{"id":8603,"date":"2017-02-01T11:13:34","date_gmt":"2017-02-01T17:13:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/?p=8603"},"modified":"2017-02-01T11:13:34","modified_gmt":"2017-02-01T17:13:34","slug":"there-is-a-vibrator-in-a-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/2017\/02\/01\/there-is-a-vibrator-in-a-church\/","title":{"rendered":"“There is a vibrator in a church!”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey Girl w\/ Pen readers! I’m excited to share with you an excerpt of a piece I wrote recently with sociologist, Orit Avishai, on how some evangelical Christians and Orthodox Jews\u00a0challenge stereotypes about conservative religion and sexuality that appears in the latest edition of the American Sociological Association\u2019s (ASA) Contexts magazine<\/a>. You can read the full article for free for a limited time here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Orit Avishai and Kelsy Burke. \u201cGod\u2019s Case for Sex.\u201d Contexts<\/em> 15(4): 30-35<\/strong><\/p>\n

The church conference in a small Midwestern town was called, \u201cIntimacy in Marriage,\u201d so Kelsy expected speakers and participants to talk about sex. A graduate student just beginning research on evangelicals and sexuality, she was\u00a0not<\/em>\u00a0expecting the prayers for couples to experience \u201cthe deepest sexual pleasure in the name of Jesus Christ\u201d or a raffle for a vibrating massager that sat on a table in the sanctuary. Her field notes were punctuated with exclamation points, like after the phrase, \u201cThere is a vibrator in a church!\u201d<\/p>\n

On the other side of the globe, in Israel, an Orthodox Jewish bridal counselor discussed with Orit the sexual education component of a twelve-session marriage preparation course. A stern looking woman in her fifties, she served as an example for brides-to-be of Jewish modesty codes\u2014hair covered, she was dressed in a long skirt and shirt with long sleeves and high neckline. Yet she spoke enthusiastically and directly to the sexually uninitiated young women enrolled in the course, telling them to \u201cGet the mood right. Tell him what you want.\u201d<\/p>\n

Were it not for the obvious markers of religion, these scenes might not be surprising in the 21st century. At least within western popular culture, \u201cgood sex\u201d has seemingly won out over sexual shame and become a prerogative of modern adult life. From advice books like\u00a0The Joy of Sex<\/em>\u00a0to TV shows like\u00a0Sex in the City<\/em>\u00a0and popular podcasts like\u00a0Savage Love<\/em>, a fulfilling sex life is promoted as integral to happiness and personal fulfillment. But religious traditions are notorious for sexual rules and norms that seem to fly in the face of modern secular culture, with its emphasis on sexual expression, experimentation, and satisfaction. In fact, many observers associate the expansion of progressive sexual norms and practices with the decline of organized religion.<\/p>\n

It is in this context that we examine how some religious followers live and love amid secular and religious messages about sex and sexuality. Kelsy observed, surveyed, and interviewed American evangelical Christians who used websites or attended workshops to discuss sexual pleasure in Christian marriages. Orit interviewed Orthodox Jewish women in Israel about the sexual education that is part of an elaborate marriage preparation. The believers, educators, and experts we interviewed and observed contradicted the stereotype that religiosity is incompatible with sexual pleasure. They self-identified as \u201ctraditional,\u201d \u201cconservative,\u201d and \u201cdevout,\u201d yet insisted that their religious traditions encouraged sexual pleasure and could even improve how they experienced sexuality. Our respondents learned to navigate the religiously prescribed boundaries surrounding sexuality and embrace \u201cgood,\u201d religiously sanctioned sex.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Continue reading at Contexts.org<\/a> \u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hey Girl w\/ Pen readers! I’m excited to share with you an excerpt of a piece I wrote recently with sociologist, Orit Avishai, on how some evangelical Christians and Orthodox Jews\u00a0challenge stereotypes about conservative religion and sexuality that appears in the latest edition of the American Sociological Association\u2019s (ASA) Contexts magazine. You can read the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2047,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37840],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8603","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-god"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8603","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2047"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8603"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8603\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8613,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8603\/revisions\/8613"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8603"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8603"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8603"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}