{"id":1333,"date":"2008-06-05T16:34:19","date_gmt":"2008-06-05T21:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/?p=1333"},"modified":"2010-11-23T23:32:41","modified_gmt":"2010-11-24T04:32:41","slug":"only-virgins-are-deserving-victims","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/2008\/06\/05\/only-virgins-are-deserving-victims\/","title":{"rendered":"Only Virgins are Deserving Victims"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t have an image for this post. What I have is a quote from Bill Napoli, a South Dakota state senator. He doesn&#8217;t believe that bills banning abortion should have an exception in cases of rape, because if the woman &#8220;really&#8221; deserved to get one, she could get it under the health-of-the-mother exception. Here is a direct quote:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A real-life description to me would be a rape victim, brutally raped, savaged. The girl was a virgin. She was religious. She planned on saving her virginity until she was married. She was brutalized and raped, sodomized as bad as you can possibly make it, and is impregnated. I mean, that girl could be so messed up, physically and psychologically, that carrying that child could very well threaten her life.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I came upon part of this quote in issue #40 of Bitch magazine (p. 17), but I found the full quote <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/newshour\/bb\/law\/jan-june06\/abortion_3-03.html\">here<\/a> (scroll down a little past halfway).<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s interesting to me here isn&#8217;t about abortion per se, but the implication of who would and wouldn&#8217;t &#8220;really&#8221; suffer if they were impregnated from a rape. Apparently if you aren&#8217;t a virgin or religious, or ARE a virgin but weren&#8217;t necessarily planning on staying that way until marriage, then being raped and getting pregnant just wouldn&#8217;t be as traumatic as it would to &#8220;nice&#8221; girls.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also creepy how we often like to think in rather fine detail about the ways good little virgins can be violated. I mean, he could have just said &#8220;she was raped,&#8221; but no, he decides to make it a bit more graphic. And how bad is &#8220;as bad as you can possibly make it&#8221;? Is there some measuring stick for how traumatizing different violations are, so you can be sure the girl has suffered enough to qualify as a deserving victim?<\/p>\n<p>It reminds me of an article I read about the myth of the black rapist and the virginal white victim in the post-Reconstruction South (sorry, I don&#8217;t remember the article); the author said that detailed stories about how animalistic, savage black men had ravaged delicate white women served as a form of folk porn&#8211;people repeated the stories over and over, embellishing as they went. Telling rape stories provided a socially sanctioned outlet for people to talk about sex even in &#8220;nice&#8221; society, since you were only doing it to warn others of the danger, of course.<\/p>\n<p>So even though there&#8217;s no image, I thought the quote might spark some interesting classroom discussion, either about abortion or about sexuality, victimization, and the enduring idea of the deserving and undeserving rape survivor. Or, hell, even a discussion of the social construction of porn&#8211;I mean, if you took Napoli&#8217;s exact words and put them in a different context and didn&#8217;t tell people he was a senator discussing a proposed bill, I bet a lot of people would think it was obscene but interpret it very differently since he was just talking about a hypothetical situation while discussing serious matters such as the law.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t have an image for this post. What I have is a quote from Bill Napoli, a South Dakota state senator. He doesn&#8217;t believe that bills banning abortion should have an exception in cases of rape, because if the woman &#8220;really&#8221; deserved to get one, she could get it under the health-of-the-mother exception. Here [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":50,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2083,2056,23384,55,2094,2090,778,85,285,120],"class_list":["post-1333","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-abortionreproduction","tag-crimelaw","tag-social-construction-discourselanguage","tag-gender","tag-gender-politics","tag-gender-violence","tag-intersectionality","tag-politics","tag-raceethnicity","tag-sex"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1333","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/50"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1333"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1333\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29461,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1333\/revisions\/29461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1333"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1333"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/socimages\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1333"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}