{"id":23218,"date":"2010-05-14T10:06:05","date_gmt":"2010-05-14T15:06:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=23218"},"modified":"2013-12-15T03:05:57","modified_gmt":"2013-12-15T08:05:57","slug":"particularly-with-the-boy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/05\/14\/particularly-with-the-boy\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Particularly with the Boy&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the U.S. today we largely accept and encourage girls&#8217; experimentation with boy-coded things, but we are still extremely ambivalent, if not downright condemnatory, of boys experimenting with girl-coded things.<\/p>\n<p>This excerpt from an Ann Landers advice column from 1974 shows that Landers had the same asymmetrical concerns almost 40 years ago.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/05\/14\/particularly-with-the-boy\/anne\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-23220\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-23220\" title=\"anne\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/05\/anne.jpg\" width=\"533\" height=\"328\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/05\/anne.jpg 584w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/05\/anne-500x308.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 533px) 100vw, 533px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The parents ask about the sex-crossed play behavior of both their daughter and their son, but Landers fixates on the son, suggesting that if he continues such play he should get checked out.<\/p>\n<p>From <a href=\"http:\/\/msmagazine.com\/blog\/blog\/2010\/05\/05\/from-the-stacks-he-plays-with-dolls\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Ms<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the U.S. today we largely accept and encourage girls&#8217; experimentation with boy-coded things, but we are still extremely ambivalent, if not downright condemnatory, of boys experimenting with girl-coded things. This excerpt from an Ann Landers advice column from 1974 shows that Landers had the same asymmetrical concerns almost 40 years ago. The parents ask [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[223,55,2099,2102,253,1711],"class_list":["post-23218","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-childrenyouth","tag-gender","tag-gender-childrenyouth","tag-gender-history","tag-history","tag-toysgames"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23218","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23218"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23218\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":60229,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23218\/revisions\/60229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23218"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23218"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23218"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}