals are non-working companions, is tied in more than one place and time to defining women in ornamental terms, especially in social classes where their labor was limited (i.e., they relied upon servants). Just some off the cuff rambling...
MY CAT PERSON/DOG PERSON RANT » Sociological Images « Firesaw — May 9, 2010
[...] I think we’re asking if a person is more masculine or feminine. After all, don’t we stereotype women as cat people and men as dog people? And don’t we think men with cats are a little femmy or, at minimum, sweeter than most… even, maybe, gay? And don’t we imagine that chicks with dogs are a little less girly than most, a little more rough and tumble? The cat person/dog person dichotomy is gendered. via thesocietypages.org [...]
Liza — May 9, 2010
I, a woman, am a dog person, and my male partner is a cat person. I've never had anyone even raise an eyebrow to that. I don't quite get where you're coming from.
Maria — May 10, 2010
You lost me when you assumed the question of whether someone is a dog person or a cat person is asking them about femininity/masculinity. I study gender and work in research (so this stuff is on my mind a lot) and I have honestly never thought that about he cat/dog distinction. Just thought you should know you might sometimes be assuming too much. Take care :)
Julie — May 10, 2010
I totally agree with you! I got the dog=masculine, cat=feminine memo when I was really young, and as a kid I classified myself as a dog person in order to seem less girly.
katie — May 10, 2010
Um, did you actually use the word 'chick' to mean 'woman'? That's a whole other rant right there...
laura — May 10, 2010
oooh my gosh THIS THIS THIS THIS. While the other commenters seems to disagree, I am totally in line with everything you said.
Anonymous — May 10, 2010
Yes! Finally, someone understands what I'm saying. This is a deeply gendered assumption and I hate it! Thanks for a great rant.
Madeline — May 11, 2010
I see this trope reinforced in children's media all the time. Anyone remember "Homeward Bound"?
I distinctly remember being 2 or 3 and thinking that dogs were all boys and cats were all girls.
Chen — May 11, 2010
I think in general it's just assumed most people are "dog people" and cats are anti-social animals that are too hard to like. Even though I'm a woman people assume I prefer dogs because how can anyone love cats?
Jo — September 6, 2010
Also... I had a boyfriend in highschool who was most definitely neither a cat person nor a dog person but a gerbil person. What does that say about his gender performance, sexuality, etc? (lol)
JACK — November 14, 2010
I find when going on vacation, i place my cats in the freezer.......when i return, usally a week or two later, i put the now frozen cats in the microwave .....I find if you use the ''defrost'' button then you use full power.[remember all microwaves varie in power. ] THE CATS REVIVE WITHIN A 2 MIN. TIME FRAME. I HOPE THIS WAS HELPFUL.......... :]
JACK — November 14, 2010
HEY THAT WAS A JOKE................I LOVE MY CATS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ema — February 17, 2011
I like all animals... I have a cat, a dog, birds and fish... So what does that make me?
Kathy — February 22, 2011
When I ask if someone is a cat or a dog person I ask because I'm hoping they aren't allergic to my cats. It's not about whether or not they are masculine or feminine.
Niczo — March 8, 2011
Based on many comments that I find interesting as well as my own notions (excluding those which to me appear as personal bias), I will attempt a broad generalization, that certainly for all practical intents and purposes is completely useless but still perhaps interesting.
A "dog person" I would assume adhere strongly to the principle of social hierarchy in both personal, spiritual and political matters. Someone is big and strong in terms of physical force, therefore he/she dictates terms. Someone is smart, popular, has alot of money, is spiritually enlightened, therefore he or she is the natural leader of your social group.
A "cat person" I imagine to be more independantly minded. Such individuals form social groups not around hierarchy but rather careful selection. They still derive their confidence and self-image from social acceptance, this is inevitable since humans are flock animals. What differentiates them is how they seek that acceptance. They are more likely to actively seek out like-minded individuals rather than attempt to conform to or dictate already established intellectual or political norms.
Please tell me if this makes any sense, otherwise I wont know whether or not I have failed miserably.
erin lynne — April 22, 2011
"I mean, no one ever fears ending up a “crazy dog lady,” and it’s not just because of the lack of alliteration."
my mom asked me recently if i was going to become "some crazy dog lady". she was also dead serious. so my mom fears that i might. but then again it just might be my mom....
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cyb pauli — February 24, 2018
“Men are really oppressive bastards who can’t stand a relationship with an equal...”
Since to be a man sociologically means to be superior to a woman/girl
Since men commit the majority of violence against men women children and animals
Since men have developed the majority of weapons and techniques of rape murder and torture which they almost exclusively as a sex employ in daily life and in war both strategically and in moments of rage or inebriation
Since men occupy the majority of positions of political economic and social power
Who do you think you’re kidding?
Dmitry — December 4, 2020
And this all goes straight out the window depending on one’s culture. Russia is one of the most cat-loving countries, and the Western stereotypes around cats/cat owners just confuses me. According to the research, cat lovers are introverted, agreeable liberals. I’m an extroverted, partly right-leaning and partly left-leaning centrist with a harmlessly control-freaky streak (i.e. just about my own life, not others’).
lisa — December 10, 2023
Pets, those delightful companions that fill our lives with joy, are more than just animals; they become integral members of our families. Their presence in our homes brings a unique sense of warmth and comfort. Whether it's the playful antics of a kitten chasing after a string or the loyal companionship of a dog eagerly wagging its tail, pets offer a bond that transcends words. Their unconditional love and unwavering loyalty create an emotional connection that often goes beyond what we anticipate.Melvin
Robin — June 16, 2024
Whether cat or dog person, each pet offers unique joys. Cats provide independent companionship and low maintenance, while dogs offer loyalty and active engagement. Embrace differences and appreciate how both enrich our lives in their own special ways. Kattenbrokken