{"id":50835,"date":"2012-09-08T11:16:01","date_gmt":"2012-09-08T16:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=50835"},"modified":"2017-09-17T15:51:13","modified_gmt":"2017-09-17T20:51:13","slug":"unsolicited-comments-to-busty-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2012\/09\/08\/unsolicited-comments-to-busty-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Unsolicited Comments to &#8220;Busty&#8221; Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Dolores R. sent in a cartoon by <a href=\"http:\/\/rampaigehalseyface.tumblr.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rampaige<\/a>. \u00a0It seems unlikely that a man would randomly criticize a woman in a scoop neck t-shirt for the existence of her breasts, but it happens more often than you think.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a bit busty, and a girl, and strangers have occasionally given me &#8220;advice&#8221; about my breasts. \u00a0Once I was told by a man I had just been introduced to that I shouldn&#8217;t wear sweaters. \u00a0Stumped &#8212; and living in Wisconsin &#8212; I asked why. \u00a0He explained that sweaters have &#8220;pile,&#8221; by which he meant that the fabric was thick. \u00a0The thickness of the fabric, he said, made my boobs look even bigger. \u00a0Since that was a bad thing,\u00a0apparently, he advised me to avoid sweaters. \u00a0Weird, I know. \u00a0But I&#8217;m just saying, this stuff happens.<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dolores R. sent in a cartoon by rampaige. \u00a0It seems unlikely that a man would randomly criticize a woman in a scoop neck t-shirt for the existence of her breasts, but it happens more often than you think. I&#8217;m a bit busty, and a girl, and strangers have occasionally given me &#8220;advice&#8221; about my breasts. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[218,55,2103,2098,283],"class_list":["post-50835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-bodies","tag-gender","tag-gender-bodies","tag-gender-prejudicediscrimination","tag-prejudicediscrimination"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50835"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50835\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":71598,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50835\/revisions\/71598"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}