{"id":482,"date":"2007-12-20T06:13:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-20T11:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlwpen.com\/?p=482"},"modified":"2007-12-20T06:13:00","modified_gmt":"2007-12-20T11:13:00","slug":"i-am-prude-and-so-can-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/2007\/12\/20\/i-am-prude-and-so-can-you\/","title":{"rendered":"I Am Prude (and So Can You!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/bp0.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/R2pEe6GtyUI\/AAAAAAAAAxk\/pacsi6Mg_EM\/s1600-h\/41bAt2DRu9L._AA240_-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"http:\/\/bp0.blogger.com\/_AjTpvPO_ddU\/R2pEe6GtyUI\/AAAAAAAAAxk\/pacsi6Mg_EM\/s200\/41bAt2DRu9L._AA240_-1.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Just when you were craving another book that pits &#8220;bad girls&#8221; (ie, feminists, and those who have nonmonogamous sex) against &#8220;good girls&#8221; (the ones who don&#8217;t) comes Carol Platt Liebau&#8217;s <a><span style=\"font-style:italic\">Prude: How the Sex-Obsessed Culture Damages Girls (and America, Too!)<\/span><\/a>.  While I&#8217;m guessing the parens and exclamation point are for earnest emphasis, I can&#8217;t help but think of Steven Colbert&#8217;s recent title, <a><span style=\"font-style:italic\">I Am America (and So Can You!)<\/span><\/a> whenever I see this now.  And so, I confess to taking the tone of it all a little tongue-in-cheek.  That is not, however, the author&#8217;s intention.<\/p>\n<p>The prolific and ever-savvy sex writer <a href=\"http:\/\/alternet.org\/story\/70614\/\">Rachel Kramer Bussel has written about the book over at AlterNet<\/a>.  Charges Rachel,<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style:italic\">Liebau is not simply bemoaning the fact that it&#8217;s easier, and more socially acceptable, for young girls to be sexually active, but also that adult women dare to act this way as well.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;She makes the same tired mistake that so many do, assuming that &#8220;sexual freedom&#8221; means living in a world where sex doesn&#8217;t matter, to anyone. Whether we call that &#8220;do-me&#8221; or &#8220;wham, bam, thank you, ma&#8217;am,&#8221; there is so much more to true sexual freedom. But in her world, you&#8217;re either in a committed, monogamous relationship, or out there screwing anything that moves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>While I&#8217;m not all that interested in reading this book (and am grateful to Rachel for doing so for me), I am interested in the chapter titled &#8220;Do-Me Feminists and Doom-Me Feminism,&#8221; if only for the sake of seeing how recent feminist history, once again, gets played.<\/p>\n<p>For more on this exciting trend, of course, see <a href=\"http:\/\/www.prospect.org\/cs\/articles?article=unrequited_love\">Wendy Shalit&#8217;s <span style=\"font-style:italic\">Girls Gone Mild<\/span>.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just when you were craving another book that pits &#8220;bad girls&#8221; (ie, feminists, and those who have nonmonogamous sex) against &#8220;good girls&#8221; (the ones who don&#8217;t) comes Carol Platt Liebau&#8217;s Prude: How the Sex-Obsessed Culture Damages Girls (and America, Too!). While I&#8217;m guessing the parens and exclamation point are for earnest emphasis, I can&#8217;t help [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1901,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[400,176],"class_list":["post-482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-book-reviews","tag-sexuality"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1901"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=482"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/482\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/girlwpen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}