{"id":53661,"date":"2013-02-03T12:00:20","date_gmt":"2013-02-03T17:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=53661"},"modified":"2015-02-01T03:27:10","modified_gmt":"2015-02-01T08:27:10","slug":"men-go-on-guyets-because-girls-are-stupid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2013\/02\/03\/men-go-on-guyets-because-girls-are-stupid\/","title":{"rendered":"Men Go on &#8220;Guyets&#8221; Because Girls are Stupid"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Ethical Adman&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/workthatmatters.blogspot.ca\/2013\/01\/molson-asks-are-you-on-guyet.html\" target=\"_blank\">Tom Meggison<\/a> sent along a new ad campaign by Molson. \u00a0The campaign coins the word &#8220;guyet,&#8221; a supposedly masculine alternative to &#8220;diet.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If dieting is working out in order to be thin, then guyeting is &#8220;working out to justify eating the foods you love&#8230; Bacon, nachos, and burgers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2013\/02\/Guyet-Definition-300x300.jpeg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53662\" title=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2013\/02\/Guyet-Definition-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2013\/02\/Guyet-Definition-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2013\/02\/Guyet-Definition-300x300-150x150.jpeg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a very simple thing going on here: things associated with women are NOT-FOR-MEN, so anything that rings feminine must be <del>covered in bacon, dipped in beer batter, and fried<\/del>\u00a0masculinized. See, for lots of examples, our <a href=\"http:\/\/pinterest.com\/socimages\/masculinizing-the-feminine\/\" target=\"_blank\">Pinterest page<\/a> on the phenomenon with almost 100 examples.<\/p>\n<p>Importantly, this isn&#8217;t just about maintaining a strong distinction between men and women, it&#8217;s about maintaining gender inequality. \u00a0We disparage and demean femininity, which is why men want to avoid it. \u00a0Listen to the tone of voice that the narrator uses when saying the word &#8220;diet&#8221; at 21 seconds:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4ckGeOrUkAs\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Dieting is stupid &#8217;cause girls and everything associated with girls is stupid. \u00a0Guyeting is awesome &#8217;cause guys are awesome.<\/p>\n<p>The reverse doesn&#8217;t apply. Women who do things men like to do &#8212; drink whiskey, play sports, become surgeons, have dogs, etc &#8212; somehow rise in our esteem. \u00a0Men&#8217;s worth, in contrast, is harmed by their association with femininity. \u00a0This is a layer of gender inequality above and beyond <em>sexism<\/em>, the privileging of men over women; it&#8217;s <em>androcentrism<\/em>, the privileging of the masculine over the feminine. \u00a0Since women are required to do femininity, it means being required to do trivial, demeaned, and disparaged things. \u00a0Meanwhile, men have to come up with stupid excuses for participating in basic healthy activities like going for a jog.<\/p>\n<p>More posts on androcentrism:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/07\/18\/woman-as-an-insult\/\" target=\"_self\">\u201cwoman\u201d as an insult<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2011\/06\/12\/androcentrism-its-okay-to-be-a-boy-but-being-a-girl\/\">being a girl is degrading<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2011\/01\/05\/making-it-manly-or-how-to-sell-a-car\/\">making it manly: how to sell a car<\/a>, good god don\u2019t let men have\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/12\/28\/hair-gender-and-school-dress-codes\/\" target=\"_self\">long hair<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/06\/26\/how-to-do-masculinity\/\" target=\"_self\">don\u2019t forget to hug like a dude<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/01\/28\/were-only-protecting-them-from-themselves\/\" target=\"_self\">saving men from their (feminine) selves<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/11\/24\/a-set-of-ads-suggesting-that-men-must-eschew-femininity-or-else\/\" target=\"_self\">men must eschew femininity<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/07\/11\/girl-plays-with-buzz-lightyear-lisa-remains-unimpressed\/\">not impressed with Buzz Lightyear commercial<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/11\/24\/dinosaurs-are-for-boys-girls-allowed\/\" target=\"_self\">dinosaurs can\u2019t be for girls<\/a>, and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/10\/30\/why-do-i-both-love-and-hate-this-commercial\/\" target=\"_self\">sissy men are so uncool<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>UPDATE: Comments closed.<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Ethical Adman&#8217;s Tom Meggison sent along a new ad campaign by Molson. \u00a0The campaign coins the word &#8220;guyet,&#8221; a supposedly masculine alternative to &#8220;diet.&#8221; If dieting is working out in order to be thin, then guyeting is &#8220;working out to justify eating the foods you love&#8230; Bacon, nachos, and burgers.&#8221; There&#8217;s a very simple [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[218,235,55,23678,2103,2098,23703,283,212],"class_list":["post-53661","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-bodies","tag-dietexercise-industry","tag-gender","tag-gender-androcentrism","tag-gender-bodies","tag-gender-prejudicediscrimination","tag-marketing","tag-prejudicediscrimination","tag-alcohol"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53661","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53661"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53661\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65782,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53661\/revisions\/65782"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53661"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53661"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53661"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}