{"id":6316,"date":"2009-02-02T04:26:24","date_gmt":"2009-02-02T09:26:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=6316"},"modified":"2017-09-16T17:04:14","modified_gmt":"2017-09-16T22:04:14","slug":"redneck-wedding-cakes-and-getting-married-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/02\/02\/redneck-wedding-cakes-and-getting-married-right\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Redneck&#8221; Wedding Cakes and Getting Married Right"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Piper A. sent us <a href=\"http:\/\/cakewrecks.blogspot.com\/2009\/01\/you-say-redneck-like-its-bad-thing.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a link to a post at Cake Wrecks<\/a> featuring &#8220;redneck&#8221; wedding cakes. As someone who recently received an invitation to a cousin&#8217;s wedding that included the words &#8220;hitched,&#8221; &#8220;shotgun,&#8221; &#8220;Honkers,&#8221; &#8220;Tri-Tip,&#8221; and &#8220;beer tenders,&#8221; I feel especially qualified to comment on these cakes.*<\/p>\n<p>The fact that these cakes are considered &#8220;wrecks&#8221; reveals that we expect people to follow wedding rules. You are not allowed to have any cake you want, you must have a wedding cake and that cake must conform to certain specifications (apparently three tiers is not sufficient, neither is white frosting, and a sense of humor appears to be out). If you don&#8217;t conform, <em>you are getting married wrong<\/em>. In this case, if I may infer from the &#8220;redneck&#8221; statement, your wedding has no &#8220;class.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>See also this related post on &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/12\/15\/taste\/\" target=\"_self\">taste<\/a>&#8221; and two more posts on how to do weddings right (i.e., girls should\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/05\/03\/slim-down-for-your-wedding-day\/\" target=\"_self\">be skinny<\/a>\u00a0and <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/01\/23\/gender-roles-and-weddings\/\" target=\"_self\">be chosen<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>* Extra credit for anyone who can tell from that list of words where my extended family lives.<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Piper A. sent us a link to a post at Cake Wrecks featuring &#8220;redneck&#8221; wedding cakes. As someone who recently received an invitation to a cousin&#8217;s wedding that included the words &#8220;hitched,&#8221; &#8220;shotgun,&#8221; &#8220;Honkers,&#8221; &#8220;Tri-Tip,&#8221; and &#8220;beer tenders,&#8221; I feel especially qualified to comment on these cakes.* The fact that these cakes are considered &#8220;wrecks&#8221; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[29,2124,272],"class_list":["post-6316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-class","tag-foodagriculture","tag-marriagefamily"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6316"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6316\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":70969,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6316\/revisions\/70969"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}