{"id":985,"date":"2008-07-07T10:51:00","date_gmt":"2008-07-07T15:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlwpen.com\/?p=985"},"modified":"2008-07-07T10:51:00","modified_gmt":"2008-07-07T15:51:00","slug":"guest-review-claire-mysko-on-about-face","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/2008\/07\/07\/guest-review-claire-mysko-on-about-face\/","title":{"rendered":"GUEST REVIEW: Claire Mysko on About Face"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/bp0.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/SHIwILXgB9I\/AAAAAAAABu4\/IwHUIpcMFoI\/s1600-h\/images.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt;float: left;cursor: pointer\" src=\"http:\/\/bp0.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/SHIwILXgB9I\/AAAAAAAABu4\/IwHUIpcMFoI\/s200\/images.jpeg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-family: georgia;font-size:100%\">This morning I&#8217;m pleased to bring you a review by <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/clairemysko.com\/\">Claire Mysko<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-family: georgia;font-size:100%\"> (pictured left), author of the just-released <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a><span>You&#8217;re Amazing!: A No-Pressure Guide to Being Your Best Self.<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-family: georgia;font-size:100%\">   I mean really, who better to review an anthology of very personal essays about what women see when they look in the mirror than a writer who is also the co-founder of <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/insidebeauty.org\/\">Inside Beauty<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-family: georgia;font-size:100%\"> and <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/5resolutions.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">5 Resolutions to Transform the Fashion and Beauty Industries<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-style: italic;font-family: georgia;font-size:100%\">, two groundbreaking initiatives that have garnered international acclaim for responsibly addressing the intersections of health, body image, fashion, and beauty?!  Without further ado, here&#8217;s Claire. &#8211; GWP<\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"margin: 1ex;font-family: georgia\"><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><a><span>About Face: Women Write About  What They See When They Look In the Mirror<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\">   <br \/>Edited by Anne Burt &amp; Christina  Baker Kline<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-size:100%\">Seal Press<\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><\/span>   <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:100%\">Too often, beauty and body  image are dismissed as superficial issues. <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.prospect.org\/cs\/articles?article=more_than_a_motherdaughter_debate\" target=\"_blank\"><span><u>Courtney Martin  recently wrote about an exchange she had with another feminist<\/u><\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"> who told her, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m so sick of  hearing <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\">young feminists  talk about fashion and body image\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6What about the women in Afghanistan!?&#8221;<\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"> I would encourage that feminist to  read <i>About Face<\/i>\u00e2\u20ac\u201da collection of twenty-three essays written  by women talking about what they see when they look in the mirror. This  is certainly not fluff or frivolity. The writers in this anthology share  deeply personal stories that build a compelling case for the central  message of this collection: It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s complicated. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s complicated because  what we see in the mirror is subjective. As we come to new understandings  about our lives and ourselves, the way we see our faces can change,  too.  <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meredithmaran.com\/\">Meredith Maran <\/a>exposes what  se learned about her own beauty when she was photographed with her supermodel  niece. Kym Ragusa approaches her reflection as ethnography, tracing  her features through photos of her mother and grandmother, and the lines  on maps revealing where her family has made its mark over the centuries.  And in her essay \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Souvenir,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Manijeh Nasrabadi describes how a trip  to stay with her family in Iran transformed her reflection:<\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><\/span> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><i><\/i><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Snagged by my own reflection,  I stopped and stared. Nothing jarred. Nothing tweaked my consciousness  painfully away from some imagined, whiter version of myself. It was  as if the settings in my brain had changed and reconfigured what my  mind could see. <\/i>Oh, so that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s what I look like.<i> I heard myself  sigh in relief. There was nothing ugly or needed to be changed. There  was nothing American, Jewish, Zoroastrian, or Iranian to hate or hide.  I laughed with myself. I smiled, and it was me I saw smiling. Then I  knew what it meant to feel at home.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><i> <\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"> <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\">I am one of those young feminists  who believes it is critically important for women to talk about body  image and beauty. We must explore how the reflection we see in the mirror  is a reflection of our relationships, our experiences, our cultures,  and our exposure to media messages\u00e2\u20ac\u201dif not for ourselves, then for  future generations. <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:100%\">According to the <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><a href=\"http:\/\/girlsinc.org\/ic\/page.php?id=2.1.36\" target=\"_blank\"><span><u>Girls Inc.  \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Supergirl Dilemma\u00e2\u20ac\u009d study<\/u><\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\">,  we have made great progress in overcoming some gender stereotypes over  the last six years. More girls now see that they can be good leaders  and fewer girls believe that they should be expected to take care of  housework and babysitting. The areas where stereotypes and pressures  have gotten worse? Looks and appearance. In 2000, 74% of girls said  that girls are under a lot of pressure to dress the right way; in 2006,  that number jumped to 84%. Sixty percent of girls in the study believe  that they must be thin to be popular; that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s up from 48% in 2000. <\/span><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><br \/><\/span> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:100%\"><i>About Face<\/i> is the kind  of book that can prepare us to be the role models these girls need.  The editors say that \u00e2\u20ac\u0153looking in the mirror without turning away\u00e2\u20ac\u201dand  then talking about it honestly\u00e2\u20ac\u201dis a radical act.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d The women in this  collection have taken that task to heart. I hope that others will read  their words and be inspired to stage their own radical acts, whether  in the bathroom mirror, in the rearview mirror, or even passing by a  store window. These reflections offer opportunities for positive change.  Let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s claim them as our own. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I&#8217;m pleased to bring you a review by Claire Mysko (pictured left), author of the just-released You&#8217;re Amazing!: A No-Pressure Guide to Being Your Best Self. 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