{"id":13377,"date":"2009-09-15T10:59:25","date_gmt":"2009-09-15T15:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=13377"},"modified":"2012-10-17T02:24:18","modified_gmt":"2012-10-17T07:24:18","slug":"dont-hate-me-because-im-beautiful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/09\/15\/dont-hate-me-because-im-beautiful\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Don&#8217;t Hate Me Because I&#8217;m Beautiful&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From <a href=\"http:\/\/community.livejournal.com\/vintage_ads\/1351830.html\" target=\"_blank\">Vintage Ads<\/a>, another great example of the propagation of the stereotype that women are jealous of and hateful towards one another:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13379\" title=\"0_2c7f5_85a5b5d3_XL\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2009\/09\/0_2c7f5_85a5b5d3_XL.jpg\" alt=\"0_2c7f5_85a5b5d3_XL\" width=\"457\" height=\"552\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2009\/09\/0_2c7f5_85a5b5d3_XL.jpg 664w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/files\/2009\/09\/0_2c7f5_85a5b5d3_XL-415x500.jpg 415w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 457px) 100vw, 457px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The ad reminded me of the Pantene commercials from the 1980s with the slogan &#8220;Don&#8217;t hate me because I&#8217;m beautiful&#8230;&#8221;\u00a0 The real message not being &#8220;Don&#8217;t hate me because I&#8217;m beautiful&#8230;&#8221; but, &#8220;Don&#8217;t hate me because you could be beautiful too, and if you can&#8217;t, well then I suppose you&#8217;re going to have to hate me&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p><object width=\"425\" height=\"344\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/hz8ul-gmLyA&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/p>\n<p>More examples of this meme <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2012\/04\/18\/women-as-catty\/\">here<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/01\/03\/its-hard-being-a-tween-today\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/10\/23\/bride-wars-based-entirely-on-stereotype-that-women-are-catty-bride-zillas\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2009\/06\/22\/bacardi-says-get-an-ugly-friend-to-make-you-look-better\/\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I discuss the phenomenon, and how sexism (NOT estrogen) produces this situation, in <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/07\/13\/how-objectification-of-women-makes-women-hate-each-other\/\" target=\"_self\">a post about Battle of the Bods<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Lisa Wade is a\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/lisa-wade.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">professor of sociology at Occidental College<\/a>. You can follow her on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lisawade\/followers\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/Lisa-Wade-PhD\/174350419354908\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From Vintage Ads, another great example of the propagation of the stereotype that women are jealous of and hateful towards one another: The ad reminded me of the Pantene commercials from the 1980s with the slogan &#8220;Don&#8217;t hate me because I&#8217;m beautiful&#8230;&#8221;\u00a0 The real message not being &#8220;Don&#8217;t hate me because I&#8217;m beautiful&#8230;&#8221; but, &#8220;Don&#8217;t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[329,55,2089,2096],"class_list":["post-13377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-emotion","tag-gender","tag-gender-beauty","tag-gender-femininity"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13377"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13377\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51856,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13377\/revisions\/51856"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}