After months of slugging through false starts on a sample chapter for my next book proposal, months of promising my agent I’d have it ready by the end of the month, and feelings of writerly delinquency in spite of hours of hard work, I have had a writing breakthrough. Friends have asked what I credit it to, so that I can learn from it for next time, cause I have no doubt there will be a next time. Writing life just works that way. I’ve been thinking about this, and wanted to share what I’ve learned with you. Here’s what I attribute the breakthrough to:
1. A supportive writing group that has been unflailing in its honesty (even when it hurts) and abundant with praise when something is good
2. Tenacity. I am stubborn, and determined to get it right.
3. A partner who reassures me that I am still a writer even when I’m between books.
4. Early morning writing hours. This has been key, as when “business hours” begin, as a consultant I feel the need to be accessible. But at 5:30am, no one is expecting an email from me.
5. An agent who hasn’t given up on me. “Books have a life of their own,” says he. “Better to get it right.”
What helps you break through a block? Feel free to join me in sharing strategies, in comments!
Comments
Renee Siegel — November 25, 2008
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! And many "thanks" to all your support systems-- may they continue to support you!!!!
Deborah Siegel — November 25, 2008
I am remiss. I should add number 5: A mother who is my greatest cheerleader. Love ya, Mom!
anniegirl1138 — November 25, 2008
Blogging gets me through blocks. Even when I am hopelessly backed up on a fiction piece, I can always jar things loose with my blogging.
I also credit news site and the bookmobile. There is nothing like reading to induce writing.
Courtney — November 26, 2008
Congratulations D! I knew you'd break through when you could listen to your own amazing and unique voice. I always love reading your stuff. Can't wait for this one to go public!
gwp_admin — November 26, 2008
Aw, Miss C, I heart you. Very much. Thank you, always, for your encouragement -- and for the early affirmation on that draft. Let's get our names together on a marquee outside a bookstore again sometime, what do you say?!
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