{"id":12409,"date":"2012-10-15T11:42:50","date_gmt":"2012-10-15T15:42:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/?p=12409"},"modified":"2012-10-16T11:35:12","modified_gmt":"2012-10-16T15:35:12","slug":"refusing-the-refusenicks-paradigm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2012\/10\/15\/refusing-the-refusenicks-paradigm\/","title":{"rendered":"Refusing the Refusenicks Paradigm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2012\/10\/15\/refusing-the-refusenicks-paradigm\/zucksoover\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-12443\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-12443\" title=\"zucksoover\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/files\/2012\/10\/zucksoover-500x500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/files\/2012\/10\/zucksoover-500x500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/files\/2012\/10\/zucksoover-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/files\/2012\/10\/zucksoover-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;d like to point readers to a terrific three-part essay by Laura Portwood-Stacer\u00a0on three reasons why people refuse media, <a href=\"http:\/\/flowtv.org\/2012\/07\/how-we-talk-about-media-refusal-part-1\/\">addiction<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/flowtv.org\/2012\/09\/media-refusal-part-2-asceticism\/\">asceticism<\/a>, and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/flowtv.org\/2012\/10\/how-we-talk-about-media-refusal-part-3-aesthetics\/\" target=\"_blank\">aesthetics<\/a>. We can apply this directly to\u00a0what might become an increasingly important topic in social media studies: social media refusers, already (edit: and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thestate.ae\/social-media-shministim-refuseniks-military\/\" target=\"_blank\">unfortunately<\/a>, as Rahel Aima points out) nicknamed &#8220;refusenicks&#8221;. There will be more to come on this blog on how to measure and conceptualize Facebook (and other social media) refusal, but let&#8217;s begin by analyzing these three frameworks used to discuss social media refusal and critique some of the\u00a0underlying\u00a0assumptions. <!--more-->[A note I&#8217;d like to include after reading some comments to this piece: the reasons for refusal listed here are certainly not the <em>only<\/em> reasons people refuse media. Second, critiquing some of the assumptions made by current refusal paradigms is not an attempt to argue we shouldn&#8217;t theorize refusal; indeed, it is an attempt at just the opposite, to build towards a more accurate understanding of refusal.]<\/p>\n<p><em>I. Addiction<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;<em>addiction<\/em>&#8221; framework seeks to pathologize media consumption practices, and if we agree with Foucault&#8217;s point that much of the discourse around pathology (for him, mental illness) is actually about constructing its opposite, the &#8220;normal,&#8221; we might see the &#8220;Internet addiction&#8221; genre as really about normalizing our own supposedly non-addict behavior. The result is that, according to\u00a0Portwood-Stacer,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Consumer culture and the corporations which power it are thus left unproblematized, while individual pathological behaviors are subjected to scrutiny and critique<\/p>\n<p>We are encouraged to understand the tendency to succumb as indication of personal moral failure [&#8230;]\u00a0a rehash of the neoliberal responsibilization we\u2019ve seen in so many other areas of \u201cethical consumption\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Vaughan Bell has a terrific <a href=\"http:\/\/mindhacks.com\/2007\/08\/20\/why-there-is-no-such-thing-as-internet-addiction\/\" target=\"_blank\">piece<\/a> on how &#8220;\u2018internet addiction\u2019 relies on a fundamental misunderstanding of what the internet is.&#8221; Further, on Cyborgology earlier this year, Jenny Davis provides <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2012\/03\/20\/the-problem-with-internet-addiction\/\" target=\"_blank\">additional critique<\/a>, looking at how the addiction paradigm wrongly assumes that the Web is\u00a0separate from everyday life. If social media is simply socializing, or communicating, can we really be &#8220;addicted&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>Putting these thoughts in conversation with each other, it seems that the &#8220;Internet addiction&#8221; paradigm is not about refusing this media at all, it is about reframing our anxieties and difficulties as something we can fix. We construct an Internet Illness to create an Internet Normal; both of which are predicated on a <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2011\/02\/24\/digital-dualism-versus-augmented-reality\/\" target=\"_blank\">digital dualist<\/a> fallacy: these are technological problems with technological solutions. When problems are wrongly centered on technologies and the responsibility is laid on individuals we forget the social problems at root in service of a self-help industry ready to sell you\u00a0treatment, or, at a minimum, get lots of advertiser-supporting page-views.