{"id":6894,"date":"2018-06-26T08:00:07","date_gmt":"2018-06-26T13:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/?p=6894"},"modified":"2018-06-25T15:40:45","modified_gmt":"2018-06-25T20:40:45","slug":"the-drain-of-doing-the-dishes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/2018\/06\/26\/the-drain-of-doing-the-dishes\/","title":{"rendered":"The Drain of Doing the Dishes"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_6896\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6896\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/dreamfish\/3125368440\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6896\" src=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/files\/2018\/06\/3125368440_82ba49537d_z.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"533\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/files\/2018\/06\/3125368440_82ba49537d_z.jpg 640w, https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/files\/2018\/06\/3125368440_82ba49537d_z-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 533px) 100vw, 533px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6896\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Dreamfish, Flickr CC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is your least favorite household chore? According to a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/houseworkandrelationshipquality\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">report from the Council on Contemporary Families<\/span><\/a>,\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">recently profiled in <\/span><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/sections\/thesalt\/2018\/05\/18\/611978514\/why-the-cant-he-wash-the-dishes-the-chores-that-can-sink-a-relationship\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">NPR<\/span><\/a><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/family\/archive\/2018\/04\/doing-dishes-is-the-worst\/557087\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Atlantic<\/span><\/a><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, washing dishes is a common answer &#8212; and how they end up getting done could be affecting your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/faculty.utah.edu\/u6007473-Daniel_L._Carlson\/hm\/index.hml\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dan Carlson<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, the study\u2019s lead author, told NPR,<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Most research sees housework as an omnibus thing, but it varies in qualities: how pleasurable or unpleasurable, how often it needs to be done, how gendered it is.&#8221; <\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The team\u2019s research considered whether sharing household tasks within heterosexual couples changed over the past few decades. They found that younger couples share more of the routine household tasks, especially dishwashing and laundry, than couples a decade prior. How couples divide the household labor strongly affects relationship quality &#8212; for better or for worse &#8212; among couples in the more recent cohort. And doing dishes was more likely to affect relationship quality than any other chore. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both in housework and in the labor market women have often done the jobs that involve cleaning up after someone else &#8212; and doing the dishes can be an especially gross job. As more couples share housework, women who feel like they are stuck doing the undesirable chores are more likely to feel disrespected. As Carlson notes,\u00a0<\/span>\u201cThe more often a task is shared, the worse it is for you not to share it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The relationship consequences of dishes aren\u2019t going away, but then again neither are the dishes. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is your least favorite household chore? According to a report from the Council on Contemporary Families,\u00a0recently profiled in NPR and The Atlantic, washing dishes is a common answer &#8212; and how they end up getting done could be affecting your relationship. Dan Carlson, the study\u2019s lead author, told NPR, &#8220;Most research sees housework as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2020,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,55,13],"tags":[17316,39112,105599,105600,8959,70,39114,105602,105598,105597,255,39110,143,97697,20792],"class_list":["post-6894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-gender","category-inequality","tag-chores","tag-culture","tag-dish-washing","tag-doing-the-dishes","tag-families","tag-family","tag-gender","tag-gendered-labor","tag-household","tag-household-labor","tag-housework","tag-inequality","tag-labor","tag-relationship","tag-second-shift"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2020"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6894"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6898,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6894\/revisions\/6898"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}