{"id":67153,"date":"2015-06-18T09:33:23","date_gmt":"2015-06-18T14:33:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=67153"},"modified":"2015-06-15T00:36:02","modified_gmt":"2015-06-15T05:36:02","slug":"same-sex-couples-more-likely-to-divide-than-share-household-chores","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2015\/06\/18\/same-sex-couples-more-likely-to-divide-than-share-household-chores\/","title":{"rendered":"Same-Sex Couples More Likely to Divide than Share Household Chores"},"content":{"rendered":"

A new study<\/a> from the Families and Work Institute<\/a>\u00a0compared household divisions of labor in 225 other-sex couples and same-sex couples in which both partners worked. The researchers\u00a0found that\u00a0same-sex couples\u00a0are more likely than different-sex couples to share responsibility for chores. Eyeball the two graphs below and look for the green; that’s the bar that indicates that both people in the couple share responsibility. The first\u00a0is different-sex couples and the second is same-sex.
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\n<\/a> \"4\"<\/a>\"5\"<\/a>Same-sex couples,\u00a0though, are no sharing utopia in which everyone does exactly 50% of everything.\u00a0They\u00a0are still more likely to divide up household labor\u00a0than share it\u00a0— that is, the blue and yellow bars indicating the higher or lower earner, respectively, still dominate the graph.\u00a0And, interestingly, the gendered nature of the labor is still present in that the lower earner in same-sex couples tends to do\u00a0the same labor as the female in different-sex couples.<\/p>\n

The data is more dramatic, though,\u00a0when we look at parenting. Same-sex couples are more likely to\u00a0share the responsibility for routine child care (74%) than leave it primarily up to one person. The same goes for sick child care (62%). Among different sex couples, the opposite is true. One parent generally takes primary responsibility for routine (62%) and sick (68%) child care.<\/p>\n

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There is no secret recipe, of course, to how\u00a0a couple should divide\u00a0their household chores and childcare. There is a take home lesson from the study, though, and that’s to talk about it if you want to. Generally speaking, members of couples\u00a0who talked about it before moving in together (blue) were more satisfied with their division of labor than members of couples who wanted to have a conversation<\/em>, but didn’t (yellow).<\/p>\n

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The authors of the study found that women in relationships with men were the most likely of all to say that they wanted to\u00a0have a conversation, but didn’t\u00a0(20%). Men in either same- (11%) or different-sex couples (11%) and women in same-sex couples\u00a0(15%) were less likely to have held their tongue.<\/p>\n

The author of the report concludes that it may not be how we divide up labor that matters that drives satisfaction, or even whether we talk about it, but whether we\u00a0fail to have a conversation that we want.<\/p>\nLisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em>American Hookup<\/a>, a book about college sexual culture; a textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em>Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a>.\u00a0You can follow her on Twitter<\/a> and Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A new study from the Families and Work Institute\u00a0compared household divisions of labor in 225 other-sex couples and same-sex couples in which both partners worked. The researchers\u00a0found that\u00a0same-sex couples\u00a0are more likely than different-sex couples to share responsibility for chores. Eyeball the two graphs below and look for the green; that’s the bar that indicates that […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":67159,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[55,2088,2100,272,54,76],"class_list":["post-67153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-gender","tag-gender-marriagefamily","tag-gender-work","tag-marriagefamily","tag-sexual-orientation","tag-work"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2015\/06\/7.png","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67153","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=67153"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67153\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":67162,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67153\/revisions\/67162"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/67159"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=67153"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=67153"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=67153"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}