In the U.S. today, when infants are born with ambiguous genitalia, surgeons often operate in order to bring the child’s body into accordance with our expectations for “correct” male or female genitalia, even when the actual morphology of their bodies causes no dysfunction or harm.
Some activists, such as those involved with the Intersex Society of North America, are trying to stop these surgeries. The Phallo-O-Meter (found here) is a satirical ruler designed to draw attention to the way in which the surgeries force bodies existing in nature into social categories of our own invention (it is attributed to Kiira Triea here). Here it is:
The ruler is satirical (as you can tell by the tongue-in-cheek “just squeeks by” etc.), but the measurements are based on the kind of decisions doctors actually make. Indeed, if doctors decide that a penis is “too small” or a clitoris is “too big,” an infant is in danger of having corrective cosmetic surgery. The point here is: When bodies don’t fit into our pre-existing notions of male and female, we will force them to, even if it involves a knife. Clitorises that are longer than .9 cm and penises that are shorter than 2.5 must be fixed. As Martha Coventry says in Making the Cut:
The strict division between female and male bodies and behavior is our most cherished and comforting truth. Mess with that bedrock belief, and the ground beneath our feet starts to tremble.
In Creating Good-Looking Genitals in the Service of Gender, Suzanne Kessler found that clitorises that were seen as “too big” were often described by doctors in moral terms. They were “defective,” “anatomic derangements,” “obtrusive,” “embarrassing,” “offensive,” and “troublesome.”
Surgery on intersex infants reflects a taboo on gender similarity; a moral objection to gender sameness. We must be separated… by at least .6 cm.
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Penny — September 4, 2008
I'm glad the Intersex Society and others are bringing this issue into wider discussion. I can say from personal experience that you don't want the *first* day you think about this subject to be the day after you give birth, sitting in a noisy NICU with a tiny struggling newborn, seeing "ambiguous" written on their chart.
Bern — September 4, 2008
No way! I thought, that such missdoings were a thing of the past! That's what I've heard in my sexuology course last year.Of course, each country has it's laws, but I am extremely shocked, that doctors still perform such operations on minors...well, actually babies in a western country.This just shouldn't happen.
Anonymous — September 4, 2008
you people are nuts. a boy born with a small penis will assuredly feel great anxiety later in life, especially given societal pressures to perform in bed. if it can be fixed early it's in the baby's best interest 99% of the time.
Village Idiot — September 5, 2008
Anon: Opening your post with "you people are nuts" immediately made it hilariously ironic. I mean, what about the nuts? Where do they fall on this issue? The subtle hint that we need not take you seriously is appreciated.
Also, your powers of prescience are simply breathtaking; I have to admit I have no idea what the nature of anyone's best interest will be many years in the future when today's babies are grown up, and you can apparently predict this an impressive 99% of the time. I'd like to hear more about that 1% where it's not in the baby's best interest to get 'fixed,' or is that just a way to avoid speaking in absolutes and deflect criticism? "Oh, well then that case falls into the 1% I was talking about where this doesn't apply..." Uh-huh, sure.
Penny — September 5, 2008
There's a myth that neonatal surgeons can "fix" anything; parents sitting in a NICU want fervently to believe that, after a few quick snips, they'll take home a kid whose shape is exactly what they envisioned. Instead, parents quickly learn that all surgeries carry risks, and most leave scars; that some differences simply can't be fixed, and other differences don't even merit the effort--they're just part of the variety of ways real bodies are formed. Loving the kid you GOT, rather than the kid you imagined getting, is part of becoming a parent.
Anonymous — September 18, 2008
Hey previous anonymous commenter...it's not like they give the kid a GIANT MONSTER COCK. They cut it off. How do you think "he" is going to feel then?
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Casey — January 30, 2011
I know I'm commenting on a two year old post, but I gotta point out that they're separated by 1.6 cm, not .6 cm.
Anonymous — March 15, 2012
We should not mutilate the genitals of babies or lie to them about their natural sex. Even intersexed individuals, should be left to decide for themselves once they are older, because once you cut off their genitals you can never give it back. Furthermore, it's horribly presumptuous to assume your child would be happier being a girl than a man with a small penis, and it's even WORSE to mutilate a girl's sexual pleasure organ because you consider a large one "too offensive." Barbaric and hateful practice, all of this.
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Anonymous — January 10, 2019
@ anonymous March 15th 2012 “barbaric and hateful practice” THAT’S facts
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Sonam — August 7, 2019
Is this done on infants or adults?
🤔☺️😞🤗😔☹️😍💑 — February 14, 2020
,well here are the facts , mom tells me not too long before she passes away that my birth colour was purple? After googling and finding out about the phallus meter(purple scale,intersex) my life now made sense.born male? 5’ 3 “ 115 lbs. I fit female shoes size 6, women’s clothes, body shape 40/27/38 ,male sex organ small, perfect female feet , female body type small non functioning female-type breast ,male type nipples. Male female facial features male facial hair shaving/ female body light thin hair, good looking, blonde hair. Very attractive when younger . Only One romantic girlfriend but not the one, maybe should have just stayed with her anyway? .. turn away male advances.not into that. I was born in between sexes many doctor appointments at age 3-7 yrs.checking my little man part.so awful, have enjoyed good health so far. Now older 55/65 range still no gray hair. No princess bride too late now as I still wish for what is now a younger lady. At least I like my work and recreational outdoor activities . And earned a good living. So what should a doctor do? Probably leave it alone if healthy , nature can be mysterious in why it does things. Ha read about guevedoces children whoa!!
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MayRonda Smirnova — November 2, 2021
Such decisions must be made consciously by a person in adulthood on their own. Society must stop, since it has no right to decide such events for us.
I understand the operations on which human lives depend, but here nothing is life threatening. We are full of prejudices and we need to get rid of them.
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