{"id":17687,"date":"2009-12-07T10:23:46","date_gmt":"2009-12-07T15:23:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=17687"},"modified":"2014-01-20T02:01:54","modified_gmt":"2014-01-20T07:01:54","slug":"dockers-defines-manhood-as-anti-everything-except-dirt-and-patriarchy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/12\/07\/dockers-defines-manhood-as-anti-everything-except-dirt-and-patriarchy\/","title":{"rendered":"Dockers Defines Manhood as Anti-Everything Except Dirt and Patriarchy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a sweet anecdote, Sociologist Michael Kimmel talks about how he was playing the game of opposites with his son.\u00a0 &#8220;What is the opposite of up?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Down.&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;What is the opposite of awake?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Asleep.&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;What is the opposite of man?&#8221;\u00a0 He asked.<\/p>\n<p>And his son replied, &#8220;Boy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Kimmel tells this story as a glimpse into an alternative world in which men do not define themselves in opposition to women, but see manhood in terms of maturity.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t live in that world.\u00a0 And Dockers thinks it can sell khakis by encouraging men to define themselves as not-women in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.us.dockers.com\/season\/landing.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">its new man-ifesto ad<\/a> campaign (text after the jump):<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-17692\" title=\"500x_pants\" alt=\"500x_pants\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2009\/12\/500x_pants.jpg\" width=\"567\" height=\"310\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, what is really interesting about this ad is the way that it defines manhood as in opposition to all kinds of things: womanhood, of course, but also boyhood, and feminine manhood, androgyny, and whatever disco, plastic forks, latte drinking, and salad represent.\u00a0 What do men get?\u00a0 Being in charge of women and children&#8230; and dirty hands (maybe the dirt is metaphorical).<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d much rather live in Kimmel Jr.&#8217;s world.<\/p>\n<p>(Thanks to Christina W. for encouraging us to write about this ad.)<\/p>\n<p>For a similar ad, see <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/07\/13\/before-feminism-when-men-were-men\/\" target=\"_self\">this Ketel One commercial expressing nostalgia for a pre-feminist time<\/a>.\u00a0 And, for lots of material documenting the new pop culture version of masculinity, browse our <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/tag\/gender-masculinity\/\" target=\"_self\">gender: masculinity tag<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Jump for a transcript of the text:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><!--more-->Once upon a time, men wore the pants, and wore them well.\u00a0 Women rarely had to open doors and little old ladies never crossed the street alone.\u00a0 Men took charge because that&#8217;s what they did.\u00a0 But somewhere along the way, the world decided it no longer needed men.\u00a0 Disco by disco, latte by foamy non-fat latte, men were stripped of their khakis and left stranded on the road between boyhood and androgyny.\u00a0 But today, there are questions our genderless society has no answers for. The world sits idly by as cities crumble, children misbehave and those little old ladies remain on one side of the street.\u00a0 For the first time since bad guys, we need heroes.\u00a0 We need grown-ups.\u00a0 We need men to put down the plastic fork, step away from the salad bar and untie the world from the tracks of complacency.\u00a0 It&#8217;s time to get your hands dirty.\u00a0 It&#8217;s time to answer the call of manhood.\u00a0 It&#8217;s time to wear the pants.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<span class=\"ft_signature\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\">Lisa Wade, PhD<\/a> is an Associate Professor at Tulane University. She is the author of <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/American-Hookup-New-Culture-Campus\/dp\/039328509X?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">American Hookup<\/a><em>, a book about college sexual culture; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gender-Interactions-Institutions-Lisa-Wade\/dp\/0393931072?ie=UTF8&amp;*Version*=1&amp;*entries*=0\">textbook about gender<\/a>; and a forthcoming introductory text: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/intro\/\">Terrible Magnificent Sociology<\/a><em>.\u00a0You can follow her on <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\">Twitter<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lisawadephd\/\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a sweet anecdote, Sociologist Michael Kimmel talks about how he was playing the game of opposites with his son.\u00a0 &#8220;What is the opposite of up?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Down.&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;What is the opposite of awake?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Asleep.&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;What is the opposite of man?&#8221;\u00a0 He asked. 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