{"id":1058,"date":"2016-10-05T08:39:55","date_gmt":"2016-10-05T13:39:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/?p=1058"},"modified":"2016-10-05T08:39:55","modified_gmt":"2016-10-05T13:39:55","slug":"you-cant-sit-with-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/2016\/10\/05\/you-cant-sit-with-us\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYou Can\u2019t Sit with Us\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_1061\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1061\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1061\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/files\/2016\/10\/twitter-bg-d7cf481fb2c1432d66ad23a814748b65afdfbf64-s300-c85.jpg\" alt=\"The new anti-bullying emoji. \" width=\"400\" height=\"299\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1061\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The new anti-bullying emoji.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fans of the movie <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mean Girls<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will vividly recall the scenes when Regina George\u2019s friends banish her from the lunch table for wearing sweatpants and when she distributes the hurtful pages of the \u201cBurn Book\u201d through the halls of the school. Other movies such as <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heathers<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Carrie<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dazed and Confused<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> portray how kids at school can be cruel. However, there are some new measures being taken to curb bullying, both in person and online. A\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/2016\/09\/09\/493319114\/teen-creates-sit-with-us-app-for-bullied-kids\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new app<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> aimed to help bullied students find a friendly place to sit in the cafeteria has launched just in time for <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stompoutbullying.org\/index.php\/campaigns\/national-bullying-prevention-awareness-month\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Bullying Prevention Month<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And there is also <a href=\"http:\/\/iwitnessbullying.org\/how-to-use-the-eye\">a new emoji<\/a> you can use when you witness bullying online.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is estimated that over 3 million, or 30%, of middle and high school students experience bullying each year. \u00a0Not surprisingly, Nansel and colleagues find that poor relationships with classmates and loneliness are associated with being bullied. Research from Miller shows that much of what teen girls call \u201cdrama\u201d is actually bullying, although they tend to understand it as a regular part of life rather than bullying. \u00a0Girls\u2019 bullying behavior is more likely to involve spreading sexual rumors, slut-shaming, and dishing out homophobic labels and is less likely to involve physical violence. <\/span><\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/?term=Nansel%20TR%5BAuthor%5D&amp;cauthor=true&amp;cauthor_uid=11311098\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tonja R. Nansel<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/?term=Overpeck%20M%5BAuthor%5D&amp;cauthor=true&amp;cauthor_uid=11311098\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mary Overpeck<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/?term=Pilla%20RS%5BAuthor%5D&amp;cauthor=true&amp;cauthor_uid=11311098\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ramani S. Pilla<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/?term=Ruan%20WJ%5BAuthor%5D&amp;cauthor=true&amp;cauthor_uid=11311098\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">W. June Ruan<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/?term=Simons-Morton%20B%5BAuthor%5D&amp;cauthor=true&amp;cauthor_uid=11311098\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bruce Simons-Morton<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/?term=Scheidt%20P%5BAuthor%5D&amp;cauthor=true&amp;cauthor_uid=11311098\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peter Scheidt<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. 2001. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC2435211\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBullying Behaviors Among US Youth: Prevalence and Association With Psychosocial Adjustment.\u201d<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">JAMA\u202f: The Journal of the American Medical Association<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u00a0<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">285<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(16), 2094\u20132100.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/sociology.ucdavis.edu\/people\/rwfaris\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Robert Faris<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/sociology.la.psu.edu\/people\/dhf12\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diane Felmlee<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. 2014. \u201c<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/asr.sagepub.com\/content\/79\/2\/228.short\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Casualties of Social Combat School Networks of Peer Victimization and Their Consequences.\u201d<\/span><\/a> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">American Sociological Review<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 79(2): 228-257.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.umass.edu\/sociology\/users\/sarahm\">Sarah Miller<\/a>. 2016. \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/gas.sagepub.com\/content\/30\/5\/721.abstract\">How You Bully a Girl: Sexual Drama and the Negotiation of Gendered Sexuality in High School<\/a>.\u201d <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gender &amp; Society<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 30(5): 721-744.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5>Who gets bullied is tied closely to status in the social hierarchy, but not in a way most people expect. Faris and Felmlee find that youth with higher statuses and more network ties, the popular kids, are more likely to face bullying; that is, until they reach the very top of the social pyramid where they find a sort of immunity to bullying. \u00a0Rather than the popular mean girl picking on the nerd, bullying is more likely to happen within friend groups, particularly online. Attacks online may happen more frequently between friends or former friends because of competition around romantic partners.<\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/sociology.la.psu.edu\/people\/dhf12\">Diana Felmlee<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/sociology.ucdavis.edu\/people\/rwfaris\">Robert Faris<\/a>. 2016. <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/spq.sagepub.com\/content\/79\/3\/243.abstract\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cToxic Ties: Networks of Friendship, Dating, and Cyber Victimization.\u201d<\/span><\/a> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Social Psychology Quarterly<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 79(3): 243-262.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fans of the movie Mean Girls will vividly recall the scenes when Regina George\u2019s friends banish her from the lunch table for wearing sweatpants and when she distributes the hurtful pages of the \u201cBurn Book\u201d through the halls of the school. Other movies such as Heathers, Carrie, and Dazed and Confused portray how kids at [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1957,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,55],"tags":[1448,38543,38545,40838],"class_list":["post-1058","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-gender","tag-bullying","tag-culture","tag-gender","tag-peer-networks"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1058","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1957"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1058"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1058\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1062,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1058\/revisions\/1062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1058"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1058"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/trot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1058"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}