<\/p>\n<p><em>II. Asceticism<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Second, Portwood-Stacer describes <a href=\"http:\/\/flowtv.org\/2012\/09\/media-refusal-part-2-asceticism\/\">asceticism<\/a>\u00a0as another reason for\u00a0refusing media. The ideas is\u00a0that one&#8217;s life could be improved by eliminating a specific media platform, like Facebook; that is, to,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>subject their personal behaviors to ethical scrutiny, and then, importantly, to employ technical solutions aimed at satisfying any problems which are identified<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This tendency involves &#8220;depriving the self of a desired object in the interest of purifying the self,&#8221; Further,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Many media refusers, instead of or in addition to wanting to become more productive selves, also express the desire to become better friends, partners, parents, and community members through their reduction in media consumption. Might we see these kinds of selves as resisting the logic of neoliberal individualism then?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I agree fully, but would like to diverge a bit from Portwood-Stacer&#8217;s essay because\u00a0I see this a bit differently, and perhaps a bit less\u00a0optimistically. In my essay on <a href=\"http:\/\/thenewinquiry.com\/essays\/the-irl-fetish\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The IRL Fetish<\/em><\/a>, I argue that the social media fast\/diet genre is really about making two mistakes in order to demonstrate how special and real one is while others are\u00a0robotically\u00a0attached something virtual and\u00a0trivial.\u00a0The first mistake is to underestimate the offline-ness inherent in social media. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/technology\/archive\/2012\/04\/social-medias-small-positive-role-in-human-relationships\/256346\/\" target=\"_blank\">Research<\/a> shows those using social media more tend to do more offline and face-to-face. Indeed, much of Facebook is what you do when not on Facebook; your Facebook contacts are mostly your face-to-face contacts, your Facebook photos are mostly of what you are doing when not tethered to a screen, etc. The second mistake follows from the first: incorrectly thinking logging off of Facebook is really disconnection. Spending the day off of Facebook is where we build interpersonal connections that flow back onto the site when we next log on. Not-Facebook is where we take the photos we&#8217;ll later upload, where we think the thoughts that congeal into status updates, etc.<\/p>\n<p>The influence of social media is not just what happens when looking at the screen, but also how the logic of social sharing via those sites <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/technology\/archive\/2012\/01\/the-facebook-eye\/251377\/\" target=\"_blank\">is carried around with social media users<\/a> almost all the time. Thus, as Whitney Erin Boesel <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2012\/08\/06\/a-new-privacy-full-essay-parts-i-ii-and-iii-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">states<\/a>,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>it may be technically impossible for anyone, even social media rejecters and abstainers, to disconnect completely from social media and other digital social technologies<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2012\/05\/10\/social-media-you-can-log-off-but-you-cant-opt-out\/\" target=\"_blank\">PJ Rey<\/a>,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>social media may not have a direct impact on the lives of non-users, but non-users are nevertheless part of a society which constantly changes as the mutually-determining (i.e., \u201cdialectical\u201d) relationship between society and techonology unfolds. S<em>ocial media is non-optional: You can log off but you can\u2019t opt out.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The result of making these conceptual mistakes about social media refusal is to invent and valorize one&#8217;s own disconnection: &#8216;I don&#8217;t waste my life on something so trivial, I appreciate the\u00a0<em>real<\/em>; my life has depth and meaning.&#8217; While the Internet Addiction paradigm is about constructing a pathology to declare our own normalcy, the Internet Asceticism paradigm is constructing the normal, boring, ordinary,\u00a0quotidian blind follower of social media to declare our own special non-use, casting ourselves as a little more real, deep, special, and unique than the rest. And now, as we will see, we have intruded on Bourdieu&#8217;s territory, making for an easy segue:<\/p>\n<p><em>III. Aesthetics<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The third reason for media refusal in\u00a0Portwood-Stacer&#8217;s essay is\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/flowtv.org\/2012\/10\/how-we-talk-about-media-refusal-part-3-aesthetics\/\" target=\"_blank\">aesthetics<\/a>, that we might develop a taste for refusal. The essay rightly points out that while taste is often thought to be something that cannot be helped, it is also a product of one&#8217;s socialization. Boudrieu&#8217;s\u00a0<em>Distinction<\/em> looked specifically at how taste is much like a massive social\u00a0competition,\u00a0a constant recreation of social\u00a0hierarchies\u00a0via taste-declarations and performances, and that all of this has everything to do with class, status, and\u00a0privilege. From\u00a0Portwood-Stacer&#8217;s essay,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Statements like \u201cI don\u2019t even own a TV\u201d rub some people the wrong way precisely because they seem to indict the tastes of those who do enjoy watching television. Even if that\u2019s not what the TV refuser intended, the underlying reification of taste hierarchies is what makes their aesthetic preference seem so hipstery and off-putting.