Most excellent rant this morning about unreconstructed dudes from Judith Warner, called “Like a Fish Needs a Donut.” Read it and weep. I’m just as ready as the next girl to spew donuts about it all, along with Judith. But I also wanted to share an article I wrote a few years ago for Psychology Today with lots of research-based evidence finding that highly-educated, high-achieving guys do seek high-achieving women as mates these days. The article was titled “The New Trophy Wife.” (Please note: It was not I who gave the article its title.)