{"id":4396,"date":"2008-12-02T01:00:57","date_gmt":"2008-12-02T06:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=4396"},"modified":"2010-08-19T15:11:33","modified_gmt":"2010-08-19T20:11:33","slug":"alcohol-as-a-tool-in-the-dating-game","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/12\/02\/alcohol-as-a-tool-in-the-dating-game\/","title":{"rendered":"Alcohol as a Tool in the Dating Game"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never been able to find a picture of it, but when I was in graduate school (not so long ago) and living in Madison, Wisconsin, there was an ad for Bacardi on the side of a city bus that said: &#8220;Bacardi, the Ultimate Wingman.&#8221;\u00a0 A wingman is a friend who helps you get laid, so the not-so-subtle message of the ad was: &#8220;get&#8217;er drunk and she&#8217;ll do ya!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Here are two ads that have, essentially, the same message (the first was given to me by my student, Bo; the\u00a0second was found <a href=\"http:\/\/multicultclassics.blogspot.com\/2008\/11\/6165-superior-drinkability-inferior.html\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>This one could be interpreted as, &#8220;Drink Heineken so you won&#8217;t be nervous,&#8221; or, &#8220;Drink Heineken so you&#8217;ll get what you want without any trouble.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/picture51.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4399 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/picture51.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"345\" height=\"497\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/picture5.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-1\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In this ad for Bud Light, with the copy &#8220;Endless Opportunities,&#8221; the man and the viewer of the ad exchange a conspiratorial gaze, while the woman glances to the side or, perhaps, back at him.\u00a0 Is the message, &#8220;If I&#8217;m drinking Bud Light, anything could happen,&#8221; or &#8220;If she&#8217;s drinking Bud Light, anything could happen&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/bud_light.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-2\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4397 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/bud_light.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"343\" height=\"475\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>See also <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/03\/19\/promoting-a-date-rape-drug\/\" target=\"_self\">this ad<\/a> for, ostensibly, a date rape drug.<\/p>\n<p>An\u00a0anonymous commenter pointed us to billboard below advertising Southern Comfort as a &#8220;liquid panty remover.&#8221;\u00a0 Before we get our panties in a bunch, I should point out it&#8217;s a hoax\u00a0(thanks, Vidya):<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/panty.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-3\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4870\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/panty.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"277\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So this is a hoax.\u00a0 It still trivializes trying to manipulate women by getting them drunk (at best) and date rape (at worst), but it could have been produced by any yahoo with a computer.\u00a0 Yahoos with computers can do anything they like, I&#8217;d be more concerned if it was circulated by the company that markets Southern Comfort.<\/p>\n<p>That said,\u00a0in looking it up to discover it was a hoax, I discovered about a dozen recipes for mixed drinks called &#8220;Liquid Panty Remover.&#8221;\u00a0 Here are some screen shots:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture5.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-4\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4875\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"290\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture4.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-5\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4874\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"349\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture3.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-6\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4873\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"365\" height=\"324\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture1.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-7\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4871\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/capture1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"438\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So I guess there was good news and bad news.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><strong>NEW!<\/strong> <span style=\"color: #000000\">In this ad, sent in by HighJive of <a href=\"http:\/\/multicultclassics.blogspot.com\/2009\/02\/6427-i-want-you-on-fuckin-set.html\" target=\"_blank\">MultiCultClassics<\/a>, the brandy is the &#8220;producer.&#8221;\u00a0 The producer is the person who makes a film happen.\u00a0 Thus the sexy scene that is about to ensue is attributed to the alcohol.\u00a0 (Also notice the linking of the product with pornography.)<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6684\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/12\/ibis.jpg\" alt=\"ibis\" width=\"382\" height=\"566\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">Also in sexualizing alcohol: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2007\/08\/28\/booze-sex\/\" target=\"_self\">&#8220;nice cans,&#8221;<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\"> <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/04\/11\/i-think-i-should-be-disgusted-but-instead-im-just-bored\/\" target=\"_self\">&#8220;she loves a cockatoo,&#8221;<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\"> sexy robots (see <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/04\/14\/a-metaphor-for-gender-relations\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/04\/28\/svedka-ad-sexy-female-robots\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\">), <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/05\/28\/1153\/\" target=\"_self\">&#8220;aged longer, tastes smoother,&#8221;<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\"> and, um, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/05\/15\/hold-still-would-ya\/\" target=\"_self\">this one<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never been able to find a picture of it, but when I was in graduate school (not so long ago) and living in Madison, Wisconsin, there was an ad for Bacardi on the 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