{"id":3823,"date":"2012-12-06T11:19:14","date_gmt":"2012-12-06T16:19:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/citings\/?p=3823"},"modified":"2012-12-06T11:34:58","modified_gmt":"2012-12-06T16:34:58","slug":"halving-it-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/2012\/12\/06\/halving-it-all\/","title":{"rendered":"“Halving it All”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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On CNN.com, sociologist Michael Kimmel weighs in<\/a> on the veracity of the latest declaration of a “war on men” by author Suzanne Venker (writing for FoxNews.com).<\/p>\n

Rejecting the oh-so-popular tactic Venker employs—\u201cBlame it on feminism!\u201d—Kimmel argues that men still dominate, but attempts at equality may have been disorienting for a group used to a status quo that disproportionately benefits them:<\/p>\n

I thought of how painful it is when you are used to having everything to now have only 80%. What a loss! Poor us! Equality sucks when you’ve been on top—and men have been on top for so long that we think it’s a level playing field.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Sass aside, Kimmel writes that equality is what many men want, based on the interviews he did with young men for his book Guyland: The Perilous World Where Boys Become Men<\/a><\/em>. Kimmel refuses to let Venker speak on men’s behalf when she calls for women to “surrender to their nature—their femininity.” Instead, he<\/em> calls for rethinking what makes forsatisfying gender relations:<\/p>\n

Who says we can’t be happy with fully equal female colleagues and coworkers? Who says we can’t enjoy the joys of shared parenthood? Who says that we are biologically programmed to be both rapacious testosterone-driven animals and lazy remote-hogging couch potatoes unable to lift a finger in the kitchen?<\/p>\n

Venker paints a most unyieldlingly awful portrait of men, one that is happily belied by actual, real, American men. And we won’t stand for the sort of male-bashing Venker offers. We want it all also —and the only way we can have it all is to halve it all.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

On CNN.com, sociologist Michael Kimmel weighs in on the veracity of the latest declaration of a “war on men” by author Suzanne Venker (writing for FoxNews.com). Rejecting the oh-so-popular tactic Venker employs—\u201cBlame it on feminism!\u201d—Kimmel argues that men still dominate, but attempts at equality may have been disorienting for a group used to a status […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1861,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[39074],"tags":[363,39114,17280,17281],"class_list":["post-3823","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sightings","tag-equality","tag-gender","tag-michael-kimmel","tag-war-on-men"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3823","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1861"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3823"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3823\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3841,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3823\/revisions\/3841"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3823"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3823"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/clippings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3823"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}