{"id":5826,"date":"2016-08-09T11:24:19","date_gmt":"2016-08-09T16:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/?p=5826"},"modified":"2016-09-14T09:44:34","modified_gmt":"2016-09-14T14:44:34","slug":"combating-cybercreeps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/2016\/08\/09\/combating-cybercreeps\/","title":{"rendered":"Combating CyberCreeps"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Online dating has grown substantially in both\u00a0<\/span>acceptability and use<\/span><\/a> in the past few years. But because it is still relatively new, Tinder sociologist Jessica Carbino<\/a> says the norms regarding online dating interactions are “very much still being negotiated.” What\u2019s at the top of the list for women? Calling out the harassment they experience from many of their male suitors.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Women are starting to speak out about their <\/span>experience<\/span><\/a>s<\/a> of <\/span>harassmen<\/span><\/a>t<\/a> from men on online dating sites. To combat these uncomfortable advances, some women are coming together to publicly shame men who harass them. <\/span>Fast Company<\/span><\/i><\/a> recently featured an <\/span>article<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>showcasing women’s\u00a0attempts. One woman created an Instagram account called <\/span>Bye Felipe<\/span><\/a>; she compiled screenshots of online chats\u00a0that captured\u00a0uncomfortable messages women receive from men online. Many of the conversations include unwarranted aggression from men, especially after women ignore or reject their advances. Bye Felipe and similar blogs are not the only responses either. Another response is the creation of woman-friendly dating sites. Whitney Wolfe<\/a>, former executive at Tinder, co-founded <\/span>Bumble<\/a><\/span>,<\/span><\/i> which specifically lets women make the first move. <\/span><\/p>\n

So why do men act this way on online dating? Carbino suggests that men\u2019s aggressive advances and behavior may be connected to broader socializing patterns. <\/span>“We do know that when individuals are removed from interactions where they\u2019re in the presence of others, they may act differently \u2014 sometimes more boldly given the relative lack of social accountability,” says Carbino. However, as she’s quick to point out, the same has always been true in the offline world. Apps like Tinder, she notes, provide people with a way to “have a larger degree of contact” with that world.<\/span><\/p>\n

See other ways women are calling out online dating harassment <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Online dating has grown substantially in both\u00a0acceptability and use in the past few years. But because it is still relatively new, Tinder sociologist Jessica Carbino says the norms regarding online dating interactions are “very much still being negotiated.” What\u2019s at the top of the list for women? Calling out the harassment they experience from many […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1957,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,55],"tags":[40337,39112,39114,10414,3193,26591],"class_list":["post-5826","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-gender","tag-bumble","tag-culture","tag-gender","tag-harassment","tag-online-dating","tag-tinder"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5826","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1957"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5826"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5826\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5832,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5826\/revisions\/5832"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5826"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5826"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5826"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}