{"id":778,"date":"2016-06-28T14:36:47","date_gmt":"2016-06-28T19:36:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/?p=778"},"modified":"2016-07-18T11:03:08","modified_gmt":"2016-07-18T16:03:08","slug":"social-policy-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/2016\/06\/28\/social-policy-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Not You, It&#8217;s Social Policy&#8230; ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Before you tell your intimate partners, \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d take a look at the media reactions to two new reports from the <a href=\"http:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/\">Council on Contemporary Families<\/a> released this month, one on <a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/brief-parenting-happiness\/\">parenting<\/a> the other on <a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/sex-equalmarriages\/\">sex<\/a>, and both relating to policy.<\/p>\n<p>Journalists at several outlets including <a href=\"http:\/\/well.blogs.nytimes.com\/2016\/06\/17\/for-u-s-parents-a-troubling-happiness-gap\/?_r=1\">New York Times,<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chicagotribune.com\/lifestyles\/stevens\/ct-parents-happiness-gap-united-states-balancing-0616-20160616-column.html\">Chicago Tribune,<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alternet.org\/culture\/americans-are-most-unhappy-parents-among-developed-countries-and-heres-why\">AlterNet<\/a> reported that there was a reason\u2014that didn\u2019t justify blaming parents\u2014to explain the \u201chappiness gap,\u201d or the fact that parents in the United States, particularly when compared to parents in other countries, were less happy than non-parents. According to CCF expert<a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/experts\/jennifer-glass-ph-d\/\"> Jennifer Glass<\/a>, &#8220;The negative effects of parenthood on happiness were\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/brief-parenting-happiness\/\">entirely\u00a0explained by the presence or absence of social policies<\/a> allowing parents to better combine paid work with family obligations. And this was true for both mothers\u00a0<em>and<\/em>\u00a0<em>fathers<\/em>. Countries with better family policy \u2018packages\u2019 had no happiness gap between parents and non-parents.&#8221; Boston Globe writer Duggan Arnette identified <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bostonglobe.com\/lifestyle\/style\/2016\/06\/21\/parents-report-lower-levels-happiness-than-non-parents-one-culprit-inflexible-work-policies\/GsjS7TNPVz1axup3zimWsK\/story.html\">\u201cpaid sick and vacation leave, child care costs, and work schedule flexibility,\u201d<\/a> or lack thereof, as specific factors that were shown to influence the \u201chappiness gap.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yet the happiness gap is not a <em>universal<\/em> problem, and some countries have addressed it. Quartz journalists Solana Pyne and Michael Tabb created a <a href=\"http:\/\/qz.com\/708438\/the-parenting-happiness-gap-is-real-new-research-confirms\/\">video<\/a> that compares the United States to 22 other countries in terms of parent and non-parent happiness, as well as the availability of various kinds of social supports. The narrator says that \u201cif you\u2019re a working parent,\u201d the reason for the happiness gap \u201cis basically what you\u2019d think.\u201d The happiness gap will seem less inevitable, and its solutions more achievable, however, after seeing visuals comparing the presence of specific policies in countries in which parents are just as happy, if not happier than non-parents, with the\u00a0absence of those policies in the United States, where the happiness gap is the largest.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Pm1Lgb4XoX4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em>What about romantic relationships?<\/em> Emma Lousie-Pritchard of Cosmopolitan UK <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.co.uk\/love-sex\/relationships\/news\/a44158\/to-have-more-sex-couples-have-to-agree-on-this-one-brilliant-rule\/\">reported<\/a> that, \u201cTo have more sex, couples have to agree to this one, brilliant rule.\u201d That rule is dividing household work equally between men and women. CCF expert <a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/experts\/sharon-sassler-phd\/\">Sharon Sassler<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/sex-equalmarriages\/\">reported<\/a> that couples in which men did between one-third and 65% of the housework tended to have more frequent sex. As personal as this sounds, though, there are still policy implications in that progressive work-family policies are a twofer: they are both family-friendly and promote equality in couples.<\/p>\n<p>The notion of the policy twofer was made by Fusion\u2019s Jennifer Gerson Uffalussy. She <a href=\"http:\/\/fusion.net\/story\/315970\/which-presidential-candidate-is-best-for-dads-thomas-perez\/\">cited<\/a> a Department of Labor report to connect Glass and colleagues\u2019 findings on parental happiness with couples\u2019 relationship satisfaction:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dol.gov\/asp\/policy-development\/paternityBrief.pdf\"> \u201cfamilies with fathers who take more leave also share chores and childcare more equally between mothers and fathers<\/a>. So paid leave and equitable paternity leave policies not only give dads the time to be parents, but cause a trickle-down effect of creating greater gender equity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Taking turns and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.iflscience.com\/editors-blog\/couples-who-share-housework-equally-have-more-sex-claims-study\/\">\u201cget[ting] out the toilet bleach and your sexiest pair of rubber gloves\u201d<\/a> might be good relationship advice, but <em>improved work-family policies<\/em> will make it easier for couples to do so equitably, and still have the time and money to spend with their children.<\/p>\n<p>Read the full reports here:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/brief-parenting-happiness\/\">&#8220;Parenting and Happiness in 22 Countries,&#8221;<\/a> by Jennifer Glass, Robin Simon, and Matthew Andersson.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/contemporaryfamilies.org\/sex-equalmarriages\/\">&#8220;A Reversal in Predictors of Sexual Frequency and Satisfaction in Marriage,&#8221;<\/a> Sharon Sassler.<\/p>\n<div class='author-bios author-bios-bottom'>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.unh.edu\/socgrads\/\">Braxton Jones<\/a><\/strong> is a graduate student in sociology at the University of New Hampshire, and serves as a <a href=\"http:\/\/counciloncontemporaryfamilies.org\">CCF&#8217;s<\/a> Graduate Research and Public Affairs Scholar.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you tell your intimate partners, \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d take a look at the media reactions to two new reports from the Council on Contemporary Families released this month, one on parenting the other on sex, and both relating to policy. 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