{"id":20794,"date":"2016-01-05T11:00:12","date_gmt":"2016-01-05T15:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/?p=20794"},"modified":"2016-01-05T11:28:05","modified_gmt":"2016-01-05T15:28:05","slug":"why-we-hate-man-buns","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2016\/01\/05\/why-we-hate-man-buns\/","title":{"rendered":"Why We Hate Man Buns"},"content":{"rendered":"

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2015 was full of trends that we loved to hate: the dress, minions, vaping, hoverboards\u2026 it has been a veritable cornucopia of listicles and memes bemoaning the sad state of popular culture. But one stands out to me as particularly partisan, capable of tearing families apart, more controversial than the pumpkin spice lattes or Crocks of years past. That\u2019s right\u2014I\u2019m talking about the man bun.<\/p>\n

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No Tina, not those buns.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

It started with Jared Leto, the original poster boy for man buns. Leto could probably shave Donald Trump\u2019s face into the side of his head and make it look sexy, so it\u2019s no surprise that he looks great in a man bun. And much of the criticism of man bun popularity is that not everyone can \u201cpull it off,\u201d something most of us have said to ourselves at one time or another. For femme folks, it might be cherry red lipstick or high-wasted cut off shorts. For masculine people, maybe it\u2019s suspenders or brightly patterned ties. But by far, most of the hate directed at the man bun stems from one perception: it\u2019s girly.<\/p>\n

In a survey conducted by the noted polling outlet West Coast Shaving<\/a> 62% of women say they dislike or hate man buns. When asked what adjective first comes to mind when seeing a man with a bun, the top response was \u201cfeminine.\u201d Most women also replied that they would not date a man who wears his hair in a bun. Men\u2019s Fitness<\/em> also did an informal poll<\/a> on man buns, and out of 100 women they asked 74 said they did not like them. Women responded with concerns about hair tie sharing, praise that buns expressed confidence in one\u2019s masculinity, and the very straightforward belief that buns are for women only.<\/p>\n

Another criticism of man buns is that they\u2019re hipster, but I would argue that this is also tied to modern complications of masculinity. The jokes about male hipster aesthetics are typically that they\u2019re too sensitive, their jeans are too tight, their beards and hair too well coiffed. I won\u2019t get into all of the more substantive critiques of hipsters like gentrification and appropriation of black, working class, and Native American culture, though they are many. My point here is that drawing a distinction between the gender-policing and hipster-hating response to man buns is dubious.<\/p>\n

So where does all of this leave men who complicate or push the boundaries of gender conformity? In her work on gender and performativity, Judith Butler defines gender as the \u201cstylized repetition of acts\u201d that contribute to the perpetuation of the \u201ccompulsory heterosexual matrix\u201d\u2014all of those systems and cultural norms that demarcate who is accepted and who is considered dangerous to the societal status quo. LGBTQ individuals have faced discrimination and violence throughout history for violating these norms and for challenging the heterosexual matrix, though slow progress on that front will hopefully continue to mitigate that discrimination. Perhaps the most dangerous of all to this system are transgender people, who not only challenge codified gender behavior and sexual desire, but the very concepts of biological sex that are deeply entrenched in the most basic institutions of our society.<\/p>\n

So, here is my argument: man buns are dangerous. I don\u2019t mean to overstate the issue, but challenges to masculine norms by those perceived to be otherwise very masculine throw the institution of sex and gender into disarray. Varieties of identity that draw on both masculine and feminine traits are particularly confusing. Male cheerleaders are explained away as wanting to touch their peers\u2019 butts (or being gay), drag performers are considered safe and entertaining only when onstage and in a controlled environment, and bisexual women are \u201cgoing through a phase\u201d while bisexual men are erased altogether. Queering the line between masculine and feminine, or erasing it altogether for gender non-conforming individuals, is not only provocative\u2014it threatens to dismantle the compulsory heterosexual matrix altogether. And it puts individuals\u2019 lives at stake. It inspires outrage and fear, but also progress and better understanding of the complex spectrum of human behavior.<\/p>\n

Are man buns revolutionary? Probably not. Will they single-handedly disrupt or deconstruct the compulsory heterosexual matrix? No. But they might tell us something about the limits of masculine femininity. Who can and can\u2019t \u201cget away with\u201d a man bun tells us who can transgress those norms and who can\u2019t. Handsome movie stars are celebrated for sporting a bun, while effeminate hipsters, those deemed conventionally unattractive, or those who otherwise do not project confidence in their masculinity can\u2019t pull it off.<\/p>\n

Why do we hate the man bun? What is the heart of a critique that says men shouldn\u2019t wear their hair in a way typically reserved for women? We can dismiss the whole affair as more backlash against something trendy, and certainly that\u2019s at play. We love hating things that are popular. But I think there\u2019s something else too. I think we\u2019re a little afraid of the man bun. It\u2019s one more chip in the already fragile set of cultural mores that tells us how to categorize one another, how to box ourselves into male and female compartments. But don\u2019t be scared. It\u2019s just a bun.<\/p>\n

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Britney is on Twitter<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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