Monday 9:00am.<\/p>\n
STUDENT<\/strong>: Don\u2019t kill me but I missed the test last Friday. I\u2019m usually able to keep my cool no matter what my student throw at me, but this situation (which happens 10\u201315 times a semester[1]<\/a>) makes my blood boil. I feel so disrespected; like I am here to serve them when ever it\u2019s convenient for them. My time doesn\u2019t matter. I\u2019m not doing anything else with my life. Frequently when this conversation takes place, the student has this entitled tone- this presumptuous demeanor. I\u2019d love to tell you that I can handle any situation with grace and ease, but this one is my Achilles\u2019 heel. <\/p>\n Then it dawned on me, situations like this happen precisely because students don\u2019t have a developed sociological imagination. In Keith Roberts keynote address at the ASA Pre-Conference Workshop on Teaching and Learning<\/a>, argued passionately that to learn sociology is to learn to perspective take. That is, to develop your sociological imagination you must first be cognizant of others, then be able to imagine how they experience from the world from their eyes, and finally be able to use the scientific method to tease out your bias (as much as that\u2019s possible). If you\u2019ve taught sociology for any amount of time, then you know that developing the skill of perspective taking can be really hard for students. Put simply, for the most part students are bad at perspective taking[2]<\/a>. <\/p>\n When students miss our test and then don\u2019t think to contact me immediately are being inconsiderate. That is, they are not considering how their actions will make me feel. They have not considered how their inaction will look from my perspective. Given that they fail to employ the skill I am primarily focused on teaching, I can forgive their transgression. I can reframe it as a sign that they have much to learn instead of a sign of willful disrespect. Then I can let it go.<\/p>\n The above exchange with a student isn\u2019t a real conversation I had with a student. It\u2019s an amalgamation of all the conversations I have with my students. Also, note that I teach ~400 students a semester. \u21a9<\/a><\/p>\n<\/li>\n I teach mostly \u201ctraditional age\u201d students. To be fair, students who are older may have more life experiences and thus a more developed ability to perspective take. However, age and experience does not always lead to a well developed ability to perspective take. \u21a9<\/a><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Monday 9:00am. STUDENT: Don\u2019t kill me but I missed the test last Friday. ME: What happened? STUDENT: I had a family emergency. ME: Huh. Why did you wait two days to contact me? STUDENT: I had a lot on my mind. ME: Let\u2019s think about this like a symbolic interactionist. How do you think I […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1982,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30649],"tags":[30603],"class_list":["post-247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-my-thoughts","tag-class-management"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1982"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=247"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":414,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions\/414"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/sociologysource\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nME<\/strong>: What happened?
\nSTUDENT<\/strong>: I had a family emergency.
\nME<\/strong>: Huh. Why did you wait two days to contact me?
\nSTUDENT<\/strong>: I had a lot on my mind.
\nME<\/strong>: Let\u2019s think about this like a symbolic interactionist. How do you think I am going to interpret the fact you waited two days to contact me.
\nSTUDENT<\/strong>: Uh\u2026 How should I\u2026 Um\u2026 <\/p>\n
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