{"id":7013,"date":"2018-10-11T08:00:03","date_gmt":"2018-10-11T13:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/?p=7013"},"modified":"2018-10-10T13:29:34","modified_gmt":"2018-10-10T18:29:34","slug":"how-white-parents-decisions-reinforce-racial-inequality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/2018\/10\/11\/how-white-parents-decisions-reinforce-racial-inequality\/","title":{"rendered":"How White Parents&#8217; Decisions Reinforce Racial Inequality"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_7016\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7016\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/usaghumphreys\/7891381628\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7016\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/files\/2018\/10\/7891381628_4b3f6d2889_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"398\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/files\/2018\/10\/7891381628_4b3f6d2889_z.jpg 640w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/files\/2018\/10\/7891381628_4b3f6d2889_z-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7016\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by USAG- Humphreys, Flickr CC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All parents want the best for their children, but what happens when the best for their own child means disadvantaging many more? In <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/family\/archive\/2018\/09\/white-kids-race\/569185\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an article<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> recently published in <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Atlantic<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, sociologist <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sociology.msstate.edu\/people\/margaret-hagerman\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Margaret Hagerman<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> shares the story behind her new book, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/nyupress.org\/books\/9781479803682\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">White Kids: Growing Up With Privilege in a Racially Divided America<\/span><\/i><\/a>.<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> She spent two years interviewing and observing upper-middle-class suburban white families in a midwestern city in the United States with one goal: to find out how white children learn about race. Hagerman spent a significant amount of time with 36 children between the ages of 10 and 13, and analyzed how homework, games, and conversations with friends and family members influenced their interpretations of race. Hagerman says,<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOne of the things I was really struck by was how frequently some of these children used the phrase <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s racist<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re racist<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. They were using this word in contexts that had nothing to do with race: They were playing chess, and they would talk about what color chess pieces they wanted to have, and then one of them would say, \u201cOh, that\u2019s racist\u201d\u2014so things that had to do with colors, but also sometimes just out of the blue, instead of saying, \u201cThat\u2019s stupid.\u201d These kids have taken this phrase, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s racist<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and inverted it in a way such that it\u2019s become meaningless.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hagerman also observed affluent parents calling schools to demand the best teachers in certain topics and pulling their students out of a public school to enroll them in a private one after a \u201cracist incident.\u201d These actions serve as reinforcing agents, propagating the idea that \u201cyour own child is the most important thing\u201d<\/span><b>\u2014<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a belief that Hagerman thinks should be reconsidered by all.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhen affluent white parents are making these decisions about parenting, they could consider in some way at least how their decisions will affect not only their kid, but other kids. This might mean a parent votes for policies that would lead to the best possible outcome for as many kids as possible, but might be less advantageous for their own child&#8230;I don\u2019t have any grand answer, but I think people could think in bigger ways about what it means to care about one another and what it means to actually have a society that cares about kids.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All parents want the best for their children, but what happens when the best for their own child means disadvantaging many more? In an article recently published in The Atlantic, sociologist Margaret Hagerman shares the story behind her new book, White Kids: Growing Up With Privilege in a Racially Divided America. 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