Read this with the movie trailer voice in your head: In a world where men and masculinity are valued above women and femininity and the voice of god sounds like a man. Can there be any sense of justice? Can a hero rise from the ashes that were this country’s dreams of equality?
Now read this with nerdy sociologist voice: In this piece, Nathan Palmer discusses how we manipulate our voices to perform gender and asks us to think about what our vocal performances say about patriarchy in our culture.
My Mom’s Phone Voice
Voice & The Performance of Gender
We have talked extensively on SociologyInFocus about how gender is a performance. That is, we “do gender”. Right now if you wanted to act feminine or to act masculine you could change your clothing, how you move, how you sit, the facial expressions you use, but arguably the first thing you would change is your voice. Gender is a performance and like any performance there are costumes, lines, mannerisms, etc. that you embody to perform the role. The rules of gender performance are so clear and present throughout society that even my 5 year old can recite them:
Patriarchy, Cultural Symbols, and In A World
As a sociologist concerned with inequality, I think the juiciest question to ask is, are all voices treated equally? That is, do we empower some gender presentations and disempower others? This question is the central question explored in the movie In A World:
The movie, which was written and directed by it’s star Lake Bell, is about a young woman who is trying to break into the voice over acting world, but struggles mightily because the industry is male dominated. In the movie and in reality, when Hollywood wants an authoritative voice, a powerful voice, or simply “the voice of god”, they turn to male voice over actors more often than not. We should stop and ask, why is it this way? Are masculine voices just naturally more powerful? Nah. If you’ve spent anytime with opera singers you know that both male and female voices can rattle your ribcage. The answer then must be cultural.
In any culture the people in it use symbols to communicate with one another. They fill these symbols with shared meaning and connect them with other ideas and symbols. For instance, today we associate blue with masculinity and pink with femininity, but a hundred years ago pink was a, “a more decided and stronger color, more suitable for the boy, while blue, which is more delicate and dainty, is prettier for the girl.”. The point here is that any symbol, whether it’s a color or the sound of a voice, is not inherently masculine or feminine, powerful or weak, etc. As a culture we put the meaning into the symbols.
So what does it say about our culture if we associate power with masculinity? The answer is simple, it suggests that we live in a patriarchal society (i.e. a society that values men and masculinity above women and femininity). That’s why it was so surprising to me when I read/watched interviews with Lake Bell where she put the blame back on women and something she calls the “sexy baby vocal virus.”
Bell expanded on this idea further in another interview:
There is one statement in this film and I am vocal about it: There is a vocal plague going on that I call the sexy baby plague, where very smart women have taken on this affectation that evokes submission and sexual titillation to the male species,” she says.
“This voice says ‘I’m not that smart,’ and ‘don’t feel threatened’ and ‘don’t worry, I don’t want to take charge,’ which is a problem for me because it’s telling women to take on this bimbo persona in order to please a man.
The problem of the sexy baby voice
To be honest, I’m not sure what to make of Bell’s criticism of the women who use the “sexy baby” voice. She asserts that “these women” have been “victimized” and “fallen pray to something”, but then clearly seems to be angry at them for their use of the voice. Furthermore Bell’s critique of women’s voices takes a social issue (patriarchy and the devaluing of all things feminine) and redefines it as an individual problem. If the women who use the “sexy baby” voice are using it to present themselves as non-threatening or highly sexual, then where did they get the idea in the first place? I’m not sure if Bell is arguing that the “sexy baby” voice is a reaction to a patriarchal society or that it the creates a patriarchal society.
In a world working through the issue of patriarchy, it would seem that even movies that are critiquing patriarchy can reinforce it.
Nathan Palmer, MA is a visiting lecturer at Georgia Southern University. He is a passionate educator, the founder of Sociology Source, and the editor of Sociology in Focus, where this post originally appeared.
Comments 84
Anonymous — November 3, 2013
"Sexy baby vocal virus" really seems to me she has more of a second-wave mentality than a third-wave one. Pretty problematic, but I do find her argument more sensible than other explanations for it.
Elena — November 3, 2013
when Hollywood wants an authoritative voice, a powerful voice, or simply
“the voice of god”, they turn to male voice over actors more often than
not.
Not to get new-agey or anything, but maybe that's what you get after quite a few centuries of having only one male deity in the Jewish, Christian and Muslim areas of cultural influence.
(Not that it gets necessarily better outside of the monotheistic world: the Japanese are probably the worst offenders when it comes to grown women talking like babies. For an example, see this clip of Morning Musume dressed as the cutesiest-talking juvenile delinquents ever and contrast with Yakkun's manly speech patterns or the occasional morning musume member speaking tough.)
Also, obligatory Voice of God Monty Python.
Cochise Brunet-Trait — November 3, 2013
When I read this, my bullshit meter hit maximum.
"In a world where men and masculinity are valued above women and femininity and the voice of god sounds like a man."
