{"id":75,"date":"2007-04-17T11:23:00","date_gmt":"2007-04-17T16:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlwpen.com\/?p=75"},"modified":"2007-04-17T11:23:00","modified_gmt":"2007-04-17T16:23:00","slug":"happy-launch-day-courtney-and-a-mea-culpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/2007\/04\/17\/happy-launch-day-courtney-and-a-mea-culpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Launch Day, Courtney! And a mea culpa&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bp0.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/RiTvJEiqlxI\/AAAAAAAAAEo\/li-iJzjglEA\/s1600-h\/0743287967.01._SCLZZZZZZZ_V43381935_AA240_.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"http:\/\/bp0.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/RiTvJEiqlxI\/AAAAAAAAAEo\/li-iJzjglEA\/s200\/0743287967.01._SCLZZZZZZZ_V43381935_AA240_.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>Two quick updates from the reading\/s front:  <\/p>\n<p>Courtney Martin&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Perfect-Girls-Starving-Daughters-Frightening\/dp\/0743287967\">Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters<\/a> goes on sale today! Check out Courtney&#8217;s report from the front, on her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.crucialminutiae.com\/\">blog<\/a>. Great review by Holly Brubach in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2007\/04\/17\/style\/tmagazine\/15tbiblio.html?_r=2&amp;ref=tmagazine&amp;oref=slogin&amp;oref=slogin\">Sunday&#8217;s Style magazine<\/a>. Courtney&#8217;s is one you don&#8217;t want to miss.      <\/p>\n<p>Second, mea culpa &#8211; and to my relief.  In spite of an effectively provocative but somewhat misleading title (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Feminine-Mistake-Are-Giving-Much\/dp\/1401303064\">The Feminine Mistake<\/a>) that SAHMs have taken offense too, perhaps missing the Friedan reference, Leslie Bennetts is very GOOD on structure in numerous places.  Check out, for starters, the chapters titled &#8220;Opting Out&#8221; and &#8220;Opting Back In,&#8221; where she cites my new favorite sociologist, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ucpress.edu\/books\/pages\/10348.html\">Pamela Stone<\/a>, among others, extensively.  And she incorporates some great structural zingers, like this one, from Sylvia Law: &#8220;This line about how women have to pick between having a family and having real work is sexist&#8230;When you say to women, and only women, &#8216;You have to pick,&#8217; it&#8217;s a way of keeping women in their place by saying, &#8216;This is the way it is.&#8217;  <i>The Times<\/i> likes to tell the story as if the structures are immovable and you have to accept them.&#8221;  Yeah, well, so do a lot of these books claiming to assuage women&#8217;s angst. But I digress.<\/p>\n<p>The question remains: In an era (and in a blogosphere) in which savvy authors KNOW people have no qualms voicing an opinion without reading the book, is it fair &#8212; or disingenuous &#8212; for us to rail against those who judge our books by their covers when our titles are, for better or worse, intended to provoke?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two quick updates from the reading\/s front: Courtney Martin&#8217;s Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters goes on sale today! Check out Courtney&#8217;s report from the front, on her blog. Great review by Holly Brubach in Sunday&#8217;s Style magazine. Courtney&#8217;s is one you don&#8217;t want to miss. Second, mea culpa &#8211; and to my relief. In spite of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1901,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[21938],"class_list":["post-75","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-worklife"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1901"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=75"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=75"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=75"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=75"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}