{"id":1907,"date":"2019-02-26T08:17:28","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T14:17:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/?p=1907"},"modified":"2019-02-26T08:17:28","modified_gmt":"2019-02-26T14:17:28","slug":"does-cooperative-divorced-coparenting-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesocietypages.org\/ccf\/2019\/02\/26\/does-cooperative-divorced-coparenting-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Does Cooperative Divorced Coparenting Matter?"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we began the research for our article on divorced coparenting and parent-youth relationships (to be published in the Journal of Family Issues), <\/em>our\u00a0expectation was the\u00a0common sense notion that children will experience fewer negative effects when their parents can cooperatively share parenting responsibilities following divorce. That was not what we found, however.<\/p>\n

In our survey of almost 400 divorced individuals with at least one child between the ages of 10 and 18, we asked about their current coparenting experiences with former spouses and their relationships with one of their children (a so-called “target” child).<\/p>\n

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Types of Coparenting Relationships between Former Spouses<\/strong><\/p>\n

We expected that positive and cooperative coparental relationships would result in more positive parent-child relationships. Clustering coparenting participants into distinct groups based on their communication, cooperation, and conflict, we identified three types of coparenting: (1) Cooperative, (2) Moderately Engaged, and (3) Conflictual and Disengaged. Cooperative parents (41% of the parents in our sample) had the highest scores on communication and cooperation and the lowest scores on conflict. The Conflictual and Disengaged (16% of parents) had the lowest communication and cooperation scores and the highest levels of conflict. Moderately Engaged (43% of parents) were in the middle. These groups were similar to groups of parents identified in other studies (for example, Amato and colleagues, 2011; Beckmeyer and colleagues, 2014).<\/p>\n

We expected to find significant differences between the three coparenting types in parental warmth and closeness, parents’ knowledge about their children\u2019s daily lives, and inconsistent discipline, but we did not. Our results may indicate that divorced parents can compartmentalize their relationships with former spouses from their relationships with their children. If true, then perhaps higher conflict relationships with former spouses may have minimal effects on their relationships with their children. This can be viewed as both positive and negative. It may be that divorced parents that have conflictual or disengaged coparenting partners can keep those feelings separate from how they interact with and parent their children. On the other hand, parent-child relationships seem to not benefit when former spouses are able to establish cooperative coparenting.<\/p>\n

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Most states require divorcing parents to attend divorce education programs<\/a>. The content, length, and delivery of these programs can vastly differ from state-to-state, but these programs are often based on the same assumption as our study; that cooperative coparenting between former spouses will support positive outcomes in the children. Others, though, provide some evidence that cooperation is difficult to sustain among divorced parents. Our results provide some support that children may not be impacted by disengaged or conflictual coparenting and call for a deeper look into how different types of coparenting (i.e., cooperative, parallel) may be beneficial. Divorce education programs should also ensure that they are addressing contact between parents and children.<\/p>\n

Obviously, more research is needed on the effects of coparenting \u201cstyles\u201d and children\u2019s wellbeing. We call for researchers and parent educators to explore how angry and uncooperative parents manage to raise children as effectively as coparents who seem to be working together well. Maybe it is the quality of the coparents\u2019 relationships with their children that matters the most after divorce, and not their relationships with each other.<\/p>\n

Further Readings<\/strong><\/p>\n

Beckmeyer, J. J., Coleman, M., & Ganong, L. H. (2014). Postdivorce coparenting typologies and children\u2019s adjustment. Family Relations, 63<\/em>, 526-537.<\/p>\n

Ganong, L. H., Coleman, M., Jamison, T., Feistman, R., & Markham, M. S.<\/strong> (2012). Communication technology and post-divorce coparenting. Family Relations, 61, <\/em>397-409.<\/p>\n

Markham, M. S., Hartenstein, J. L., Mitchell, Y. T., & Aljayyousi-Khalil, G. (2017). Communication among parents who share physical custody after divorce or separation. Journal of Family Issues, 38, <\/em>1414-1442.<\/p>\n

Troilo, J. (2016). Conceptualizations of divorced fathers and interventions to support involvement. Journal of Divorce and Remarriage, 5, <\/em>299 \u2013 316. \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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Jessica Troilo is an Associate Professor and Graduate Program Coordinator of Child Development and Family Studies in the Department of\u00a0Learning Sciences and Human Development at West Virginia University. Jonathon Beckmeyer is an Assistant Professor of Human Development and Family Studies in the School of Public Health, Indiana University. Melinda Markham is an Associate Professor and Director of Graduate Studies of the Department of Human Development and Family Studies at Kansas State University.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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