Two myths in a single sentence: God and patriarchy. In today's society, men and women are legally equals. All unequalities that stupid sociologists and feminist claims the existences are caused by indivudual choices, not by society. As soon a sociologist claims to be feminist, this is not sociology anymore, but a political position. Sociology is a science that should stay neutral and all its statements should be based on statistical evidences.
Cochise Brunet-Trait — November 3, 2013
And if God is always portrayed as a man, it is because religions are all sexists. Anybody who take the time to read the Bible, the Coran, or any other bullshit religious book can know that. So if God is portrayed as a man, it is because of the nature of religion, and it is not an issue of "masculinity valued above feminity" in our society.
Sue — November 3, 2013
I would be interested to know what she thinks of the very high voice I encountered in Russian speakers. I mean, very high - surprisingly high - speaking voice. Americans in particular like to have LOWER speaking voices. I found it fascinating to meet these women who seemed like Monty Python skits.
kafkette — November 3, 2013
listen to rock & roll, the dregs that remain of it—especially serious, NPR type rock & roll. maybe this has improved [i have stopped trying & caring], but i dare you to find a non-whispering woman's voice from circa 1990 - 2005, maybe. this is even worse than the endless tenor voices of comparable &/or "indie" [blechh] male singers over the last decade or so. the guy stuff is not political, the women's stuff definitely is, but hiding.
friendlysoviet — November 3, 2013
So has sociology decided on whether gender is inherit or performed? The stance tends to change anytime the wind picks up.
Media Watch — November 4, 2013
(Read in a calm, lower register) Amazing amount of defensive voices in these comments. Women and girls are taught to emphasize a high baby voice from Betty Boop on. Men and boys are encouraged to speak in low, manly registers in his lifelong attempt to establish and re-establish his masculinity. It is the dominant group that decides which voice holds power. Today's culture teaches us all that the voice of god is almost always a male voice and that the voice of authority is almost always a male voice. Finding one's true voice is a gift that can take a lifetime. In a perfect world gender identifiers would fall to the wayside, rather than stigmatize and abuse our unique vocal range. Keep talking.
shannon — November 4, 2013
Bell doesn't like tiny voices but she likes tiny dresses.
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pduggie — November 5, 2013
"patriarchal society (i.e. a society that values men and masculinity above women and femininity)"
I get this, but I wonder if its fair. Clearly we value men and masculinity for certain spheres of life and value women and femininity for other spheres of life. What can we say about the spheres that are those where men are to prove we really VALUE them more than the other spheres? Its can't be purely an economic calculus can it? (we prove we value masculinity more because we pay presidents more than teachers?)
I think a truly patriarchal society is better defined by saying it gives more *powers* to men and masculinity than value.
I also think the blue/pink thing proving how infinitely malleable our views of masculine and feminine voice could be is a bad comparison. Blue/pink clearly has historical, limited cultural precedent as something that flipped. But can we really point to any widespread cultural flip in voice and gender? Even castrati don't really fit the bill, since the need to do something about the sexual characteristics of the male castrati was a prerequisite for valuing the high male voice.
pduggie — November 5, 2013
if I said "red is an attention-getting color" am I on solid ground? or is that something that is only imputed by social forces.
Ellie — November 5, 2013
Fallen PREY, not fallen "pray." Yikes.
#confuzzled — November 5, 2013
I don't see how either voice I imagine could be considered male or female.
You can't logically determine someone's gender or sex by listening to their voice.
Jen Frankel — November 8, 2013
The point here is that women are rewarded for making themselves oversexualized and weak, and punished at every level for showing strength by men AND by other women. We still don't seem ready as a society to call men out for their bad behaviour, but at least if we can expose the weakness in women that would prefer to take the easy path instead of struggling, we can begin a dialogue.
There's something despicable in the preference of men in both the media and in the real world for "weak" women, but it's very, very real. When women don't want to fight that powerful preference, they take on the characteristics that will get them the most reward for the least effort. That's human nature, although not exactly admirable. Lake Bell has done a brilliant job of exposing the complicity of women in allowing men to get away with demeaning them; she's not blaming women, she's allowing us to talk about male culpability in making women less than they are and can be.
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Guest — November 9, 2013
Couldn't it be that Don Lafontaine made such an imprint on the voice-over trope that anyone who's looking for someone to do voice-overs looks for voices that sound like his?
I can't imagine a company would have some issue with a woman narrator who could do a perfect Don Lafontaine voice.
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spork — November 16, 2013
I am very interested that in the second clip it is "manly man" vs "girly girl." I know "womanly woman" wasn't was he was asking for exactly, but the infantilization is interesting to me.
missdk — November 27, 2013
I'm always sensitive to people, especially women, criticizing women who perform femininity. I don't talk in the baby voice, but I ABSOLUTELY change my voice as a woman to be less threatening and pleasing to (as Bell says) the male species. I try to subvert the patriarchy as much as I can, but ultimately I live in it. Navigating that space shouldn't be mocked or belittled.
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