{"id":10758,"date":"2020-12-01T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/?p=10758"},"modified":"2020-12-02T04:29:39","modified_gmt":"2020-12-02T04:29:39","slug":"i-really-dont-want-you-to-do-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/2020\/12\/01\/i-really-dont-want-you-to-do-that\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI Really Don\u2019t Want You to Do That\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"
\n Mirjam Ghassemi, Katharina Bernecker, and Veronika Brandst\u00e4tter, <\/span>“ake Care, Honey!\u2019: People Are More Anxious About Their Significant Others’ Risk Behavior Than About Their Own,” Journal of Experimental Social Psychology<\/em>,<\/a><\/span> 2020<\/span><\/div>\n\n
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Image: A black and white image of a man walking by a body of water on a cellphone, his hand resting on his furrowed brow. “Worried!”<\/a> by photoloni<\/a> is licensed under CC BY 2.0<\/a><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

2020 has given us a lot to worry about from climate crisis, wildfires, superstorms, earthquakes, various elections near and far, to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. And, of course, we also worry as our daily lives seem ever so risky. But what about the kind of worry we experience for the people we love – our romantic partners, children, and close friends? While existing research has focused on individuals, a new study suggests we may in fact worry more about our loved ones. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Social psychologists Mirjam Ghassemi<\/a>, Katharina Bernecker<\/a>, and Veronika Brandst\u00e4tter<\/a> ask whether people are more anxious when a loved one is about to do something risky than when they are about to engage in the same risk behavior themselves. Through a series of five experimental studies, the researchers presented participants with imagined scenarios of risks to health or safety to better understand the relationship between how individuals assess risk and the amount of anxiety they feel. These imagined scenarios ranged from everyday risks such as cycling without a helmet to the more dramatic risks such as boarding a plane with a recent history of mechanical failures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Although not an exact image used in this series of experiments, participants received detailed descriptions of risky situations, designed to elicit an emotional response such as what we may feel when viewing a photo like this one. Dramatic POV photo looking down on feet standing on boards high above a city block, photo courtesy of Alexas_fotos  via pixabay CC0<\/a><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

<\/div>The authors find that we worry more about our loved ones than we do about ourselves, even when they are taking the exact same risk as us. No matter who the person is to us (partner, child, or friend), the closer we are, the more we worry about them. It seems that we have a decent ability to manage worries about our own risk-taking, but our ability may be less refined when it comes to managing our worries about those who are close to us.The authors find that we worry more about our loved ones than we do about ourselves, even when they are taking the exact same risk as us. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why is there a discrepancy in how much we worry? The authors suggest this could be due to our lack of control over our loved ones\u2019 behaviors. Another possible explanation is that we can more easily imagine worse outcomes for other people than we can imagine for ourselves, which increases our worry for them. These findings show that our close relationships to others makes us worry. However, we also need these close relationships to help support us in challenging and uncertain times. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mirjam Ghassemi, Katharina Bernecker, and Veronika Brandst\u00e4tter, “ake Care, Honey!\u2019: People Are More Anxious About Their Significant Others’ Risk Behavior Than About Their Own,” Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 2020 2020 has given us a lot to worry about from climate crisis, wildfires, superstorms, earthquakes, various elections near and far, to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2113,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,33],"tags":[134790,134789,381,329,134791,134788,134792,134787,30429,134786,37],"class_list":["post-10758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-health","tag-appraisal-theory-of-emotion","tag-cognitive-evaluation","tag-discoveries","tag-emotion","tag-optimistic-bias","tag-risk-assessment","tag-risk-behavior","tag-risk-perception","tag-risk-taking","tag-self-other-bias","tag-social-psychology"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10758","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2113"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10758"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10758\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10775,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10758\/revisions\/10775"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10758"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10758"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/discoveries\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10758"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}