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It takes some amount of priveledge to opt out of certain things, and we can apply this\u00a0\u201casceticism of the privileged\u201d to Facebook as well. To the degree that Facebook is about\u00a0maintaining\u00a0social networks and connections, knowing about the right trends and events, or what Bourdieu called &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Social_capital\" target=\"_blank\">social capital<\/a>,&#8221; then rejecting this capital can itself be a display of privledge (even if it is not always). Brushing off Facebook is sometimes a way of saying &#8216;I don&#8217;t need this common form of connection like everyone else, I am so well-connected I can do without it.&#8217; Being able to navigate a world of complex social networks without Facebook, a platform that\u00a0facilitates\u00a0this process in many social circles, is a profound display of\u00a0privilege and status,\u00a0one that the Facebook abstainer might (consciously or unconsciously) want others to marvel at.<\/p>\n<p>The\u00a0tl;dr of all of this is to move forward in studying media\u00a0refusers,\u00a0social media refusers, Facebook refusers, &#8220;refusenicks&#8221;, etc, and I think we need to begin by shedding the <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2011\/02\/24\/digital-dualism-versus-augmented-reality\/\" target=\"_blank\">digital dualist<\/a>\u00a0&#8220;online&#8221; and &#8220;offline&#8221; conceptualization that &#8220;refusal&#8221; seems to imply. This has four main\u00a0consequences\u00a0for thinking about social media refusal: (1) Social media communication is not something one can be &#8220;addicted&#8221; to any more than offline communication. (2) Because, for many, social media is enmeshed in everyday life we cannot simply blame social problems on the technologies themselves. Nor should we pathologize individuals by victim-blaming ourselves out of taking on the social\u00a0processes\u00a0that create the problems. (3) We should not mistake social media use as the opposite of refusal; on and offline as zero-sum is a common misunderstanding. Getting offline is often what drives the content of what is posted online. (4) Refusal should not be conceptualized as time away from the screen. This is far too literal understanding of social media, it affords too much agency to someone to simply &#8220;opt out,&#8221; and it obscures the fact that refusing the effects of social media is not simply achieved\u00a0by tapping the &#8216;log out&#8217; icon on a screen.<\/p>\n<p>The\u00a0<em>still<\/em> tl;dr is that the Facebook refusal paradigms (1) normalize our social media use by constructing the addict &#8216;other&#8217;; (2) fetishize our social media <em>non<\/em>-use by inventing some pretend pure offline to (3) declare our own special\u00a0privilege\u00a0as someone who doesn&#8217;t\u00a0<em>need<\/em> Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>Note: Boaz rightly observes <a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/2012\/10\/15\/refusing-the-refusenicks-paradigm\/#comment-9994\" target=\"_blank\">in the comments<\/a> that I originally stated that these three are the &#8220;most popular&#8221; frameworks, which is not something I can really support.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/nathanjurgenson\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Follow Nathan on Twitter: @nathanjurgenson<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nathan expands on Laura Portwood Stacer&#8217;s essays on media refusal to think about conceptual errors that should be avoided, especially when discussing Facebook abstainers, or refusenicks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":559,"featured_media":12443,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[9967],"tags":[2257,1311,18523,2624,942,2007,10680,347,2881,140,16155,2954,16001,18521,18522,732,4368],"class_list":["post-12409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-commentary","tag-addiction","tag-bourdieu","tag-disconnect","tag-distinction","tag-facebook","tag-foucault","tag-hipster","tag-identity","tag-illness","tag-internet","tag-irl-fetish","tag-jurgenson","tag-logging-off","tag-refusal","tag-refusenicks","tag-social-media","tag-taste"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/files\/2012\/10\/zucksoover.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12409","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/559"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12409"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12409\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12446,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12409\/revisions\/12446"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12443"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/cyborgology\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}