{"id":3476,"date":"2024-04-09T07:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-09T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/?p=3476"},"modified":"2024-03-11T16:22:56","modified_gmt":"2024-03-11T21:22:56","slug":"want-to-be-seen-as-more-likeable-at-work-take-parental-leave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/2024\/04\/09\/want-to-be-seen-as-more-likeable-at-work-take-parental-leave\/","title":{"rendered":"Want To Be Seen as More Likeable at Work? Take Parental Leave."},"content":{"rendered":"
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It\u2019s nice to be liked\u2014and it even comes with benefits in the workplace. Likeable individuals are seen as nice, sincere, good-natured, and trustworthy, and consequently are more likely to be rewarded at work<\/a>. Likeability is so widely recognized as desirable for workers that nearly every business-focused website has articles providing tips on how to be seen as more likeable<\/a> at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a newly published study in Community, Work & Family<\/em><\/a>, <\/em>we considered whether workers are seen as more likeable when they take longer periods of paid parental leave. While numerous studies document workplace penalties for workers who take paid parental leave (such as assumptions of lower job commitment<\/a>), we anticipated some positive consequences as well that have mostly been overlooked. Specifically, we suspected that parental leave-taking may demonstrate concern and compassion for others and consequently enhance perceived likeability. To test this idea, we conducted a survey experiment involving approximately 1,600 U.S. participants to assess the general public\u2019s perception of how taking paid parental leave affects perceptions of worker likeability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We find that workers are generally perceived as more likeable when they take longer periods of paid parental leave. But, there are some important gender differences. For mothers, likeability increases with each week of paid leave-taking. Consistent with intensive motherhood<\/a> norms, mothers are seen as more likeable when they take longer leaves because they are demonstrating commitment to parenting<\/a> and adhering to broader gender norms. In contrast, fathers are seen as more likeable when they take most, but not all, of the parental leave offered to them. Although fathers are now expected to be engaged parents<\/a>, they are also still expected to be breadwinners. Our findings likely reflect these competing expectations, as fathers are seen as most likeable when they appear to balance both parenting and work obligations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These results provide important nuance to our understanding of workplace consequences associated with parental leave-taking. Americans are largely supportive<\/a> of paid parental leave policies, but remain fearful<\/a> about possible workplace repercussions from taking leave. On one hand, our results could be seen as reinforcing these concerns. Mothers are seen as most likeable when they prioritize family over work which could reinforce gender stereotypes and workplace disadvantages<\/a> for women. And, fathers are indeed penalized if they take especially long periods of paid parental leave. On the other hand, our study demonstrates that there may be positive workplace consequences to leave-taking as well. Knowing this may lead workers to be more willing to take parental leave given that likeability is a desired and rewarded workplace trait. In fact, our analyses also suggest that more likeable workers (both mothers and fathers) are more likely to be recommended for raises and promotions. Thus, expanding access to paid parental leave and encouraging workers to take leave may improve perceived likeability, which may ultimately be beneficial for workers\u2019 careers and help promote gender equality in paid labor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Richard J. Petts<\/em><\/strong> is a Professor of Sociology at Ball State University. You can read more about his research at www.richardpetts.com<\/a><\/em> and can follow him on X @pettsric.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trenton D. Mize<\/em><\/strong> is an Associate Professor of Sociology at Purdue University. You can read more about his research at www.trentonmize.com<\/a><\/em> and can follow him on X @MizeTrenton.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gayle Kaufman<\/em><\/strong> is Nancy and Erwin Maddrey Professor of Sociology and Gender & Sexuality Studies at Davidson College. You can read more about their research at www.gaylekaufman.com<\/a><\/em> and can follow them on X @gakaufman22.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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It\u2019s nice to be liked\u2014and it even comes with benefits in the workplace. Likeable individuals are seen as nice, sincere, good-natured, and trustworthy, and consequently are more likely to be rewarded at work. Likeability is so widely recognized as desirable for workers that nearly every business-focused website has articles providing tips on how to be […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2124,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2124"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3476"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3476\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3479,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3476\/revisions\/3479"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}