Frankly, if you’re feeling a lot of “pressure” to “perform” then you’re doing it wrong (unless you’re an actual performer on stage or something, that is). It helps to remember that it’s supposed to be fun.

“knowing that there is a cultural movement called pornography that shows people like you being cut up, murdered, having objects and tools like knives and swords jammed into your genitals,”

Look, I’ve been looking at porno since I was 12 years old, and I have NEVER seen pornography that involves women being impaled on swords or knives! Nor do I know any guys who are into porno like that!

I’m not saying that it doesn’t exist – but THAT IS EXTREME FETISH PORN not the porno mainstream!

Your statement implies that ALL porn involves women being vaginally impaled – and that’s just not true!

http://tinyurl.com/y8qhsn2

BTW: Thanks for showing me that the ‘woman’ discussed in that link does in fact serve a useful purpose since she can potentially spare more animated women the experience of ‘dating’ you so long as you can tolerate a blond. On the other hand (so to speak), you can skip that link if you actually want to date an orangutan (hard to tell from your post).