There’s a reason I’ve been a little quiet around here this week (and have been sitting on a few posts by others that are ready to go): My beloved 13-year-old cat, Amelia Bedelia, saluted by Marco and famous on Open Salon, was put to rest last night. We will miss her very much.
Some words of wisdom, from a very wise cousin of mine, who also loved and took care of this wonderful little cat:
When they stop eating it is their sign that they want to move on and we must listen to them. Most cats only ever know of one care taker in their life who knows of all their little funny habits and warmth. Amelia, however, managed to be taken care of and loved by so many different people, and each learned to understand what a special cat she was. News of her passing will even go to Japan, to friends who took care of her for three months one summer and continue to ask about her all the time. Truly a unique little creature. A friend once told me that when you die, all those cats you took care of in your life will come to meet you and escort you into the next world. I imagine the same is true among the cats themselves and Sammy is already there preparing to welcome his sister. I can imagine that they will once again be up to the antics they were always up to in life, with Sammy chasing Amelia behind some furniture and then Amelia reaching out with that long grey paw from behind her cover to tap Sammy’s nose. And then Sammy will insist on cleaning Amelia’s head, to which Amelia will respond with a few licks of his head as well. Amelia had a good life. Always with a warm lap to snuggle up on and a loving hand to feed her. l imagine that she move on then, content, purring and happy.
Be at peace, Melie, be at peace. Â Â ×–×™×›×¨×•× ×” לברכה
Comments 9
anniegirl1138 — March 12, 2009
I am sorry for your loss.
Betty and Boo's Mommy — March 13, 2009
What beautiful words for your beautiful Amelia Bedelia. It is so very hard to lose a beloved pet. My condolences to all on your loss.
gwp_admin — March 13, 2009
Thank you, Anniegirl and Betty and Boo's Mommy. xo
marci alboher — March 13, 2009
Oh no, honey, I'm so so sorry. Sounds like you enjoyed beautiful years with her. Thanks for honoring her passing this way. Thinking of you and Marco.
Caroline — March 13, 2009
As someone who spent most of 1st grade reading and rereading my Amelia Bedelia books, and as a cat lover, too, I'm particularly sad to hear this news. I'm so sorry for your loss.
gwp_admin — March 13, 2009
Thank you for your love and support, Marci and Caroline. You would have liked Amelia B, I know.
Marjorie — March 13, 2009
Oh Deborah, I'm so sorry. I'm going to miss your photos and posts of dear Amelia Bedelia. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Marjorie
Maya — March 13, 2009
So sad to hear of your loss Deborah! Sounds like Amelia Bedelia (what a great name, loved the books) was a very special cat who brought a lot of light and love to the world. Best and warmest wishes to you and Marco.
Deborah Siegel — March 16, 2009
Thank you for your warm thoughts, Marjorie and Maya. Guess I'll have to start posting more photos of Tula now, our remaining kitty, who is being spayed today. I had such separation anxiety when I had to leave her at the vet this morning! Can't wait to be reunited this afternoon :)