{"id":739,"date":"2008-04-09T15:13:00","date_gmt":"2008-04-09T20:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlwpen.com\/?p=739"},"modified":"2008-04-09T15:13:00","modified_gmt":"2008-04-09T20:13:00","slug":"lusty-lady-does-it-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/2008\/04\/09\/lusty-lady-does-it-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Lusty Lady Does It Again&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bp3.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/R_0VXMcItyI\/AAAAAAAABPM\/Y5IqmXbgjL4\/s1600-h\/DirtyGirls.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt;float: left;cursor: pointer\" src=\"http:\/\/bp3.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/R_0VXMcItyI\/AAAAAAAABPM\/Y5IqmXbgjL4\/s200\/DirtyGirls.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Well, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rachelkramerbussel.com\/\">Rachel Kramer Bussel <\/a>has done it again.   A prolific erotica writer herself, Rachel gathers 26 other uninhibited women in her new collection from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sealpress.com\/\">Seal<\/a> titled <a><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Dirty Girls: Erotica for Women<\/span><\/a>.  Love that the book flap answers Freud&#8217;s infamously infuriating question, &#8220;What do women really want?&#8221; with the following: <span style=\"font-style: italic\">&#8220;They want it all.&#8221;  <\/span>Because &#8220;it all&#8221; is pretty much what you&#8217;ll find between these covers.  And believe me, if you read it, you will only be left wanting one thing: More.<\/p>\n<p>The collection is, as Rachel notes in her intro, &#8220;dirty and sweet, wrapped up in one.&#8221;  Like Rachel herself&#8211;who also runs a cupcake blog (anyone catch her recent appearance on Martha Stewart? for reals).  This recipe for good erotica starts, of course, by dutifully deconstructing &#8220;dirty.&#8221;  Writes Rachel:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;All too often we denigrate the dirty girls&#8211;the ones who dare to publicly show their naughty sides&#8211;as incorrigible sluts rather than realizing just how exciting it is to tap into our lustiest selves.  Once you crack the surface of those who are seeingly prim and proper&#8211;the demure suburban housewife, the suited up banker, the quet secretary, the curious bookworm, the shy computer nerd&#8211;you&#8217;ll very likely find that the simplicity of the word &#8216;dirty&#8217; doesn&#8217;t go anywhere near far enough to describe the kinds that lurk within them.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Ultimately,<span style=\"font-style: italic\"> Dirty Girls<\/span> is playful, yet hot.  As couples therapist Esther Perel has noted elsewhere, democracy isn&#8217;t always the hottest thing when it comes to the bedroom, and the stories here are loath to follow any PC guidelines.  Thank goodness. The result?  A book filled with &#8220;erotic adrenaline.&#8221;  Full of fantasy, yet real.  Which, btw, reminds me of another recent nonfiction title, which I hear reads like a modern-day McKinnsey study, full of to-the-minute kinks.  It&#8217;s called <span style=\"font-style: italic\">America Unzipped.<\/span>  I&#8217;d be eager to hear what Rachel has to say about it&#8211;in fact, I bet she&#8217;s blogged about it over at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lustylady.blogspot.com\/\">Lusty Lady<\/a>.  I&#8217;m off to check out the latest on her  awesome (and inspiring!) blog.<\/p>\n<p>For those who are local,<span class=\"plogBodyText\"> Rachel is throwing a <a href=\"http:\/\/dirtygirlsbook.wordpress.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">book party<\/a> here in NYC on Thursday, where there will be BOOB cake from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.moistandtasty.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Moist and Tasty.<\/a>  At <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sutralounge.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Sutra Lounge,<\/a> 16 First Avenue off First Street, Thursday, April 10, 7-9, FREE, 21+.  She&#8217;ll also be hitting Atlanta, where she&#8217;ll be talking, with others, at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sex20con.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Sex 2.0.<\/a>  CONGRATS, Rachel, and thanks for giving us this book!<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, Rachel Kramer Bussel has done it again. A prolific erotica writer herself, Rachel gathers 26 other uninhibited women in her new collection from Seal titled Dirty Girls: Erotica for Women. 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