{"id":2846,"date":"2010-08-02T12:42:25","date_gmt":"2010-08-02T17:42:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/thickculture\/?p=2846"},"modified":"2010-08-02T12:44:03","modified_gmt":"2010-08-02T17:44:03","slug":"is-splitting-the-difference-possible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/thickculture\/2010\/08\/02\/is-splitting-the-difference-possible\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Splitting the Difference Possible?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yes! Magazine has an interesting blog series tby the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yesmagazine.org\/blogs\/interfaith-amigos\">Interfaith Amigos<\/a>, an interfaith trio of spiritual leaders. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yesmagazine.org\/blogs\/interfaith-amigos\/listening-across-the-divide?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed:+yes\/most-recent-articles+(Most+Recent+Articles+and+Blogs+-+YES!+magazine)\"> One post<\/a> in particular by Rabbai Ted Falcon poses some interesting question about how you seek common ground with those who have seemingly intractable or irrational positions. \u00a0 To wit:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;line-height: normal;font-size: 17px;border-collapse: collapse\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-left: 0px;line-height: 1.5em\">I am reminded, too, of a parent-teacher-administrator meeting at a school where a friend used to teach. The topic under (sometimes heated) discussion related to a proposed expansion of foreign language offerings at the school. One woman, clearly upset, rose with a challenge.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-left: 0px;line-height: 1.5em\">\u201cIf English was good enough for Jesus,&#8221; she said, &#8220;why isn\u2019t it good enough for us?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Rabbai Falcon&#8217;s prescription is to move away from arguing the legitimacy of specific statements towards seeking to understand the context in which the statement is being made.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;line-height: 26px;font-size: 17px;border-collapse: collapse\">In the school meeting I mentioned, it is likely that the woman and I shared a common denominator of interest in education that best prepares students for college admission\u00a0<a class=\"internal-link\" title=\"Take Back Your Education\" href=\"http:\/\/www.yesmagazine.org\/issues\/learn-as-you-go\/take-back-your-education\">and for living in the world<\/a>. <\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I appreciate the wisdom and grace of the Rabbai&#8217;s efforts&#8230;I really do. \u00a0But as a practicing political scientist, I&#8217;m often confronted with views and discourses that seem to rely primarily on the denigration of a chosen other. \u00a0I&#8217;m sure many will disagree, but the callous way that some people speak about undocumented immigrants reflects not to a willingness to find a common ground solution, but a need to position oneself vis-a-vis a &#8220;other&#8221; who purportedly have no claims to an equal humanity. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Simply calling a human being an &#8220;illegal&#8221; speaks to a desire to invalidate the depth and complexity of 10 million people living in the United States without documentation. \u00a0Martha Nussbaum <a href=\"http:\/\/press.princeton.edu\/titles\/7697.html\">observes<\/a> that every society creates objects worthy of disgust. \u00a0 Some days it seems that no amount of back-story will affect the views of people who see themselves aggrieved by &#8220;illegals,&#8221; \u00a0when their real beef should be with large, impersonal, structural forces that has exacerbated the free flow of labor across borders. \u00a0But you can&#8217;t exactly be &#8220;disgusted&#8221; by trans-national capital. \u00a0You can however, be disgusted by its by-product. \u00a0Particularly if it speaks a different language, looks different and has different norms and customs.<\/p>\n<p>My pessimistic thought for the day. 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