{"id":19403,"date":"2015-05-29T09:01:52","date_gmt":"2015-05-29T14:01:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=19403"},"modified":"2015-05-07T19:57:48","modified_gmt":"2015-05-08T00:57:48","slug":"connecting-guilt-to-ethnicity-a-jewish-birthday-card","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2015\/05\/29\/connecting-guilt-to-ethnicity-a-jewish-birthday-card\/","title":{"rendered":"Connecting Guilt to Ethnicity: A Jewish Birthday Card"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Flashback Friday.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I recently came upon the Jewish greeting card section at Target, way down on the bottom row. I could tell it was the Jewish section because all of the dividers that tell you what kind of card is in that slot (birthday, anniversary, etc.) had a Star of David on them.<\/p>\n<p>I was interested in what a specifically Jewish birthday card might look like, so I picked this one up. It draws on\u00a0the idea that Jewish people are particularly prone to feeling guilty.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2010\/01\/22\/connecting-guilt-to-ethnicity-a-jewish-birthday-card\/card1\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-19401\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19401 aligncenter\" title=\"card1\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2010\/01\/card1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"307\" height=\"418\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The inside said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8230;but is cake and ice cream mentioned anywhere? I think NOT! It&#8217;s your day! Enjoy! Enjoy!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Mary Waters\u00a0found that people often believe that ethnicity explains all types of behaviors that are in\u00a0fact very widespread. She interviewed\u00a0White ethnics\u00a0in the U.S.; they often attributed their families&#8217; characteristics to their ethnicity. Take the\u00a0idea of the\u00a0loud, boisterous family, often including a mother who is constantly trying to get the kids to eat more of her homecooked meals and worrying\u00a0if they aren&#8217;t married. Many individuals described\u00a0their family\u00a0this way\u00a0and claimed that their ethnicity\u00a0was the reason.<\/p>\n<p>People who identified their background as Italian, Greek, Jewish, Polish, and others all believed that the way their family interacted was a unique custom of their ethnic group.\u00a0Yet they all described pretty much the same characteristics. The cardmakers&#8217;\u00a0(and others&#8217;) allusion to guilt to signify Jewishness seems to me to fall into this category: take out the Stars of David and I bet a range of religious\/ethnic groups would think it was tailored to them specifically.<\/p>\n<p>So you take a card, say guilt in it, add a Star of David, and\u00a0you&#8217;ve got a Jewish card. Take out the Star of David, maybe it&#8217;s a Catholic card, especially if you added a cross, since they&#8217;re often portrayed as feeling a lot of guilt. I&#8217;ve had friends who grew up Southern Baptist or Pentecostal joke about having felt guilty about everything, so you could market the card to them, too! I think it&#8217;s a good example of how we often treat characteristics or behaviors as somehow meaningfully\u00a0connected to a specific\u00a0ethnic background rather than being a pretty common way that people in general, across ethnic lines, behave.<\/p>\n<p><em>Originally published in 2010.<\/em><\/p>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em>Gwen Sharp is an associate professor of sociology at Nevada State College. You can follow her on Twitter at @gwensharpnv.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Flashback Friday. I recently came upon the Jewish greeting card section at Target, way down on the bottom row. I could tell it was the Jewish section because all of the dividers that tell you what kind of card is in that slot (birthday, anniversary, etc.) had a Star of David on them. 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