{"id":25014,"date":"2011-05-08T10:00:51","date_gmt":"2011-05-08T15:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=25014"},"modified":"2013-11-11T03:14:14","modified_gmt":"2013-11-11T08:14:14","slug":"boys-will-be-boys-and-mothers-will-be-crazy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2011\/05\/08\/boys-will-be-boys-and-mothers-will-be-crazy\/","title":{"rendered":"Boys Will Be Boys and Mothers Will be Crazy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Christine B. sent along this Mother&#8217;s Day card:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/07\/cardoutside.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25100\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/07\/cardoutside.jpg\" width=\"336\" height=\"421\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/07\/cardinside.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-1\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25101\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/07\/cardinside.jpg\" width=\"335\" height=\"420\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It captures the normative idea that boys are naturally naughty (&#8220;I was just doing my job&#8221;).\u00a0 It also normalizes the notion that moms will be driven crazy by their sons, but accept their misbehavior as inevitable, even lovable.<\/p>\n<p>(By the way, I know I can&#8217;t see the child&#8217;s face; it could be a girl.\u00a0 Reading the cues &#8212; short hair, blue and green colors &#8212; and the cultural context, I figure it&#8217;s supposed to be a boy.)<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christine B. sent along this Mother&#8217;s Day card: It captures the normative idea that boys are naturally naughty (&#8220;I was just doing my job&#8221;).\u00a0 It also normalizes the notion that moms will be driven crazy by their sons, but accept their misbehavior as inevitable, even lovable. (By the way, I know I can&#8217;t see the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[223,55,2099,2088,254,272],"class_list":["post-25014","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-childrenyouth","tag-gender","tag-gender-childrenyouth","tag-gender-marriagefamily","tag-holidays","tag-marriagefamily"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25014","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25014"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25014\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":58881,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25014\/revisions\/58881"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}