Flashback Friday.
An excellent piece of evidence that femininity is hilarious or ridiculous in U.S. culture, or even frightening or disgusting, is the fact that men use the category “woman” as a Halloween costume. We laugh when we see men dressed up as women because how ridiculous, right? Women do not generally dress up like a generic man on Halloween because adopting masculinity is an everyday things for us. It’s valued, not mocked.
Many costume manufacturers (or homemade costume makers, for that matter) add fat hatred to the mix. Because there is nothing more disgusting and hilarious, we are told, than a fat woman. Except, perhaps, a fat woman who fails to be properly humiliated.
The costume manufacturers know this and are trafficking in this hatred on purpose. Here are some examples, sent in by Michaela N. and Shane M., from several different online costume stores:
Pamela Anderson’s character on Baywatch wasn’t fat. This reveals that the costume manufacturers aren’t just making costumes that let people dress up as fat others, they’re adding fatness as a joke.
Halloween is a disturbing fun house mirror, showing us what we really think about each other.
Originally posted in 2010. Cross-posted at The Huffington Post.
Lisa Wade, PhD is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of American Hookup, a book about college sexual culture; a textbook about gender; and a forthcoming introductory text: Terrible Magnificent Sociology. You can follow her on Twitter and Instagram.
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dr. Ivo Robotnik — October 29, 2010
In b4 "Fat people deserve it," disguised as "We shouldn't be promoting obesity."
Missdisco — October 29, 2010
Has anyone been at a party with someone dressed like that? Do you think they'd find it easy to score then or ever after?
Andrew — October 29, 2010
Some men use drag to "mock" femininity. Others use it to mock masculinity. Can you instantly discern the spirit and intentions just by looking at the costume?
What would make these particular costumes appealing? I'd say, the fact that they embody multiple taboos simultaneously. It's taboo for men to look or act "feminine" in public. It's taboo for fat people to bare flesh or appear sexually explicit.
Once you're past the trick-or-treating age, what is the Halloween party tradition really about if not flouting and lampooning cultural taboos? The pretext of comic relief gives more people than you might imagine a day of respite from the societal norms that they spend the rest of the year conforming to. And images like these, though understandably offensive to some, can also help reveal how pointless and needlessly restrictive so many of our taboos really are.
For one thing, the first thing you discover every Halloween is that at least half of all your straight male friends desperately long to dress as women, and the more of a show they make of their masculinity every other day, the happier they become in dresses.
j — October 29, 2010
This reminds me, I've never seen a thin woman dressed up as a fat man, "sexy" costume or not.
Graham — October 29, 2010
I don't think I'm going to get it together, but my earlier plan was to dress up as a "sexy nurse," and I mean one of the stereotypical female ones with the low neckline and short skirt. The hope was to poke fun at the "sexy _____" variations for primarily women's costumes and the idea that tight clothing or exposing skin was enough to turn a regular outfit for someone with a different job into a costume. (Of course "nurse" costumes aren't much like the scrubs most nurses wear these days.)
For the record I'm male and have enough of a beard to make this a fairly conspicuous critique. Of course, others could read it as making fun of women who dressed "sexy" (maybe a fair reading, but not intended). But why not use the medium of halloween costumes to critique them?
sleep — October 29, 2010
Having read Lisa's article that she linked to i have to wonder if perhaps it would be a good idea to acknowledge that her view is one interpretation. I think that the "fat" costumes are disturbing in making fun of large framed individuals and continuing societal criticism of them. However, the idea of men dressing up as women being completely sexist I am not sure I buy completely. I wonder this because many men are stuck in the gender binary and Halloween is one time in which they are allowed societally to "mess with" their gender. Labeling all men who do this as negative really looks the same as making fun of "fat" You are making an unproven judgment about an entire group and doing so based upon your experiences and socially constructed narratives (stereotyping). is it possible that your interpretation is incorrect?
Syd — October 29, 2010
Whenever I see these costumes advertised, they're typically models by men who are themselves on the heavier side (obviously they are exceptions, like the third example, and IDK what's up with the angel and devil). I don't know what this means, whether it be 'even fat men mock fat women,' or 'fat men would not be able to convincingly dress as thin women,' or even 'fat men have more of an interest in fat women' (I'd wager it's combination of all 3). But just worthy of note.
Lysse — October 29, 2010
Anyone else notice that two of the costumes are specifically referencing Hawaiians? Racism-sexism twofer!
Liz — October 29, 2010
This is nothing new. Tyler Perry and whoever starred in "Big Momma's House" have been doing this for years.
Queef — November 1, 2010
I dressed up as a woman for Halloween just to experience what is was like to get really "dressed up" (i.e., full dress, breasts, bra, underwear, make-up, wig, etc). Gotta say, not a fan of all that clutter.
partyideas — April 3, 2011
the idea of men dressing up as women being completely sexist I am not sure I buy completely.
Fancy Dress Shop — April 7, 2011
I was just thinking that I kind of like the last two costumes in this post. I would totally love to see a man at a halloween party dressed up as ‘sexy nemo’.
100milesfromthesea — October 21, 2013
I think these outfits highlight cultural horror of transgressing the gender binary or being female in inappropriate ways
Jamie — October 21, 2013
Frankly this article is ridiculous. Anyone who does any sort of fancy dress or any actor in a play could be accused of mocking a character, this is all done in fun, it's not judgement on fat people, they have not said hey Tanya your fat! (For example) they are being a very unconvincing fat women for a bit of a laugh. The world gets too PC these days, what about drag queens? Do you think they mock ? Or just having fun? I think the later.
Emily Hess-Flinders — October 24, 2014
Okay - is it a coincidence that this is being posted right after the Madeleine Albright/Conan O'Brien twitter joust over cross-gender halloween costumes? http://www.cnn.com/2014/10/24/showbiz/celebrity-news-gossip/madeleine-albright-conan-obrien-twitter-war/index.html
Hollybelle — October 24, 2014
While I applaud the criticism of this sexist/racist form of "costuming" I have to object to a comment by the author:
"We laugh when we see men dressed up as women because how ridiculous, right? "
This raises a question regarding transgendered women. Do you laugh at them when they first begin to dress in public? Do you laugh at mannish looking women ? Why is it ridiculous ?
Is it ridiculous when Georges Sands dresses in male attire?
When a strong lesbian woman wears short hair , leather jacket and rides a motocycle?
Lets not fall into the trap of being so smug we are also guilty of the same flaws in reverse.
ClumsyKisses — October 26, 2014
The one with the champagne bottle is the character Bubbles from Little Britain, I'm pretty sure
Rob Nemere — October 26, 2014
Yes because fat women need worship being superior beings cannot be mocked ok sounds good so who is safe to be mocked? Freedom of expression put through the femminist socialist filters equals no freedom
caryatis — October 27, 2014
Of course, one of the reasons men dress as fat women is that most men can't dress up as thin women.
Guest — October 27, 2014
Im generally really touchy about anything sexist and people, but this is ridiculous.
What is a person supposed to wear, not to insult someone? I was thinking as going as a rock, but the costume is quite wide and people will think Im insulting fat people.
Zv3r — October 27, 2014
Im generally really touchy about anything sexist, but this is ridiculous.
What is a person supposed to wear, not to insult someone? I was thinking as going as a rock, but the costume is quite wide and people will think Im insulting fat people.
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keli jennifer — July 1, 2019
Thank You Very Much, very enlightening.
Mr. Lady — October 30, 2019
I thought this smug, self-righteous and obnoxious article was satire until the end. There was nothing enlightening about this pontificating, absurd drool. The only point this article intends to make is how much better Lisa Wade thinks she is than you.