{"id":7168,"date":"2019-02-07T08:00:10","date_gmt":"2019-02-07T13:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/?p=7168"},"modified":"2019-02-05T17:39:25","modified_gmt":"2019-02-05T22:39:25","slug":"childhood-chores-as-community-obligations-not-monetary-exchanges","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/2019\/02\/07\/childhood-chores-as-community-obligations-not-monetary-exchanges\/","title":{"rendered":"Childhood Chores as Community Obligations, Not Monetary Exchanges"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Photo of a child gardening by OakleyOriginals, Flickr CC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Whether or not children should get an allowance and have responsibilities around the house is a perennial question of parenting in the United States. Even within agreement about allowances, experts debate whether an allowance works best as positive reinforcement for the completion of chores or as a tool to teach children about saving and spending money. Unsurprisingly, when sociologists are asked to weigh in, they focus in on two core themes of sociology: community and inequality. <\/span><\/p>\n

In a recent article<\/a> in <\/span>The Atlantic<\/span><\/i>, <\/span>Heather Beth Johnson<\/span><\/a> hit on both of these themes. She notes that allowance, especially paying children for the completion of chores, is something that happens in affluent households more than non affluent ones. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThis isn\u2019t happening in poor families,\u201d she says. \u201cThey\u2019re not like, \u2018If you take care of your cousins, I\u2019m going to pay you for it.\u2019 It\u2019s just expected that you would take care of your cousins if your cousins needed taking care of.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

That expectation that you do what others require you to do is part of a larger commitment to community. Johnson explains that individuals embedded in society have always had responsibilities to others, particularly to those in their family and other close communities. She worries that when parents frame helping the household as something that is deserving of a reward it may erode commitment to community obligations and increase entitlement among their children. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWhen we pay [kids] to do things that humans have always had to do as participants of communities and families,\u201d she says, \u201cit sends them some sort of a message that they are entitled to [an] exchange for these things.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Parents looking to do things differently may find it useful to look toward anthropology and child development for inspiration, since <\/span>David Lancy<\/span><\/a> has observed an almost universal desire to help in children approximately 18 months of age. Starting young may allow families to foster the expectation of helping others that has been the backbone of communities all over the world. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Whether or not children should get an allowance and have responsibilities around the house is a perennial question of parenting in the United States. Even within agreement about allowances, experts debate whether an allowance works best as positive reinforcement for the completion of chores or as a tool to teach children about saving and spending […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2020,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,55,13],"tags":[112778,35,25210,1598,39112,8959,70,97020,112734,40322,39114,39110,4374,115499,38830,19021],"class_list":["post-7168","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-gender","category-inequality","tag-allowance","tag-children","tag-class-inequality","tag-community","tag-culture","tag-families","tag-family","tag-family-inequality","tag-family-roles","tag-family-values","tag-gender","tag-inequality","tag-parenting","tag-social-class-inequality","tag-socioeconomic-class","tag-socioeconomic-status"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7168","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2020"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7168"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7168\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7172,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7168\/revisions\/7172"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7168"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7168"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7168"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}