My current favorite thing on the internet is the show Smart Girls at the Party, created by Amy Poehler, Meredith Walker, and Amy Miles.Â This isnâ€™t a new showâ€”itâ€™s been online since late 2008â€”but Iâ€™m just now finding out about it.Â The showâ€™s mission statement is to â€œcelebrate extraordinary individuals who are changing the world by being themselves.â€Â And the people they celebrate are girls.
The eight episodes that make up the first season feature girls who dance, do yoga, and have rock bands, girls who write stories and garden, and girls who are sisters.Â My favorite episode features Ruby, who is a feminist.
Ruby is adorably goofy.Â She giggles, scratches her nose, draws a picture called â€œMake Your Mind Crazy,â€ and apparently canâ€™t skateboard at all.Â She enthusiastically explains feminism and sings a song she wroteâ€”she is loaded with self-confidence and extraversion.Â But sheâ€™s not the only kind of girl featured on the show.Â Eleven-year-old Valentine is quiet and thoughtful as she explains her passion for community gardening.Â Ten-year-old Kenaudra seems almost shy as she describes her praise dancing, but she leads the adult women in a dance.
Itâ€™s no surprise that this great idea has come from Amy Poehler, who is one of my favorite famous feminists.Â In an interview with BUST magazine in 2006, she was talking about media representations of girls and women, and she saidâ€”among other fabulous thingsâ€”â€œIâ€™m over the weird, exhausted girl.Â Iâ€™m over the girl thatâ€™s tired and freezing and hungry.Â I like bossy girls, I always have.Â I like people filled with life.Â Iâ€™m over this weird media thing with all this, like, hollow-eyed, empty, party crap.â€Â So sheâ€™s created a show that highlights girls who are filled with life.Â You can see that Poehler and her co-hosts, Walker and Miles, work hard to create a comfortable atmosphere for the girls so that they can express all their incredible funkiness.
These are amazing girls, but not because theyâ€™re, for instance, award-winning dancers or published writers.Â This is not a show that seeks out The Most Amazing Girls in some competitive way.Â Instead, Poehler interviews ordinary girls and through the interviews lets the girls reveal their thoughts, interests, and talents.Â As a viewer, youâ€™re struck by how cool these girls areâ€”but not in a way that makes them out of reach.Â This is part of what makes the show special.Â Watching it, I think, â€œI know girls like that!Â They should be on the show!â€Â And I hope that girls who watch it might think, â€œI can do that!Â Thatâ€™s like me!â€Â Itâ€™s inviting rather than distancing.Â Itâ€™s creating a sense of community and a sense of possibility, as well as validating girls for the ordinary things that make them special.
The showâ€™s website has a casting call for season 2, so if you know a girl who is changing the world by being herself, encourage her to submit her information to Smart Girls at the Party.