{"id":21518,"date":"2010-03-13T10:06:36","date_gmt":"2010-03-13T15:06:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=21518"},"modified":"2013-12-15T03:50:18","modified_gmt":"2013-12-15T08:50:18","slug":"marital-bliss-for-him-anyway","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/03\/13\/marital-bliss-for-him-anyway\/","title":{"rendered":"Marital Bliss&#8230; For Him Anyway"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Marital Bliss Bar, sent in by Chenoa A.:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/03\/13\/marital-bliss-for-him-anyway\/attachment\/44516\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-21519\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-21519\" title=\"44516\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/03\/44516.jpg\" width=\"569\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/03\/44516.jpg 569w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/03\/44516-500x219.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 569px) 100vw, 569px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The description of the candy bar at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spoonsisters.com\/Merchant2\/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&amp;Product_Code=44516\" target=\"_blank\">the source<\/a> says:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Here&#8217;s a sweet way for &#8220;soon-to-be-married&#8221; or &#8220;brand-new&#8221; grooms to get used to the fact that they&#8217;ll have to re-learn how to calculate percentages once married&#8230;.talk about new math!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So, just to be clear, the narrative is:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Guys&#8230; in marriage, women get more; getting used to it is the only way you\u2019re going to be happy.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Turns out the data suggest otherwise.\u00a0 The following things are true, on average:<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0 Married men are happier than unmarried men.\u00a0 But the opposite is true for women.\u00a0 Unmarried women are happier than married women.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0 Women are more likely to file for divorce than men and, after divorce, women are happier, while men are less happy.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, time and again, we&#8217;re told that getting men hate the idea of getting married and are wives are such a drag (see <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/12\/23\/guest-post-fun-with-the-2009-target-catalog\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/06\/01\/9388\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a> for examples).<\/p>\n<p>(One of the reasons, by the way, that women are less happy in marriage is because <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/07\/11\/of-housework-and-husbands\/\" target=\"_self\">they do a disproportionate amount of housework and childcare<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Marital Bliss Bar, sent in by Chenoa A.: The description of the candy bar at the source says: Here&#8217;s a sweet way for &#8220;soon-to-be-married&#8221; or &#8220;brand-new&#8221; grooms to get used to the fact that they&#8217;ll have to re-learn how to calculate percentages once married&#8230;.talk about new math! 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