{"id":4103,"date":"2008-11-25T02:00:22","date_gmt":"2008-11-25T07:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=4103"},"modified":"2017-10-01T21:14:42","modified_gmt":"2017-10-02T02:14:42","slug":"the-privilege-of-being-an-upper-class-dad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/11\/25\/the-privilege-of-being-an-upper-class-dad\/","title":{"rendered":"The Privilege of Being an Upper Class Dad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I found these three ads for a private jet service in those magazines for <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">excrutiatingly<\/span> excruciatingly rich people that I&#8217;ve been posting from lately. Each ad&#8211;one for Marquis Jet and two for Delta AirElite&#8211;are pitching their service by suggesting that having a membership in their private jet service will help them be a good Dad because they can get home&#8211;for dinner, the game, or some quality time&#8211;from anywhere fast. Comments below.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/uppper-class-dad.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4102 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/uppper-class-dad.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"688\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Text:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">It&#8217;s not just a card.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">It&#8217;s a choice.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">A choice to escape from it all.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">A choice to get closer to what&#8217;s important.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/upper-class-dad.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-1\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4101\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/upper-class-dad.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"688\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nText:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>9:00AM.\u00a0\u00a0 Meeting with group of investors.<\/p>\n<p>1:30PM.\u00a0 Meeting with district managers.<\/p>\n<p>7:00PM.\u00a0 The most important meeting of all.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/dad-class-priv1.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-2\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4100\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2008\/11\/dad-class-priv1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"688\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Text:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Make 120 sales pitches on the road.<\/p>\n<p>Listen to pitches in 25 different company offices.<\/p>\n<p>Be there for the most important pitch.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty unusual to see ads that highlight a Dad&#8217;s relationship with his children. And that&#8217;s pretty neat. But, second, the implication is that only men at the extremes of economic success can &#8220;afford&#8221; to be an ideal father. Hypothetically, I wonder how many people working <em>for <\/em>that Dad have the privilege of taking a private jet and getting home in time for dinner? My guess would be: Very few. In that sense, these ads uphold the idea that men&#8217;s primary role in their children&#8217;s lives involves bringing home the bacon and, if you&#8217;re really, really, really good at that (and really, really lucky and, likely, very privileged to begin with), you get to be a part of their lives too.<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I found these three ads for a private jet service in those magazines for excrutiatingly excruciatingly rich people that I&#8217;ve been posting from lately. Each ad&#8211;one for Marquis Jet and two for Delta AirElite&#8211;are pitching their service by suggesting that having a membership in their private jet service will help them be a good Dad [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[29,55,2088,2087,778,272,307],"class_list":["post-4103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-class","tag-gender","tag-gender-marriagefamily","tag-gender-masculinity","tag-intersectionality","tag-marriagefamily","tag-traveltourism"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4103"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":71949,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4103\/revisions\/71949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}